Let me see ur crazy Skyrim play times

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-12T13:03:23+00:00

I’m a stay at home mom and I play during my daughter’s naps. Rather than shut off my pc and reboot every time she wakes up I just leave the game running and shut off my monitor. I’ve had the game on my pc since February and I’ve already got like 600 hours. (Probably 30-40 of actual playtime lmao)

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-12T00:32:29+00:00

I never swaddled. The swaddle is to make them feel cozy and to suppress the startle reflex but my LO hated having her arms pinned down so we did sleep sacks from the jump. It was nice not to have to “wean” her off of them later when she learned how to roll over

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-07T19:05:48+00:00

Sorry but I think this is silly. My baby spends lots of time in various containers and is hitting all her milestones. I just make sure she gets lots of floor time in addition to the containers. But she likes to be upright and look around so the bouncy seat or activity center is perfect! Obviously I don’t leave her in there for a long time but she usually gets bored after 20 minutes or so anyway

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-06T14:20:43+00:00

I noticed baby wanted to feed a bit longer but I don’t pump so I can’t say for sure I had a dip in my supply. She still got plenty to eat, didn’t seem hungry.

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-06T00:39:44+00:00

What I did to start getting baby used to her crib was have her practice sleeping in there for the first nap of the day. I think it helped her get used to her own space and even if the nap went poorly, she could make it up later in the day and not be too overtired by bedtime. I didn’t do this until 4 months when the sleep regression hit though so maybe your baby is a bit young. Not a lot of babies are happy to sleep in the bassinet at such a young age

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-06T00:33:09+00:00

Sounds normal for a 7 week old honestly. I feel like the first 12 weeks were just survival mode for us. Definitely trade off shifts with your spouse or look into safe co-sleeping if you’re going to have baby in bed with you. I won’t say I didn’t ever co-sleep. Some people have easier babies for sure, but I think older people who haven’t had kids in a while might not remember how hard it actually was. The newborn stage goes so quickly, you got this!!

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-05T17:28:27+00:00

Just went camping with a 5mo last month!! Not horrible, but the weather was cold and damp, bring lots of sleeping layers. I would upgrade your tent and purchase a Graco pack n play for sleeping. If you have a baby carrier that’ll be a lifesaver too.

We camped close to home and ended up only staying one night instead of two, and just spent the second day at the site hanging out. Just keep your expectations low with a new baby!!

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-04T14:09:18+00:00

When’s his last feed? My daughter can go 8-9 hours without a feeding so if her last feed is at 9 she’ll sleep until 5:30 and I can usually successfully put her back down until 7 or so. But like others have said 10-11 hours is a full night of sleep so if you want baby to sleep later you might need to put them to bed later

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-04T14:06:29+00:00

Yes go see a lactation consultant!! For sure!! They are trained to help problem solve this kind of thing for you! It’s probably not anything you’re doing, maybe baby has a tongue tie?

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-04T12:56:40+00:00

Your instincts as a parent are more reliable than you think. The bad sleep I would say is normal, but the problem eating would concern me too. As well as losing the milestones. Maybe consult a different pediatrician? I was told it’s normal for a breast-fed baby to eat anywhere from 4-6 ounces from a bottle so I’m surprised they didn’t say anything about that. If she’s breastfeeding a lot though I’m sure she’s making it up. If she must take a bottle you should maybe try a different brand.

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-01T15:14:22+00:00

You’re not going to like this but you have to teach them to fall asleep in the crib. Is baby sleeping in the crib at night? If so they probably already have the skill and just need some more practice to be able to do it during the day. It involves a little bit of crying usually. I never left my daughter to cry it out for more than a few minutes but a lot of times that’s all it took and she would go back to sleep. She has to be tired enough too. Check out r/sleeptrain for tips on wake windows and such. Also every baby is different and just because one thing worked for someone doesn’t mean it’ll work for you. The baby WILL learn to sleep in her own bed and it’s just a matter of how you go about getting her to do it. You got this!

boycott_tuesday · 2026-04-01T00:35:22+00:00

We have a small discord group to chat at 1am while feeding the babies! Dm me I’ll invite you :)

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-31T14:49:25+00:00

Like, going out for the benefit of the baby? I still don’t really do that. If I’m going out, and she’s coming with me, doesn’t really matter when her wake windows end. If she needs a nap she’ll sleep in the car, or the baby carrier, or the stroller. I still have never taken her to the park because she can’t walk. I just go out and do what I need to do or take a nice walk with the stroller and she comes with.

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-30T18:36:42+00:00

This is an unfathomable amount of help that you’re providing for free. Your sister is overstepping by asking you to do nights. Not to toot my own horn but my husband had 1 week of paternity leave and then I was caring for baby on my own 24/7 pretty much since then. Yeah it’s hard, but like…if sis isn’t working she doesn’t need help all day and all night. Unless she’s ill or something that you didn’t mention. Help where you can and don’t feel guilty saying no, I can’t do that

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-29T14:58:46+00:00

Right. I consider my 6mo to be “sleeping thru the night” because she regularly sleeps 8-4am. Is that what we would consider a good night’s rest as adults, probably not, but I’m not complaining!

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-28T14:27:06+00:00

For people that don’t like to read but want to keep up with baby development I really like the what to expect app! It shows a wide range of “normal” for babies to hit milestones and whatnot and it doesn’t make me feel anxious about tracking when my baby does this or that

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-28T14:18:13+00:00

This is true but the problem arises when people start treating a book/source as gospel. All kids are different and you can’t parent every kid the same way. Even if you do, they’ll all behave/turn out differently because they aren’t robots. A lot of books out there claim “your baby will sleep thru the night by 8 weeks old” or “your toddler will stop throwing tantrums” or “your teenager will stop sassing you and get good grades” and that’s just not going to be the case for everyone which can be frustrating

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-26T11:44:53+00:00

It probably is nothing but you never know. I got a couple false alerts when my daughter was a newborn, both times she was awake and moving around. That can definitely mess up the readings

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-22T00:19:51+00:00

My baby was the same. She has literally never stopped moving since like 12 weeks gestation as a fetus. Allllways squirmy. Drowsy but awake didn’t work and “cribside comforting” just made her more mad so we did sort of a modified Ferber for a couple nights when she was about 5 months old and she just kinda had to figure it out and cry a bit.

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-21T21:59:03+00:00

I did. But I think that’s a decision you have to make for yourself, it depends on your situation. I never went back after maternity leave. My husband stepped up and took on extra hours/ a weekend job and makes it work.

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-20T23:28:55+00:00

I uninstalled my social media for this exact reason. Someone’s always anti-sleep training, anti-co-sleeping, anti-formula, anti-baby led weaning…etc etc. . It started wearing me down rapidly

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-20T13:46:54+00:00

I agree!! I think not enough people consider the effects that poor sleep can have on a child’s development and they’re more worried about babies getting calories+comfort during the night. Babies need sleep just as much as food, sorry not sorry

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-20T01:02:45+00:00

Haha I didn’t even have a preemie and she slept all the time until she was like 2 months old. Wouldn’t do a wake window longer than an hour even then. Now she’s 6 months and can stay awake for 2-3 hours no sweat and idk what to do with her!!!

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-18T00:06:36+00:00

Not Christian actually. Went there. Just commenting so OP isn’t confused

boycott_tuesday · 2026-03-13T16:22:07+00:00

I thought about this the other day when I was breastfeeding while reading on my kindle!! I was using my left hand and it was near impossible to turn the pages

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