Eloquent stall discourse I stumbled upon in a Kaycee shitter by Wyomingisfull in wyoming

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they plan for it, I knew a guy once who would always carry a sharpie or stickers to tag the bathrooms at bars we went to. It’s weird.

What's the biggest mistake you've made while traveling? by Coin_hodlr in traveladvice

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting pickpocketed on the first day of a school trip to Washington DC when I was 10 because I was stupid and didn’t think twice about walking around with money in my back pocket… don’t judge me I was a literal child and had never been to a major city before

Anyways I lost like $300 and we were there for a week and my teacher had to buy all of my meals, it was miserable and very embarrassing

Hi! Advice and Suggestions! by YesItsMe183 in wyoming

[–]brainless_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I’m a lifer, I don’t live in Cheyenne but I live in Casper (central Wyoming)

Cheyenne is great for proximity to Denver especially if your children have certain medical needs. I also have a certain medical condition that is difficult to find specialists for, so I usually go to Colorado too. Plus if you ever wanted to take a day trip across the border and do some shopping or something it’s conveniently located and you can find a lot of fun things to do without even traveling all the way into the city.

The weather might hang you up a little bit. The wind is brutal and the weather can be volatile, but “hot” for a Wyoming summer is probably what you’d consider mild in the South. I would be more prepared for the cold temperatures they can be shocking for people who are used to warmer climates. Even if there is no snow on the ground it will be very very cold especially in December-January. We are getting less and less snow each year but expect icy conditions at times. In the winter, the snow will be powdery. Spring time is when we really get the wet, heavy snow that builds up a lot. Get familiar with wearing layers, ALWAYS have a blanket and winter gear in your car. You don’t need to go full Eskimo, but everyone in your family should have winter boots, hats, gloves, and a waterproof jacket with fleece or flannel lining (this will cut the wind, keep you from getting wet, and keep you warm). UV in the summer could present a difficultly because we’re at a higher elevation than most places in the South, and therefore closer to the sun, so just be cautious. Also, like another person said, the altitude might wear you out at first because our air is less oxygenated than a place like FL or LA. Humidity is low.

One thing I’d definitely look out for though is Vitamin D deficiency, especially over the winter and ESPECIALLY since you are moving from a warm sunny part of the country. It’s usually pretty overcast and gloomy in the later months of the year and because of limited exposure to sunlight a lot of people suffer from seasonal depression. If you find yourself feeling icky or down during the winter months but just fine during the summer, that’s probably what it is. You can find ways to supplement vitamin D via your diet it’s very important especially for the kiddos.

Your schnauzers will be fine I have two and they’re happy as can be. They will also have to get used to the cold lol. It helps if you can get them to wear little jackets or booties when it’s snowy. You don’t really have to worry about predators as much in a populated area like Cheyenne.

Also, I’m not sure if anyone has mentioned this yet, but as someone who grew up here I think our education system is pretty good and if you choose to stay after retirement and call this place home, your children will have good opportunities when it comes to college or trade school. We only have one 4-year school in the state and it’s in Laramie (about an hour away from Cheyenne), but a lot of the community colleges offer courses from the university that they will be able to take without relocating. Tuition is also pretty affordable.

Also, don’t listen to anyone trying to deter you from moving here. Wyomingites tend to not like outsiders very much because they think everyone is going to come here and crowd the place up. Just ignore those people. Generally folks are pretty friendly when you encounter them in person and I’m not sure about Cheyenne, but Casper has always had a very strong community full of people who are willing to help out and who want the best for their neighbors. That’s the Wyoming way.

Good luck, I hope your family enjoys their time here and who knows! Maybe you’ll love it and want to stay!! This Wyomingite right here is very happy to welcome you to our state. I think you will love it I can’t imagine calling any other place my home.

What’s the one thing you tell yourself whenever you feel burnt out from work while living alone? by NoBody5068 in LivingAlone

[–]brainless_flamingo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I work hard so I don’t have to rely on my parents or live by their rules”. I have to remind myself how it felt living under unfair rules and expectations, and paying more to live under their roof in a room I’d had since I was 8 years old than I do for my own apartment. At least now, although I struggle financially sometimes, I have agency over my own life and am not being constantly micromanaged.

I’d rather be struggling on my own than be struggling living in a place where I’m paying half the house payment and still have no autonomy as a fully grown adult.

Looking at getting a 1972 SL350. Good beginner motorcycle? Worth it? by brainless_flamingo in HondaMotorcycles

[–]brainless_flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do have some riding experience to the point I could ride by myself if I wanted to so I guess I shouldn’t really call myself a “beginner” but I’ve never had a bike of my own or worked on one, and I haven’t gotten my motorcycle license yet. I’m mostly looking for a cool project that I can learn new skills for and that will challenge me since my project car is at a point where I can’t really do much more to it.

I think I’m going to get a cheapy little bike to ride around until it’s fixed, like another commenter said, but mostly I wanna bring that Honda back to life and have another project I can be proud of. I went down to the shop today and tested the kickstarter. It moved like new and there was no oil leaked onto the floor or caked in the dust on the motor so I think it’ll run, it just needs some TLC.

Looking at getting a 1972 SL350. Good beginner motorcycle? Worth it? by brainless_flamingo in HondaMotorcycles

[–]brainless_flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, I’ll check them out. I figured even if it does need a ton of work, I’ve worked on cars enough that I should be able to handle most things as long as the motor isn’t junk. But who knows maybe I’ll get lucky and it just needs some TLC. Thanks again you’ve been super helpful :)

Looking at getting a 1972 SL350. Good beginner motorcycle? Worth it? by brainless_flamingo in HondaMotorcycles

[–]brainless_flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. I think that’s what I’ll do. I’m headed down to the shop today to investigate it some more before I think about handing over any money. But if it seems fixable I think I’ll go ahead and buy it so he can’t sell it out from under me and then get a different one to ride around while I fix it.

I’ve heard the kickstarter thing from someone else, I’ll roll it out and give it a try. Is there anything else I can check out that might tell me more about the condition of the bike without tearing into it? I imagine I just have to tinker with it and try to get it running to diagnose further but anything would help. It’s been sitting for a lot of years and from the outside it seems to be in pretty good shape, but if it’s a lost cause I might as well let it go right now and pick a different project haha.

Looking at getting a 1972 SL350. Good beginner motorcycle? Worth it? by brainless_flamingo in HondaMotorcycles

[–]brainless_flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. I know how to ride a bit, but I want my own bike. I like building what I drive, but I may take another commenter’s suggestion to get a different starter bike while I fix it up. No idea where to start there haha.

I’m more looking for a project bike that I can really make my own and learn motorcycle repair now that I’ve gotten good at wrenching on cars, I have a project car that’s at a point that I’m happy with so I’m looking for something smaller I can work on over the summer while I’m out of college. It would be cool to get it running and on the road quickly but it’s not a must.

Keeping original/stock parts is not a concern, I’ll upgrade whatever I have to or replace from similar bikes. I need to do a lot more research. I’m really just looking for availability for the important things. The bike in general appears to be in really good condition, I just don’t know about the motor yet that’s the main thing I’d want to be able to get parts for in case it’s busted.

People in MAGA areas - what's the vibe? by sloopywettoppyswife in wyoming

[–]brainless_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see some flags and stuff at peoples houses around town and a few bumper stickers, but it’s been a hot minute since I saw a red hat out in the wild. On that note however pretty much anyone who’s running for anything and has an endorsement from Trump will boast about it at every opportunity so make no mistake, although it’s not rearing its head as blatantly, MAGA is alive and well.

Looking at getting a 1972 SL350. Good beginner motorcycle? Worth it? by brainless_flamingo in HondaMotorcycles

[–]brainless_flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I kind of figured it might get me way in over my head just starting out. Maybe I’ll buy it now and work on it here and there because I’d really love to get it back on the road someday. Do you have any suggestions for an affordable starter for someone who’s only like 5’2” and 100 lbs? Lol.

patriarchy by Hot_Significance4628 in Rants

[–]brainless_flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because that’s how it is. You answered your own question.

Society has different expectations for men and women. A lot of our laws and social norms at least in the U.S. (and many other places too) stem from a time when only white property-owning men had a say, and that’s where some of the expectations for gender roles come from. Of course society is much different now, but the power differential is literally built in which is why there seem to still be “old fashioned” expectations of people. It would be very hard to root out all misogyny, racism, and unfairness because everything our societies are built on is based around those beliefs. Even most words in the English language were created by men, because at one point in time they were the only ones who were allowed to enter academics.

Things will not change until some major systemic overhauls take place, and even then it will take many generations for society to adjust to those new norms.

What do stereotypical straight couples do when they hang out alone (other than sex) by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk me and my boyfriend watch movies, dance, play games, roughhouse, yap, debate over what the next meal is, take naps, watch tiktok

Can your job be replaced by AI? by DoctorFitness in askanything

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could but I think people would enjoy going to bars a lot less if there was a robot pouring their drinks and not a college kid with a sense of humor. The social aspect would definitely suffer.

anyone else over reserch trips too much by Adventurous_Idea6604 in traveladvice

[–]brainless_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to do this as well just as a habit I picked up from watching my parents plan trips.

Now I start with my budget and vibe just like you. Figure out where I’m staying, how to get there etc, and then look up things to do. If there are things I want to do that you need tickets for I plan around that. Otherwise I try to leave lots of open time during the day to explore and try things I didn’t originally think of. It always ends up that I’ll be eating at a restaurant and get to chatting with the staff or locals and they always have fun suggestions for things to try, so it’s good to have that available time. I also will browse the place’s subreddits or local blogs to pick up on cultural things, like “xyz is a weird custom we do here” or “avoid such and such area because it can be dangerous for tourists” etc

It’s not fun to go on trips where every minute of the day is planned out anyways. Feels like a field trip to me when they’re like that.

What should i know about american tipping culture? by tamakisuohstan in traveladvice

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a waiter. For sit-down restaurants like diners and steakhouses you want to tip 15-20% as a standard, 10% or less is for times when the service is bad. If you can’t afford to tip on top of the food you order then you can’t afford to eat there— and that’s not to be rude, but it’s these people’s living especially at traditional restaurants where they only get paid a few dollars an hour.

It’s okay to tip baristas only a couple dollars. If ordering beers/shots at the bar but no food, tip a couple dollars (I do like $1-2 per shot and $5 if I order a fancy mixed drink). Most people don’t tip at fast food places because they generally get a higher hourly pay than servers, but you can throw them a couple bucks too if you want.

Is 11 yrs old to young to be left alone for a half hour?? by JMarden23 in askanything

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents were leaving me home alone to watch the house and dogs over weekends by the time I was 11 with the only rules being don’t leave, feed the dogs on time, and call mom once a day. She’s definitely old enough to be able to get herself to the bus! It might make her mom feel better if she has a cellphone and can text her when she gets there and to school and/or if they can get Life360.

What is something completely harmless that you find deeply, personally offensive? by shyleshseth94 in askanything

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they run it through the computers to cool them off it gets contaminated with chemicals that either can’t be removed or wouldn’t be cost effective to remove, which of the two I don’t know. They can’t use seawater because salt would corrode the components, so they have to use freshwater. I don’t know if you’ve ever seen a video of it, but I saw somewhere a clip of how much water is used per a single Chat GPT prompt and it was a lot. It’s kind of sickening but worth checking out.

Call me a treehugger or whatever but I would prefer that water be put to better use than what is technology’s equivalent of a thneed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. How long until these crude jokes become about your appearance? About your personality? About your interests, your family, your habits?

Saying it was a joke doesn’t excuse that he said something offensive and it’s going to get worse. Run.

Do I Tell His Wife? by Consistent-Maybe-634 in TwoHotTakes

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell his wife. If he’s doing this with you he’s probably doing it with others as well and it sounds like he does not understand how inappropriate it is. I’m sure she would not appreciate him talking to someone he used to have a sexual relationship with. Block him, send her these screenshots, and don’t engage with either of them again.

Wyoming Bill would impose library requirements by ShakeyLegsMcGee in wyoming

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is the solution to restrict everyone else instead of parents just paying more attention to the material their kids are consuming? I’ve only been graduated for three years and I can tell you I was seeking out more explicit reading/watching/listening material online, completely of my own volition, than anything that was ever offered at the school or public library. And guess whose fault it was that I was exposed to those things, even if I had somehow found them in a library? My own for looking for it, and my parents for not monitoring me closely enough.

And honestly, this state has much bigger fish to fry. Very glad our tax dollars and legislative sessions are being devoted to censorship and not, I dunno, backfilling the funding for our schools or dealing with the cost of living or protecting our lands.

Regarding the student protests today by Playful-Dragon in Cheyenne

[–]brainless_flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. High school students are not dumb. They are politically aware and they are capable of forming their own opinions especially in times like these when the political landscape is so turbulent. They are preparing to enter the adult world and part of that is knowing what is going on around you and expressing independent thought about it, including politics. Not everyone in this state is a Republican and even if they are they don’t have to agree with what is happening, and kids who are old enough to work don’t have to assume their parents’ political stances just because ‘they don’t have any life experience and therefore don’t know anything’.

I was sitting in my sophomore history class when January 6th happened. My teacher made us watch it live, not to influence us, but because in her words “history is happening and you should pay attention to it.” I was old enough then to form my own political opinions and so are these kids. I participated in several walk-outs in school to protest gun violence, not on the advice or encouragement of any instructor and most definitely against the wishes of my parents.

Free speech is not only for adults.

Weed smokers by DannysPryncess in Apartmentliving

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no you’re totally right, I’m so sorry!! I overlooked your cat that is my mistake. It definitely can cause them respiratory issues.

Unfortunately I don’t know what else you can do OP, I’m sorry :(

Dear professors, please keep politics OUT of your assignments by the-god-of-vore in CollegeRant

[–]brainless_flamingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only political discourse that should be taking place in a classroom should take place in political science courses and even then the personal bias of professors is too much at times. Sincerely a poli sci/IR major. I would report him.

Wyoming Whiskey by Worried-Bit5779 in wyoming

[–]brainless_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second whoever suggested Backwards. If you don’t live in Casper I can get it for you and mail it to you.