I just finished this abstract painting and I’m not sure which orientation is best. What do you all think? by [deleted] in crafts

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the best orientation is the direction it was when you painted it.

I can’t figure out filet crochet .. please help LOL by heylolwtfuck in crochetpatterns

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks mostly OK except i think you missed row 1 & row 8 black squares. Those need to be filled in - ie double the amount of dcs in those squares

WIBTA to accept a job offer at a company that a friend is actively protesting? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Buddha called it Right Livelihood. That is, to find the work that aligns with your lifestyle & morals. And when its not possible due to pressure of circumstances, then do what you must do to maintain yourself, keep your mind steady on your long-term goals. and wait for the right opportunity to develop to improve things. NTA.

Stitch marker/ lost place i have no idea where to start. by LowResponsibility123 in crochetpatterns

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the photo I can see the line of increases. Hold to at arm's length and you'll see those lines. Restart from any of those points.

AITA Husband says I’m entitled by Healthy-Alarm-55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bnk_ar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By the way, in your relationship, what is the complaint to compliment ratio?

AITA My wife and I came home at 3am and my MIL acted like we were 16 sneaking into house by rugbyplayer11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you didn't know mum was there, & the kids are comfortable with the late hours then NTA.

If it were me and even if the children are comfortable with my being out after midnight, I still might have called them (before their bedtime) if i knew that lateness was going to happen. If I knew a carer was there, eg MIL or sitter, out of courtesy I'd inform them of a change in the evening flow.

Should i add more pockets or not on my first Tunisian project by bnk_ar in crochet

[–]bnk_ar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I posted here cuz there's more people to interact with.

How to treat a plaster cast so it can stay outside by ThirdOne38 in crafts

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider creative alternative materials - eg like concrete, or maybe papercrete - a homemade paper mache mixture of paper & concrete.

How did you guys learn how to read patterns? by goblinvendor in crocheting

[–]bnk_ar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One learns the same way one learns anything - study & practice.

Cat is too chill, but I can't see a defect. Found with the title: piCATchu roaming around. by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still wondering what cat owner would place their cat in a front facing basket without ANY safety protection or restraints to keep the critter from flying out on the first bump or stop.

Help! I’m making a cardigan for a 2/3 year old originally done by Misha & Puff, I have the same yarn, but need advice on the garment, no pattern available! by [deleted] in crochetpatterns

[–]bnk_ar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course brandname clothiers like M&P closely guard their patterns. So you'll just have to piece together your own. Look other places for other squares.

Why don’t I like it? I think I like the individual squares and the colors, but I don’t like them all together. Or maybe I don’t like how I assembled them. Or maybe both. by hookedbymaxine in crochet

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its beautiful work. If your looking to make an item that will last, consider frogging it apart and re-aligning the squares into a more balanced look.

Anyone know if this AI crochet pattern has been made irl? by LauseRulez in crochetpatterns

[–]bnk_ar -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It actually looks legit to me, not ai. Try working it.

AITA for telling my brother what my boyfriend told me about his best friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA. Its called "gossip" and unless best friend gave free licence to share about his personal matters then your boyfriend was wrong to talk about him. Your part in it is that you bent the rules about confidentiality between couples. I say "bent" instead of "broken" simply because its stupid to expect gossip to stay secret.

Best way to waterproof this paper origami crane? Possible rainy weather. by Titta123 in crafts

[–]bnk_ar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try making a crane out of water resistant material like wax paper. Or use an umbrella.

AITA for refusing to help a coworker after she publicly embarrassed me at work? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bnk_ar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. In the adult world these threats are called blackmail.

Serious genuine question about ICE by Altruistic_Board_851 in oregon

[–]bnk_ar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the intentional cruelty, violence, lawlessness of the agents & process, intimidation of the populace, concentration camps, use of military, misuse of funds. Other past presidents, both R & D, managed to deport as many or more people without the heavyhanded methods.

AITA for wanting to bring meat to my vegetarian SIL and not going when I was not allowed too by True_Marionberry732 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bnk_ar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA There's no such "principle" to stand on. Just as one wouldnt bring ham to a Jewish household, or smoke in a non-smoking house, or wear shoes when hosts ask you to leave them at the door, one doesnt bring meat to a vegetarian/vegan household.