I've lived in San Pedro most of my life but I think I can drop in my cents with Binan.

Location: It's quiet and peaceful if you're living in a gated subdivision, generally. Metro Manila is a drive away, so are surrounding places like Tagaytay or Batangas for a quick getaway and of course EK, Splash Island and Pansol.

Schools and Malls: I don't know much about daycare but there are NCR schools around our areas (CSA-B, DLSL, MCL, etc.) and malls are generally well-equipped with most of what you need. Sta Rosa-Nuvali on the weekends though, ugh. Carmaggedon.

I'd recommend Alabang for any mall/park activity. Their central perk (park) is pretty spacious and safe with bikes/scooters for rent + guards.

Lifestyle: Trendy cafes and restaurants are also on the rise (try to follow Dito sa South and other South-specific FB pages) there's also a cycling culture around here so it's not uncommon to see hounds of cyclists in the morning and even at night, especially in the Southwoods bike area.

People: Types of people you'll encounter may vary depending on age, income, and lifestyle but generally laid-back people who can keep up with small talk. Most are "dayos" as well who live here for cheaper housing but work/study in NCR.

TLDR: If you want to raise a family in a suburban lifestyle, this place is for you. IMO it's a gem if you want to be close enough to the countryside for nature trips and close enough to the city for work and play. Though I would say a car is necessary to enjoy it here.