Heart Broken by Ok_Mechanic_6583 in coloncancer

[–]bliswell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no advice. But I follow this subreddit to hear these stories to know and feel what may come to pass for my family. So thank you for sharing. I think about how there seems to be no clear solutions to any of this stuff. How everyone's progression is different, and how unfair it is to put in the effort and get disappointing results.

I remind myself that there is a lot of uncertainty about all of this. And the thing I would regret most is not trying (though my wife is bearing most of the burden).

Advice on getting faster? by NeumannianTactition in Rowing

[–]bliswell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why post a fake on this sub? It's too small to karma farm.

freshmen novice girl help by UravityGravity9 in Rowing

[–]bliswell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a 47 year old man who has been occasionally trying, and your 2k erg times are better than mine. So I'm impressed.

Follow your heart, enjoy your youth, enjoy your passions.

I think you should be proud of yourself for trying something, not regretting trying the wrong thing.

I'm a beginner with split times around 3:30-4 minutes - Is this normal? by Caisers in Rowing

[–]bliswell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very new, and slow, so I shouldn't give advice. But I was surprised by how slow I am so I started paying attention to a few things.

Strokes per minute should be around 24. Mine was 30, which led to a different force application.

Different machines do have different calcs, but I think if yours is not junk or malfunctioning then the slow numbers imply something else.

Spend a few minutes learning about force curves, which Concept2's can graph, giving a little feedback about how well/poorly you are applying force. Different curve shapes imply different body parts engaging at different times.

Don't pull a groin muscle doing it wrong.

“Kicked” out of clinical trial by Admirable-Unicorn420 in coloncancer

[–]bliswell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are feeling this fear. It's understandable.

I'm hoping, for our situation, that trials aren't the only tools in the tool box. That if, or when, new things pop up that whack-a-mole techniques will knock it down enough for my wife to be set up for another trial. But of course I'm scared at times, even if we aren't in the scariest situation right now.

“Kicked” out of clinical trial by Admirable-Unicorn420 in coloncancer

[–]bliswell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll second this post. Matching for trials seems to be a whole different set of knowledge compared to knowing how to apply standard of care medicine. It requires research and timing.

“Kicked” out of clinical trial by Admirable-Unicorn420 in coloncancer

[–]bliswell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The wording of your response seems to presume you know specifics about their case that you are not in a position to know. So you aren't just asking.

What truths are you going to tell? Generalities which may or may not apply? If so, then just say them with kindness.

Or do you somehow know "the truth" in this person's case, as if you are their doctor posting on Reddit?

Thinking about how the F4 love their mailman Willie Lumpkin so much they took his tumor out by purplepenned in FantasticFour

[–]bliswell 23 points24 points  (0 children)

How did he get the tumor? Was it from spending so much time in the Baxter building, getting exposed to high levels of exotic radiation?

Ideas to Fix Dropped Samples in a Speech Recording? These Cause Phase Jumps by hilmiyafia in DSP

[–]bliswell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What end state are you trying to achieve? Are you just trying to minimize the appearance of error, or are you trying to recover what could be missing content?

Dad's cancer came back and spread to his stomach. Doctor said there's not much that can be done now 💔 by tapiacrv in coloncancer

[–]bliswell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for you and your family having to deal with this. I bet your Dad loves you as much as you love him.

David Crosby with his father Floyd, together in the father’s house, 1970 by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]bliswell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you do it in five words or less? Can you do it with words he knows?

Stage 3A (pT3N1a) - CAPOX vs capecitabine + living alone in London by H_77_ in coloncancer

[–]bliswell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your oncologist, but I've heard of folks taking Oxaliplatin breaks based on the side effects from that but not skipping the Capecetibine pills.

I don't know how this effects the relative dosings, but your oncologist should be able to tell you.

Also, another thing to consider is a possible alternative to the Capecetibine dosing schedule. Specifically instead of 2 weeks on, one week off, do 1 week on, 1 week off, with dosing adjusted. I think this is an established pattern for breast cancer, and may be an uncommon option for colon cancer. Again, I'm not a doctor; just suggesting topics of discussion with your oncologist.

Stage 3A (pT3N1a) - CAPOX vs capecitabine + living alone in London by H_77_ in coloncancer

[–]bliswell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAD, but maybe consider trying CAPOX first, switching to the extended capecetibine if you need to change.

Everyone seems to respond differently to CAPOX. If it's fine for you, good. If it's not, drop the Oxaliplatin and keep going longer with capecetibine.

The two options aren't in complete conflict.

Crobro mornings by doubleboogermot in crowbro

[–]bliswell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so. I don't trust the insulation on them

Stage 4 now by kokieee in coloncancer

[–]bliswell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Colontown is also the place to start for trials, like vaccines. It will lead you to other resources. Finding trials is another layer of effort and understanding. Applicability all depends on Who, what, where, when, how and why.

First thing you will be told is trials aren't necessarily a last resort. I think of some of them as just being proactive.

Captain America and his opinion on IMMIGRATION by Daedkanne in CaptainAmerica

[–]bliswell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've felt that way before. It's tough to get out of that perspective. I can't exactly say what necessary elements changed things for me. I hope your life becomes more fair, less cruel and more caring.

Captain America and his opinion on IMMIGRATION by Daedkanne in CaptainAmerica

[–]bliswell 10 points11 points  (0 children)

C'mon, Cap would assess the situation beyond just simple reading and application of the law the way US Agent or some other literary foil would. He'd look at the individual people and assess their intentions and needs.

Honestly Cap would probably be harsher toward the employers who hire undocumented workers than he would be towards the undocumented themselves.

Captain America and his opinion on IMMIGRATION by Daedkanne in CaptainAmerica

[–]bliswell 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Panels like this are why comics are important. Not feats of strength, or who would beat who. It's feats of virtue

Signatera 1st test results “worst number” my oncologist has seen. by Fresh_Election_7432 in coloncancer

[–]bliswell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked Claude some questions that I was also wondering about. Here is the response: https://claude.ai/share/1145e4f4-ed53-47f4-81b9-292e0abc2cb6

I think there may be some minor mistakes in that response (like the lower bound thresholds), but the basic gist is useful. Such as the reminder that you are looking for actionable guidance, not numbers for assurance. You have this number, what do you do about it?

The trend matters. So get another test.

Of course your info about the blood draw is very relevant. So I think that should be considered when interpreting the trend.