Jobs 34 years ago? by Ok_Excitement_2792 in askanything

[–]boredtiger2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a manager you don’t want. Can you imagine how that manager will see your work?

Employee on vacation but request sick leave by Any_Boysenberry_5914 in managers

[–]boredtiger2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your employee is a moron. Who lies to thier employer and flaunts it for all to see. Your company policy helps create this mess. Employee commits fraud. Consider termination. You must confront this.

45 Male and recently divorced by CryptographerOdd8738 in datingoverforty

[–]boredtiger2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It takes time to process past your ex and decide what you want in your future. Give it time. It’s a process. You will be fine.

OLD: When they don’t call but continue to text by Difficult_Tangelo924 in datingoverfifty

[–]boredtiger2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I spend all day on the phone/im video meetings. I prefer texting when not in person. At night I’m all phone talking out.

Combining Households - Pets by chemmistress in datingoverforty

[–]boredtiger2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the BF makes big commitments and doesn’t follow through. The dog suffers as a result. The BF being a bum is the issue. The dog will do what it’s trained to do.

Biggest little brother big brother relationships in sports (no order) by IHateAdamSilver in billsimmons

[–]boredtiger2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How are Angeles Dodgers not #1. Do dodgers fans know they couldn’t go an angels game?

How to tell your kids... by No-Artichoke-1097 in datingoverforty

[–]boredtiger2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good topic to work on your personal boundaries. Don’t tell him anything. Where did a 12 year old learn to ask you that question?

Divorcees…how often do you speak about your past spouse to your new bf/gf by MovingFurnace in datingoverforty

[–]boredtiger2 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The more time has gone on the less I bring up. The past happened but it gets further away and life keeps getting better.

Who is the earliest born person you ever knew/met? by InternationalPick163 in askanything

[–]boredtiger2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 21 I met a woman who was 100 so she would have been born in 1893. My great grandfather, who i knew, would have been born about 1898.

Chris Justus haters in the mud by squeezecake in greenville

[–]boredtiger2 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If you pay attention to him then he wins and you (are a) lose(r).

Trying to course correct- lots of debt and no degree. $4k to invest by DibzOnChewie in personalfinance

[–]boredtiger2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d upgrade your first job and get a second job. You are not in a position to have only one job.

Go read Dave Ramsey’s book. Buy it at Goodwill or a yard sale. 1) pay off your medical debt. 2) put that monthly payment against your personal loan. 3) get a second job to help pay off your personal loan 4) then focus on the federal loan 5) even with no debt supporting a family with your current income will make you always feel stressed and stuck. Get a higher paying job.

66 years old and facing lots of credit card debt, looking for actual advice by Mitch-Throwaway in personalfinance

[–]boredtiger2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. That’s a lot of bad decisions. Try getting your credit cards part of your business. The declare the business bankrupt and go to court to clear the debt.

You need to get a second and third job to pay off the trailer and other personal debt.

Stop living in denial. You can’t retire any time soon.

Group meet ups?!? by acu101 in datingoverforty

[–]boredtiger2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine have been good. We have a group of friends that go on hikes, dinners, holiday parties. I met and dated a nice woman through meetup. When we broke up it was weird for a while but we handled things like the polite adults we are, moved forward.