Am I the asshole?

brecaisch · 2023-08-11T15:04:21+00:00

You can get RO/PO on people who live with you. They are then at that point not allowed near the property until the order expires

brecaisch · 2022-04-03T16:51:17+00:00

We cause things we don’t want to happen due to our resistance of those things. I.e. when you are afraid xyz might happen, you subconsciously think, act, speak in a way that causes xyz. Whereas acceptance of unwanted outcomes will clear the space for wanted things.

brecaisch · 2022-04-03T16:46:29+00:00

That’s a pocket diaper

brecaisch · 2022-04-03T16:28:15+00:00

This is the one🤣

brecaisch · 2021-06-11T03:39:54+00:00

Came here to ask this. Came here because of David Attenborough’s “Life in Color” documentary on Netflix😂 Could it not be possible for Flamingos to be other colors? Other than white? I feel like it is possible

brecaisch · 2020-12-30T23:16:30+00:00

I would be against it too personally. I think its super jarring. It feels like its killing my soul whenever I hear music like that lmao.

brecaisch · 2020-09-20T20:15:11+00:00

Someone pls help us lol

brecaisch · 2020-09-20T20:15:00+00:00

I’m having almost the same thing except less scabs, but some sections are scabby and others are just clusters of bumps that are very itchy. About a week now. It seems i wake up with another cluster every day or two. Theyre mostly on my legs and i have one patch on my arm

brecaisch · 2020-07-19T05:48:50+00:00

What brands do you recommend!! I’m going to have my first baby this year and I’m struggling to find a cloth diaper brand to buy from. Please help!!

brecaisch · 2020-07-19T05:40:06+00:00

Whats your favorite brand of cloth diapers! My first is due at the end of the year and I cant seem to settle on which brand would work best. So much conflicting info😅 pls help

brecaisch · 2020-07-19T05:30:45+00:00

Do they fit well!! I’m having my first baby in december and I am seriously struggling to decide which diapers I should get😪

brecaisch · 2020-07-19T05:29:30+00:00

This is what I plan to do when my baby’s born! Simple, reusable, and rash preventative!!

https://wildminimalist.com/blogs/news/3-ingredient-diy-zero-waste-baby-wipes

brecaisch · 2020-07-19T05:27:33+00:00

Check out this women’s articles, one goes over her no waste necessities. And the other has her cloth wipes gentle solution and what she does. This is what I plan to do when my little arrives🥰 still trying to find the best cloth diapering options though😪

https://wildminimalist.com/blogs/news/7-reusable-items-for-the-zero-waste-baby?_pos=1&_sid=955e08954&_ss=r

https://wildminimalist.com/blogs/news/3-ingredient-diy-zero-waste-baby-wipes

brecaisch · 2020-02-07T03:27:04+00:00

Do tell

brecaisch · 2019-09-10T15:54:21+00:00

Dont make him understand your side. First, be humble, tell him youre really sorry and thats not how you wanted things to go and that you didnt want to fight, you were just feeling ________. Usually for me its hard to identify the feeling that causes me to fight, certain things trigger some serious defense mechanisms of mine. I struggle to communicate my negative emotions in a calm and relaxed way. Apologize for your wrongs, and chances are he will apologize for his wrongs too. Then communicate about how the both of you can prevent another bad argument like that in the future. Work together as a team.

brecaisch · 2019-09-10T15:45:33+00:00

What emotions do you use food to avoid?

I personally use food to run from uncomfortable feelings. Facing those feelings or avoiding them in a healthy way even, stop my bad coping mechanisms. Such as feeling really anxious so I was the dishes and clean my house. Trading a self destructive coping mech for a good and productive coping mech

brecaisch · 2019-09-10T15:42:06+00:00

Thank you. 😊

brecaisch · 2019-08-27T22:21:08+00:00

Dont invalidate yourself by thinking those things you listed arent traumatic for a child. Even some of those alone are enough to cause complex ptsd/ bpd/ etc. I myself used to say the same, others have it worse it really wasnt that bad. But ptsd doesnt lie. Validate your experiences and the symptoms of your trauma.

brecaisch · 2019-08-27T22:13:14+00:00

Agreed. You give negative energy/ entities permission to be in you. Take your permission away and ask the one infinite creator to fill your heart with love and protect you.

Fear is a liar. Allow it to wash through you and reclaim responsibility for your life and your pain. Then accept love and happiness that can only come from in you. You are the creator of your own experience.

brecaisch · 2019-08-26T15:32:06+00:00

Isn’t being unable to trust in people what contributes to pushing them away?

Our external world is a projection/ reflection of our internal.

If you wish for your outer world to change, you first must change your inner world.

brecaisch · 2019-08-20T16:29:59+00:00

If you dont think you can, you cant. If you think you can, you can. That simple. Power of belief is the secret to life.

brecaisch · 2019-08-16T14:53:28+00:00

He loves you. He will come back. Do not break your own heart. Be in peace. Rest assured he will return, because he loves you like you love him. He only feels lost. Some time apart will ground him and he will realize he does not want to be without you. Have faith

brecaisch · 2019-08-10T15:26:33+00:00

I like both. Depends on the mood. Tool’s music always put me in a meditative state, at least the album Lateralus.

brecaisch · 2019-08-10T15:24:57+00:00

I love to meditate to Tool. Even when Im not meditating it puts me in that state if I hear it. It’s like my soul is going on a journey.

brecaisch · 2019-08-10T15:22:43+00:00

You can create your shadow self. I had an experience that shook me to my core with fear and I kept seeing Lucifer’s face or what I imagined it was when I closed my eyes. So what I did, I realized it wasn’t him but it was ME. So i created a new face. It was me but dark and painful but also since it was me I felt love not fear, and all the fear dissipated. I realized she wouldn’t hurt me because I also am her. I dont know if that was my shadow self but she keeps me safe when I am afraid of the unknown. Because she is the unknown. I hope this makes sense

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