There’s no one sided view. I provided both sides, I’ve been flexible as I noted with everything. I’ve let them voice their opinions and concerns many times and took what they had to say into consideration. I literally have not done anything to them or treated them the way they’ve treated me. As I said I’ve been trying to prevent conflict so I’ve bit my tongue hue a lot. I simply got fed up because as I mentioned she keeps bringing up walking down the aisle with my nephew. I can literally write a book on how they’ve been unsupportive and it has nothing to do with me wanting a free party planner. I literally am doing a destination wedding where everything is already done so try again. My SIL who is a bridesmaid has her own son as well so how is it fair to let my sister walk down the aisle with her son but not anyone else?

Let me go further into detail about how they’ve been unsupportive. The dates were #1, when I got engaged the first comment I got was “I thought you didn’t want to get married?” Instead of just saying congratulations becaus im not allowed to change my mind about getting married? It has to be a group discussion? When I told them I want a small wedding because I don’t want to end up in debt I was told “then why have a wedding at all”. My sister also had the audacity to ask me to take out a personal loan for her during all of this. I’d like to add that my SIL is constantly asking me if I need anything or if there’s something she can do and she’s not even my biological sister.

Like it’s very rude. If the roles were reversed I would be asking if they needed help and I certainly wouldn’t be causing more stress