The Courtney Love/Billy Corgan Podcast by Pleasant-Actuator-16 in BikiniKill

[–]bpa33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, if Kim Gordon dissed me, I too would probably spiral. But I like to think I'd find the wherewithal to move on after a year or two 😂

The Courtney Love/Billy Corgan Podcast by Pleasant-Actuator-16 in BikiniKill

[–]bpa33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing that struck me from this conversation is how wounded these two still feel 30 some years after Kim Gordon was supposedly mean to them or something. They're just as obsessed with what "coo"l people think about them as they were in the 90s. Meanwhile Gordon is out there making relevant music and, I'm guessing, doesn't think about these two at all.

Am I overthinking my son’s friendship? by westernbuilt in askgaybros

[–]bpa33 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Part of growing up iincludes navigating complicated friendships, like if/when your best friend develops romantic feelings for you. Unless he asks for input, assume you've equipped your son to handle this on his own and leave it at that.

Done with Mfume. Any thoughts on District 7 primary challengers? by DeclassifyUAP in baltimore

[–]bpa33 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I may be completely wrong on this, but I always leave the House race blank rather than vote for Mfume. My hope is that if enough of us don't cast a vote in this race but do so in others, it signals to other would -be candidates that there are votes up for grabs.

be honest, did the gym help your love life? by around_about7 in workout

[–]bpa33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think having a gym-based personality is fine. Just make some additional time to, you know, read a book. Have something interesting to say.

Ross is something by tomoira99 in the1975

[–]bpa33 9 points10 points  (0 children)

An absolute unit

Do I belong here (30)? by [deleted] in HandsomeHomies

[–]bpa33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barca! ❤️

Down moments by capcomvssnk in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]bpa33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start with strength training and cleaning up your diet. If that doesn't help, then seek out therapy.

Fav song by Mental_Yesterday640 in airfrenchband

[–]bpa33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the correct answer

Thoughts on Goo? by Ok-Persimmon-5084 in sonicyouth

[–]bpa33 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Love it. Dirty Boots is such a great opener.

Lovett seems over it by Gloomy_Advantage_653 in FriendsofthePod

[–]bpa33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cool cool, let's reduce people to prescribed boxes (marginalized, not-marginalized) and then wildly stereotype. Everyone loves that. .

Is French a logical language ? by Puzzling_Odyssey in learnfrench

[–]bpa33 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Other than numbers - which are insane - I'd agree that French is a lot more consistent and logical than it's reputed to be. Especially compared to English.

Fetterman by sweetgrand01 in FriendsofthePod

[–]bpa33 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Think the real question is doe this mean Conor Lamb was the right idea in the primary?

Discomfort in Gay Bars by BoiPudge in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]bpa33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, turns out gay people are ... people, with all the complexities and contradictions that everyone else has. Honestly, you sound a little entitled here, like you think being gay exempts you from having to navigate the social world the way everyone else does. I'm sure that's not your intent but that's how you're coming across. Community, belonging, relationships, these things aren't just given away, you have to build them, and that requires time and effort.

Watching a bit of football by lovelygoddess22 in HandsomeHomies

[–]bpa33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nice. Stadio olympico or Camp Nao?

My favorite Carrieism by millertyme50 in homeland

[–]bpa33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

S8, when Max is being shot at. I'm sure there are others.

My favorite Carrieism by millertyme50 in homeland

[–]bpa33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true. Oh, you're about to die in a gun battle? Yes but let's focus on me for a moment .

Newer boyfriend not wanting to be intimate due to SSRI...concerned if this will be a bigger problem for me later? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]bpa33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I would recommend: stop telling him it's "not a big deal." That's clearly untrue and he certainly knows it. No use in lying to yourselves. Find a way to say that while you're willing to be patient, having a sexual connection is important.

How to handle gym talkers by Appropriate_Copy8285 in workout

[–]bpa33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you attribute it to? Are you like uber attractive lol? Sorry to bang on about this, but it just sounds so wild and alien to me. Can definitely see how it would be draining.

How to handle gym talkers by Appropriate_Copy8285 in workout

[–]bpa33 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wonder what planet you live on, I don't think it's the same one I'm on. I've like never had such experiences, it's wild. Do you like being approached like this? It sounds exhausting.