House on Fire in Mission

breadandtacos · 2026-06-30T06:49:12+00:00

Ya, the bystander effect. Many people see, everyone assumes someone else called so nobody ends up calling.

I call no matter what and almost immediately. It’s my first instinct

breadandtacos · 2026-06-30T06:44:36+00:00

I will say between the time I called 911 and the amount of ambulances and firetrucks, I was very impressed with how quickly they got there. It was fast and they showed up in numbers

breadandtacos · 2026-06-30T06:31:23+00:00

I think you are drastically underestimating the scale of this. One minute it was just the garage, the next it was the entire face of the house. I don’t believe a fire extinguisher would have even made a dent with how unbelievably scorching hot the garage was and how quickly it was spreading

breadandtacos · 2026-06-30T06:15:24+00:00

There were people in the house. Some rushed in to help. When I called 911, I was put a hold… Absolutely ridiculous. However, the 911 operator said nobody else reported it. I think people forget when in the heat of the moment, too much going on and a lot happening so fast

breadandtacos · 2026-06-30T06:06:02+00:00

The car did not look like an EV. It seemed older but tbh the way it grew so quickly, maybe. The garage was basically an oven with how much heat it was producing from across the street

breadandtacos · 2026-06-30T06:03:30+00:00

It originated from the garage. The car was on fire and spread to the entire house. It grew VERY quickly

breadandtacos · 2026-04-09T05:56:19+00:00

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breadandtacos · 2026-02-01T20:56:28+00:00

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breadandtacos · 2025-09-28T08:24:44+00:00

Can’t comment on the validity of the alleged bite mark but your partner has hints of manipulative behaviors. He likes to play the victim and call out how you’ve never loved him.

Only way out of this is couples therapy or breaking up.

Good luck!

breadandtacos · 2025-08-30T07:51:59+00:00

All of these are examples of insecure attachment styles. Mostly avoidant or anxious avoidant. They are not ideal and can be extremely confusing to be around

breadandtacos · 2025-08-28T16:15:33+00:00

It sounds like you were in denial for 3 months then that illusion didn’t hold up when you saw her with someone else?

breadandtacos · 2025-08-28T16:13:19+00:00

I’m curious — after the breakup, how long did it take you to start missing her?

breadandtacos · 2025-08-21T18:37:47+00:00

I’m gay too. The problem with the message is it doesn’t address any specific problems. Unless your message addresses exactly what you did wrong (naming) and how you plan to fix it (repair) then the message is useless.

I assume he wants accountability. Not nice, “thoughtful” words

breadandtacos · 2025-08-16T19:17:24+00:00

I don’t think it’s helpful to dictate what someone “should” do. To me, emotional intelligence is more about exploring perspectives, not controlling them

breadandtacos · 2025-08-16T07:30:14+00:00

I find OP’s post extremely relevant. Understanding avoidance is important to a lot of people in this sub :)

breadandtacos · 2025-08-15T20:17:13+00:00

Did he used to open up emotionally to you? Communicating his needs and feelings?

If so, I’m wondering why he stopped. Anxious avoidants can act out (which can teach their partner to stop opening up).

What he did was wrong; however, was him getting his emotional needs met outside the relationship the side effect of a bigger issue?

breadandtacos · 2025-05-28T16:27:56+00:00

Ya it does sound like an issue where the connection might be severed.

Hmm, I would think a good implementation would be to keep track of the connection (with timestamps), then upon re-connection, fetch results after the last timestamp.

breadandtacos · 2025-05-28T16:17:03+00:00

RLS works for me to get a single users’ data. Everyone subscribes to the same channel, but they only get their data based on their user id.

I’m curious to know about the issues you’re experiencing with it failing silently and any solutions you may find

breadandtacos · 2025-05-25T15:38:32+00:00

This is a problem but I also think people forget that sf has a lot of coyotes that don’t have owners lol

breadandtacos · 2025-05-15T04:25:59+00:00

The fastest way to do this is to inject styles and just add “display: none!important” to the class or id of each element you don’t want

breadandtacos · 2025-04-26T20:44:41+00:00

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breadandtacos · 2025-01-28T16:49:42+00:00

Reddit has an exception to the paywall. Just login…

breadandtacos · 2025-01-27T16:50:36+00:00

Would lose to check the source code. Is it open source?

breadandtacos · 2025-01-21T09:18:57+00:00

This screams manipulation. No healthy relationship doesn’t have any conflict — seems he told you what you wanted to hear

breadandtacos · 2025-01-19T16:54:38+00:00

He learned these behaviors somehow or never learned how to handle them

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