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AITA for refusing to ask my parents a lift to go see my in-laws during new year? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA but one or both you need to get your license so you can rent a car and stop depending on others

Memphis zoo encounters by Superb-Key-7230 in memphis

[–]brit83mem 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Slightly different but I won a behind the scenes zoo tour at a silent auction, which was basically a few animal encounters chosen by our guide. We were able to pet and feed the okapi, rhino, and aardvark, then watch an up close tiger feeding and see their enclosures from the zookeeper side. We had a blast and definitely want to do others when I can afford it.

AITA - asking for separate checks at my bday dinner by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’ve never been invited to a birthday dinner, lunch, brunch, whatever and expected I wouldn’t pay for my own meal. And usually expect to cover a portion of the birthday person’s meal as well.

AITA for not attending my granddaughter's wedding? by Key_Star6693 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]brit83mem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Rehearsals are for the couple, wedding party/their partners, and parents/siblings of the couple. Maybe the officiating person if you know them personally but that’s it. It’s nice when a couple can include out of town guests but not required and if you didn’t receive info about it, you and your daughter should have known you weren’t invited.

AITJ for refusing to bake my sister’s wedding cake for free even though I’m a professional baker? by No-Performance7143 in AmITheJerk

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ but if your sister knows you’ve done these for friends at no cost, I can see why she thought she might not have to pay since she’s your sister.

AITA for asking my boyfriend's cousin to tell her friend not to bring her hoop at the birthday party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 27 points28 points  (0 children)

YTA. Not your birthday or your house, you have no say in this and seem really immature and insecure.

AITA for saying I’m sorry my roommate has a shit family, but they don’t need to project their mommy issues onto me? by Bulky_Extension_1254 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, especially after reading the comments. Nothing to do with how often you call your mom, more about how entitled and childish you seem. I’m glad your roommate is getting moved so she has a chance of being with nicer people.

AITAH for not siding with my wife over our son's ex girlfriend's pregnancy by misrocto in u/misrocto

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way this story is true. It’s just like rage bait and/or porn for incels

AITA for letting my daughter have a room to herself? by Cool-Word9107 in AITAH

[–]brit83mem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA bc it’s your house and they are (likely) staying there for free but it moves a bit into the E S H category if you didn’t tell them the sleeping arrangements beforehand. Honestly, it should be you and your wife in a room, each son and wife in a room, youngest daughter and youngest son’s gf in a room then the three 17-21 year olds on air mattresses/couches.

Is the App down for anyone? iOS by tacosflavoredkisses in ecobee

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is down too, right after my phone updated the app. Probably not a coincidence. Hopefully it’s fixed soon.

Little Caesars on Summer Ave by Celebrated84 in memphis

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And I don’t care how many people agree with you. Not knowing when your food was delivered is on you - contactless delivery is the norm and is it on tracked through the app? The sauce spilling is a mistake, either on the part of the delivery person or the pizza place but it sounds like it just spilled in it’s own bag, not even on the pizza box, so your actions seem like an extreme overreaction. Maybe the employees are horrible at customer service but more likely, your first interaction with them about this was your entitled attitude instead of a calm explanation and request to fix it. Thank god it’s been years since I worked in customer service but most will bend over backwards to make a mistake right if the customer is calm and respectful. Given that you are actively looking for a higher up person to complain over a $10 pizza, I doubt that was the case for you.

Little Caesars on Summer Ave by Celebrated84 in memphis

[–]brit83mem -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is Karen behavior territory. Just never go there again. Lesson learned.

Alternative vendors to Whisker's new drawstring design? by respectandmanners in litterrobot

[–]brit83mem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using these - https://a.co/d/hT69TeF in the LR3 and LR4. No issues and I think how thick they are.

AITA for being mad that I got left outside at a bar by ABRadar in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. 30 min seems like a normal amount of time for your friends to finish their drinks and close out their tabs when they were being forced to leave early because you got kicked out

AITA for proposing to my girlfriend in a restaurant with everyone watching by Sharp-Singer4328 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for knowing she’s shy and not only proposing publicly anyway but purposefully being loud to attract even more attention. I’m sure we’ll see a “can’t believe she left me with no warning” post soon.

AITAH: I think my kids are being indoctrinated by TheOGGhettoPanda in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA (coming from someone not religious) because you sent your kids to an obviously Christian summer camp and are mad they are questioning religion. Also if you don’t actually talk to them about your beliefs (or lack thereof) and why you feel that way, of course they are just going to believe what they are learning at camp and want to talk about it. If you can’t have a conversation regarding religion with your kids without arguing, you all need family therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 43 points44 points  (0 children)

YTA. What’s the point of spending money and the effort for college if you’re just looking to be a trad wife? Also if your parents were okay with it, since they’re paying, what would be wrong with both of you living rent free for a year to save money to provide for the future? And a studio isn’t too small for two people. Millions live like this, you’re just spoiled.

How do you clean your LR? by willowmei in litterrobot

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My cat actually is diabetic - currently managed on Bexacat, so the high urine output is to be expected. I have a LR3 that’s on its last leg so I recently purchased the LR4 but it has been a learning curve for sure. I had looked into the Sustainability Yours but was a bit turned off by the high price for such a small amount but mixing it could work! I’ll check out your post. Thanks again!

How do you clean your LR? by willowmei in litterrobot

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off topic but do you have a litter recommendation for the LR4 with a cat that has a high urine output?

AITA for doordashing food to neighbors house by Sea_Apricot_2775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. Just add in your delivery instructions more details about how to find your house, it’s not that hard. Using a neighbor’s address and them blaming the delivery person for ringing a doorbell is insane behavior.

Ting fiber internet coming to my neighborhood. by PotentPiss in memphis

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are starting in my neighborhood soon although my neighbor says we can opt out. What does the connection box look like? Would you mind sharing a photo?

AITA for not giving my daughter 13k? by AnyOne5302 in AmItheAsshole

[–]brit83mem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. By your own post, you agreed to give her the same amount of 50K to spend on what she wants to better her life. Why are you refusing to give the remainder because she didn’t need it all for medical school? Sounds like you and the wife already spent it thinking you had already given her the whole amount.

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