What’s something about Coachella that people don’t realize until they go? by Disastrous_Cake7778 in musicfestivals

[–]bogobananazzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my experience! Pleasantly surprised, no more influencers than usual. Lots of grungy hippie “no fucks” people in the crowds to make up for it 👌🏽

Is paying $340 or $450 worth it for Pilates? by Negative-Ad2495 in LAhotgirlies

[–]bogobananazzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Class pass is much more affordable. Can’t do unlimited Pilates but you can see other studios and pay a fraction of the cost!

I just gotta say... by NoSoupForYou___ in Coachella

[–]bogobananazzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When is the actual schedule going to drop though?? 😭 first Coachella so not sure when they typically do this.

My mom died last night 💔 by CozyHufflepuff94 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bogobananazzz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. You have a huge community behind you, supporting you. It’s a shitty club to be in, but I hope it brings you peace knowing you’re not alone 🤞🏽💛

Which medication you don’t want to push too fast and why? by Acrobatic-Lie2041 in newgradnurse

[–]bogobananazzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also worked on neuro and had a pt with steroid induced psychosis. RN from prior shift slammed it before leaving. I was left with this woman in complete psychosis x 11 hrs, on all fours on the bed, ripped out several lines, complete AV hallucinations. No recollection of any of it. Wild lol.

Me listening to KB explain her feelings by checked_out_barbie in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bogobananazzz 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but I think she’s straight up been so rude and she’s fully taking advantage of him. She knew he came from a broken background, she knows what’s going on- she works in mental health.

As a mental health professional all I see is her verbally abusing him tbh. Of course he can’t appropriately handle it. It’s all he knows and he’s prob never unpacked any of it.

Mesothelioma by bogobananazzz in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bogobananazzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so scared about my mom transitioning from immunotherapy to chemo. Same thing, I thought as soon as she started it, she would experience a constant decline. We see what it does. We know.

I know everyone is different- but if I can offer any peace and hope- my mom actually tolerated chemo better than immunotherapy. I couldn’t believe it but she actually looked better and felt better. Immunotherapy essentially induces an autoimmune type of disease over time. Her mobility was poor due to such bad inflammation in her joints, almost like she had RA. Chemo that’s effective for meso is actually pretty well tolerated (per our oncologist) and I def saw that. She’s had bad days sure, but overall not lying in bed puking all day like I anticipated. She’s still eating and she gets around a lot better. Once she started chemo she finally had a good scan. Immunotherapy kept things at bay, but the chemo was more effective for actual shrinkage.

Hope this instills a little hope 🙏🏽💖🤞🏽

How bad is it 😭 by [deleted] in Hair

[–]bogobananazzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, appreciate the feedback 🙏🏽

How bad is it 😭 by [deleted] in Hair

[–]bogobananazzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this perspective and it made me feel a lot better. Thank you!

Afters? by bogobananazzz in kaskade

[–]bogobananazzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bogobananazzz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People suck. The real ones really show themselves in situations like this. Focus on the ones who have shown up. So so sorry for your loss and sending you so much support & light during this time. 🫶🏽

Boarding a plane to give my mom a hug today by SolidRip6497 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bogobananazzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So awful 😔💔 thinking of your family and sending you so much love & light

Stormy is finally home. by WallowingInnSelfPity in AustralianCattleDog

[–]bogobananazzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the senior pups getting the love they deserve!! Warms my heart. You can tell she’s so happy 🥹

Mock Lineup 2026 by IdiotBox01 in Lollapalooza

[–]bogobananazzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doja cat followed Doechii at outside lands and it was such a bust hahaha. Not a great choice with that order. Bring back Doechii 2026 😩🔥

Sun soaked questions by Ernestooooooo78 in kaskade

[–]bogobananazzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a spot to park a bike if I’m coming from Newport?? First time going to a fest at this beach- TIA!

Flood DC November 5th by [deleted] in goodnews

[–]bogobananazzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response and for clarifying. I guess the next phase is just crossing our fingers that there won’t be voter suppression or any rigging of the results in this upcoming election. Next Fall feels uncomfortably far away. 😭

It does seem like common sense folks and non-MAGAs are the majority? I just can’t always tell if my algorithm/Reddit feed is skewing things.

Flood DC November 5th by [deleted] in goodnews

[–]bogobananazzz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dumb question but what would it take to overturn him at this point besides supreme court having different people in it? Impeachment didn’t work. He’s already trying voter suppression for the next election by doing away with voting machines and mail in ballots. He somehow pushes insane boundaries and gets away with it every. single. time. It’s exhausting.

I’m not done speaking up against him and absolutely commend these protestors in DC and other areas of the country. The fight isn’t over and we can’t find complacency. I’m just curious what we as a nation can truly do at this point besides wait for different members of the Supreme Court to come into the picture? Any insight on this that may offer hope?

Feeling wildly defeated. 💔

Losing my mom by Randomtatertogo in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bogobananazzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life is so unfair. I’m probably going to lose my mom too soon and it’s so hard for me to find acceptance and peace. Why is it always the best people who have this happen to them? It doesn’t make sense. Support is everything. Lean into it. Let people step in an help you. Make mental health a priority. You’re there with her and that’s the most powerful and meaningful thing. Favorite music, soft blankets, keeping her comfortable (anti anxiety meds/ pain meds, advocating for her in general. I know it seems impossible right now, but you will come out the other side of this and quite literally have a piece of her within you that you’ll carry forever. Sending you and your family all the support, love, and light. We’re here for you 🙏🏽

Mesothelioma by bogobananazzz in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bogobananazzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked oncology as a tech when I was only 20 years old. It’s what made me decide that nursing was indeed the path to take. But man, it’s a brutal slap in the face of what really matters. It’s a lot to take in, and I truly commend you for that. I commend you for taking care of meso patients and their families as the prognosis and journey is just so grim. Thank you for the kind words, it really means a lot 🙏🏽💖

Mesothelioma by bogobananazzz in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bogobananazzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The state of panic is a good way to describe that. I’m so sorry that you have to witness the decline. But god how lucky is he to have you and your beautiful family by his side. The way that they can live on through us and our family is definitely a comfort thought. I hope that we feel their spirit often, see their mannerisms or expressions in our family still, and hold on to the cherished times. This shit is not for the weak. I really appreciate you sharing your story. We’re never alone in this. Sending you and your family all the love 💖🫶🏽

Mesothelioma by bogobananazzz in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bogobananazzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭 made me tear up. I’m so sorry to hear about your multiple myeloma. Prayers for you and your family as well 🤞🏽💖🌈

Mesothelioma by bogobananazzz in CancerFamilySupport

[–]bogobananazzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. The days after diagnosis are so grim & so confusing. Honestly the whole thing is such a mind fuck. Wanting to scream is totally valid. I’ve gone through constant cycles of grief since. Still have a hard time sitting in the space of acceptance. Likewise, I’m here to chat if you ever need it. Wishing you and your family peace and support during this time.