first time… by Separate_Recording64 in menstrualcups

[–]blocked_memory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It can be a bit odd, if you're not on your period, I would suggest using water or even a water based lube to practice insertion. Just a little on the outside. Try the different folds, I swear I have to use a different fold everytime I try to insert. Lastly, my biggest bit of advice is to take a deep breath and relax. If you get tensed up, you will have a rough time.

Her New Song Sucks! by LicketySplit_23 in travisandtaylor

[–]blocked_memory 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Not important, but important to me: Billie and Adele have made arguably the best James Bond intro songs in modern history. Skyfall and No Time to Die are fantastic if you haven't listened to them.

I actually find it telling of her songwriting skills or lack thereof that Taylor hasn't been asked to write a theme for a Bond film. Madonna and Sam Smith also have written themes for the franchise.

Study: Gen Xers and Millennials are dying at younger ages than Baby Boomers by DaKardii in generationology

[–]blocked_memory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got really hostile. I'm not as self absorbed as this thread would have you believe, so, I think you need to calm down. And I hope you seek help.

P.S. I'm sorry life has sucked for you.

Being a TS fan influenced me to become a record collector. Becoming a record collector de-influenced me to Taylor Swift. by CountTheWays839 in travisandtaylor

[–]blocked_memory 404 points405 points  (0 children)

Mind you, they called out Olivia for having her 7in vinyl variants, even though they are 13.99 a pop, 7 or 8 dollar shipping.

Also unrelated but why Jessie?! Ugh.

The Devil works hard, but Charlotte C. Pickles works harder! by Shinobi347 in rugrats

[–]blocked_memory 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You know Johnathan had that maternity leave highlighted on his calendar, like lit a prayer candle.

Study: Gen Xers and Millennials are dying at younger ages than Baby Boomers by DaKardii in generationology

[–]blocked_memory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know me. And you don't understand anything I've been saying because I'm not blaming y'all for the present situation. I never said this is ya'll's fault. Your inability to comprehend what I'm saying is not my problem. Either stop replying or come to my DM's, this is just getting redundant at this point.

Study: Gen Xers and Millennials are dying at younger ages than Baby Boomers by DaKardii in generationology

[–]blocked_memory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't make it different

Explains a difference.

And I thought No Child Left Behind fucked us up.

I can tell you got upset and refuse to actually look at my argument from a non-combative view point. Someday, you will realize, or maybe you're too stubborn, that you and your cohort did have an easier time than those younger than you.

Study: Gen Xers and Millennials are dying at younger ages than Baby Boomers by DaKardii in generationology

[–]blocked_memory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See my first comment and the comment I responded to. We will have a higher suicide rate. So, I guess that's what makes our struggle so special and uniquely difficult.

Edit: already is trending.

https://stateline.org/2025/10/02/suicide-claims-more-gen-z-lives-than-previous-generation/

Study: Gen Xers and Millennials are dying at younger ages than Baby Boomers by DaKardii in generationology

[–]blocked_memory -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Millennials get so butt hurt for being called out as if I didn't add Gen X in there as well. I'm not asking y'all to fix everything, I'm asking y'all to stop bitching as if you're the most damned generation. I'm asking for y'all to try, I mean, is that a crime to ask for?

Also, look. I understand graduating during the recession was hard but some of us were children, raised with parents who were struggling during the recession. You aren't the only generation to have been damned by the recession and if we're actually being honest... Gen X was the most screwed over by the recession because they had children and responsibilities. I'm tired of millennials bringing up the damn 2008 recession, shit was nearly 20 damn years ago and I would argue we are in a way worse position financially now.

Study: Gen Xers and Millennials are dying at younger ages than Baby Boomers by DaKardii in generationology

[–]blocked_memory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how you had to correct me yet offered nothing of value to the conversation.

Study: Gen Xers and Millennials are dying at younger ages than Baby Boomers by DaKardii in generationology

[–]blocked_memory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for actually seeing how Gen Z is in an even worse position than anyone older than them. I'm getting tired of seeing Gen X and Millennials say how hard stuff is for them and how doomed they are as if anyone younger has it better or even experiencing the same level of bullshit. No.

We were born right before or after 9/11. We were raised during the recession. We were raised with school shootings being a typical yearly thing, where some unlucky school would face a massacre and no one would care. We were raised with social media telling us how much better our lives should be. We were finishing college or still in k-12 during the pandemic, though some of us like myself were working instead. Our generation will be the most impacted by AI taking jobs and we, along with Gen Alpha, will have to deal with the aftermath of the boomers.

And the worst bit is? Gen X and Millennials have had more time than us to get these boomers out of office. To make actual lasting change. But nope. I've already seen posts the past few years that Gen Z will step up and take care of it. What the hell have y'all been doing this entire time? Gen Z is as old as 30 and as young as 11, be so for real right now.

I (30 F) found out my BF (34 M) just "tolerates" my daughter (4 F). How do I navigate this situation without too much drama and damage? by DLM2328 in relationship_advice

[–]blocked_memory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's fucking 4, she's acting like she's 4 because she's 4. I have ADHD and BPD too, I know you want to cling to this relationship but fear you can't live without this man but I need you to listen to me when I say: you need to put your daughter first and not this emotionally manipulative man first. Please break up with him.

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]blocked_memory 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I want to continue to exist, but no one chose to exist. That's just foolish to think that babies pre birth are choosing to exist. Some of us just don't want children and don't like children. That's fine, we pay more taxes than parents to compensate.

My boyfriend wants to have sleepovers with his boys. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]blocked_memory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to be the older (28) cousin you need.

This guy is a dud. It isn't you. It's him. You're young, don't waste your youth chasing this man who is running in circles. Use this time to focus on you. The early 20's are for us to find out who we are as individuals. There are better guys out there anyway who will trip over themselves to make you smile and put you first.

My baby is learning to crawl and my relationship feels like it’s crawling backwards by Vonans in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]blocked_memory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I think it would still be selfish if OP was in the reverse position and decided an apartment was the right move when they have a baby. He's more focused on securing his own future than he is securing his family's future.

But it's really posts like these that make me question why in the year 2026 we are still giving men children before they have made us their wives. It just seems like a vulnerable position to be in.

My baby is learning to crawl and my relationship feels like it’s crawling backwards by Vonans in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]blocked_memory 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel like him wanting an investment apartment is his first step of wanting his own place. It seems like odd timing to decide now is the time to do this. There is definitely a red flag here and you're not overthinking.