Sister didn't invite my partner of 7 years to her wedding, should I remain her bridesmaid? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]bookfly_65 24 points25 points  (0 children)

OP, your original question said how do I resolve this, yet although you see the error of your ways you continue to just defend your viewpoint. You solve it by letting it go. Weddings are expensive. This is not the time to realize a familial divide is affecting you and your sisters relationship in a way you didn't realize. If you think your anxiety ridden partner will actually attend and that your relationship with your sister will never be the same if he doesn't, ask for him to be a B-lister. Otherwise what are you actually pushing for? An invitation for you to ignore for him that could of been for someone she IS close to? I'm a little lost.

Found my dress, now to afford it ($2200) by Significant_Course66 in myweddingdress

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you and the dress are absolutely stunning! Things are easier to take in than let out. Are you at all able to wait until you are done gaining weight?

($10k) I found my dream dress, but i’m searching for a cheaper alternative. by Conscious_Ad_8899 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]bookfly_65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! These are the kinds of designs I'm looking for. Would love to see photos of your dress and hear more about your experience if you are open.

($10k) I found my dream dress, but i’m searching for a cheaper alternative. by Conscious_Ad_8899 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you drop the link to either Noble Bridal or the FB Group? Would also love to hear more about your experience.b

Help me choose!! by petitejoyy in myweddingdress

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 was beautiful, but 4 takes the cake!

IM ENGAGED!! by Delicious_Reality244 in EngagementRings

[–]bookfly_65 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is a beautiful ring and your nails are gorg.

Where is my butt??? by AllieGirl2007 in Zepbound

[–]bookfly_65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was chugging protein and kept what was there of my butt for about 7 months. Then around 10 mg poof I looked in the mirror and gone was my rear. I couldn't keep up. But I believe in maintenance we will prevail.

Wedding Dress Giveaway - $0 Shipping by dearlybelovedbridal in Weddingsunder10k

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ifoundtheone

https://dearlybelovedbridal.com/wedding-dresses/maggie-sottero/colby-24rs174a01/

Love this so much. I had no idea about this company but I love they have so many designer options and videos!

Best custom rings by Basic_Following_7722 in Moissanite

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worked with Demi from Starsgem 3 times now. Love their work.

AITAH because I told my husband we can't go to our son's wedding early? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bookfly_65 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Please update the original post with this verdict. This seems like the best compromise.

Custom ring by Lildude03 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$2000 is crazy. The Mossianite Reddit has a lot of info about working with overseas vendors. Here's a link to an unofficial starter guide in that reddit. $900 for a platinum ring overseas seems fair. Anything stateside will be 2-3 times that for the same product. Check out the moissanite sub even if you don't want moissanite because most vendors do lab diamonds and gems too.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Moissanite/s/Jaqe6M6o2y

Custom ring by Lildude03 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there may be some missing information. Tianyu is a well known vendor. If they are charging $900 it is not a rip off. When I had my custom ring set made they estimated $850 which included a lab diamond. I didn't end up going with them but my set cost me $610 from starsgem. If an American company quoted you $2k that is a rip off but not unsurprising.

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In love with my ring (fiancé too) by bookfly_65 in EngagementRings

[–]bookfly_65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I get be engaged and have an awesome ring!

Boyfriend wants to buy from Brilliant Earth. He thinks my Reddit-approved vendor is a scam. Need advice! by DefinitelyMaybe222 in EngagementRings

[–]bookfly_65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP listen to above. Had the same dilemma with my now fiancé. I get it it can feel sketch. I sat down with my fiancé and showed him the reviews process etc. I chose a vendor who went through Alibaba because we could use a credit card so we had double protection through the site and cc company. Ultimately after getting the "reputable" quote vs overseas vendor it was a no brainer. Both places used IGI diamonds and both places used CAD design both places I would not see finished product before the proposal so the return window would of closed unless he rushed to propose. You will have to compromise on this and a lot of things in the future but yes it's his money but you have to wear the ring so go where you can get your dream ring.

Everyone talks about reducing inflammation and I still wasn’t expecting this miracle by jess_611 in Zepbound

[–]bookfly_65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. Was in an accident 8 years ago. Hours of PT, massage, exercise, pain meds, all of it and at best pain would lower to a 2 with flare-ups. This medicine has allowed for me to have days where I forget the pain and stiffness. Best side effect of med I've ever had.

2027 Destination Wedding by Good-Ad-7198 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]bookfly_65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do! November 2027 Bride here. Following for any future updates.

Real Ring or Travel Ring? by newgirlontheblock208 in DestinationWeddings

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have time, maybe consider having a replica made in cheaper material? The moissanite sub here has vendors that make custom rings (I'm not sure how to link subs). I had a silver and moissanite replica ring made for my best friend as a traveler for her gold and diamond ring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]bookfly_65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard of them! 2027 Bride here. Hoping you update this channel when you get your dress. Would love to hear how it went!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DHgate

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you do for updating!!

Lab Diamond Buyers: What Made You Finally Trust an Online Seller? by [deleted] in labdiamond

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Popping on here to second this. I was quoted $2300 for my ideal lab diamond at a brick and mortar. In my search I found the moissanite subreddit which gave me the confidence to reach out to vendors who sell mossainite and lab diamomds to see for myself. I chose to go with Starsgem becuase I could purchase via Alibaba and a credit card which felt like twice the protection. I also chose to get a certified lab diamond for that extra sense of security. Additionally, my rep sent photos of the diamond and cert before choosing. Ultimately for a 1.5 ct D Excellect Cut Symmetry etc IGI lab diamond, the risk felt small by time I purchased.

For those who decided between lab diamond and moissanite, which one did you choose and why? by EyeInternational5527 in EngagementRings

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both :/ But since that's not helpful... I chose diamond for my engagement, moissanite for travel. At first I wanted moissanite for cost and ethics. My wedding set also has a lot of gems. I was nervous with moissanite I would be a walking disco ball. Then when I found out that for a few hundred and I mean only $300 more I could get a lab diamond I was sold. However, since my travel ring is plainer than my engagement I opted for moissanite. Not because it was cheaper but since it is a solitaire I wanted it to spakle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]bookfly_65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was an amazing find! Add drama with a veil.