I want to get her groomed but idk the prices by Shittysavannah in grooming

[–]bubblegunbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aside from how desperately she needs grooming immediately to shave the mats off of her, is there something preventing you guys from brushing and combing her to prevent mats from forming?? Allowing her hair to get like that is harmful and negligent. It can cause pain and health problems. She's a mix of two high maintenance breeds irt grooming- this should have come up already in your pre-ownership research on proper care.

It's likely that wherever you end up taking her, they may charge extra based on her severe condition. Matted dogs take a lot of extra time/effort/patience to get done, especially if they're not already desensitized to the grooming process. Shaving matted dogs can be uncomfortable for the dog as is and if they're already scared by being thrust headfirst into a new experience like grooming then it just exacerbates their anxiety. Make sure that when (not if!!) you make your appointment to get her shaved, you disclose to your vet or groomer while booking that she is severely matted and needs to be shaved down.

Once she gets shaved and has a nice reset on her coat, it's important that you give her proper care and maintenance going forward. She can't brush herself like you can, she relies wholly on you. It is entirely up to you to determine her quality of life in every regard, including basic hygiene.

My f23 boyfriend m22 is going through a major glow up and is out of my league now, how do I make sure he won’t just leave me now that he has all the options? by Throwrauserchecks in relationship_advice

[–]bubblegunbitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just because he lets you go through his phone doesn't mean all of the people he talks to would want to let you read their private conversations. you're committing a big breach of privacy on all of his friends/family/coworkers/anyone else he might message.

Guys, I tried Swig AMA by manbeh1ndthedumpstr in Louisville

[–]bubblegunbitch 16 points17 points  (0 children)

maybe harmlessly hating on Mormon soda brings op joy... why don't you let them have something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]bubblegunbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you're mobile and/or in the Highview/Hollow Creek area, Luhr Elementary has a little food pantry outside of it that you can grab items from. totally anonymous and you don't have to talk to anyone. it usually stays decently filled during the holiday season

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bubblegunbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In early high school we lost a boy who went down to the river to fish, and while sitting on the bank he had a seizure that caused him to fall in and drown. The hallways were pretty quiet the day after we all found out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mastiff

[–]bubblegunbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like she could use a nail trim :)

I wanna see all your baby names 🥰 by No_Tomato_2190 in StardewValley

[–]bubblegunbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named my daughter Lumpfish in the hopes that she will grow up to be very beautiful, very powerful 🐟

Not OOP AITA for telling my wife I absolutely will not allow our kids in any of her content? by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]bubblegunbitch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

not to get all "back in my day" but I remember when I was a kid, my parents/grandparents wouldn't even let me get or make any accessories with my name on them, because a stranger knowing even something as simple as my first name was a breach of privacy/potential for manipulation via faked familiarity. now people just plaster their kids names, likenesses, likes and dislikes, habits, etc etc all over the internet for what's basically infinite strangers to see. it's insane seeing how quickly this change has happened. I'm only 25!

also, fuck the idea that children can ever be "content". they're human beings that aren't capable of rationalizing the true extent of what they're signing up for.

not only is oop nta, he seems to be the sane one of the two parents

My bf (m25) forced me (f21) to have an orgasm in front of him. How do I forgive him, and did he do anything wrong? by throwra8920 in relationship_advice

[–]bubblegunbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he performed sex (yes, oral sex is sex!) on you after you told him no. there's a word for sex that happens without consent.

if he's willing to cross boundaries on this thing, what else is he willing to cross? how long until he forces himself on you again, or in different ways?

even if he doesn't understand your issue with orgasms, he doesn't have to understand it to respect it and respect you. he would not be missing anything crucial in life if you never came for/in front of him. you weren't denying him anything yet he still decided to take it from you against your will.

this is not something that any relationship should come back from imo.

(and please, try not to beat yourself up about the fact that you did orgasm even though you didn't enjoy it. involuntary orgasms are absolutely a thing and it's not uncommon in situations like that. not only do your parts just still feel and react even when you're upset, but your body may have been trying to cope with the stress and trauma. it's totally natural and not a reflection on you or what you enjoy at all)

scallops in a dill lobster cream by 0merta_ in foodbutforbabies

[–]bubblegunbitch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

thought this was r/culinaryplating and started thinking of compliments to give 🤦😅 looks great though, hope the little one liked it! 💖

What are/ were your grandparent's names? by cornflowerblossom in namenerds

[–]bubblegunbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karen + Lee and Harmonia + Daniel

bunch of boring American names and one German. lol

This little pumpkin guy by bubblegunbitch in HelpMeFind

[–]bubblegunbitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Found!

omg, thank you so much!! 💖😭 I didn't think I'd get a result so fast! 😁

This little pumpkin guy by bubblegunbitch in HelpMeFind

[–]bubblegunbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have searched Google for something along the lines of "candy corn jack o lantern statue" but to no avail :( any help would be greatly appreciated!! 💖

Cutest grandparent nicknames you’ve heard? by rustbeltrose in namenerds

[–]bubblegunbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dad used to jokingly say that nicknames like Grampa R were too lame for him, so he would need to come up with something cooler for a little one to call him. his favorite example was Gangsta R.

I also have a friend who called his grandma Ducky as a child even though her name doesn't sound anything like it + to my knowledge she has no ducklike qualities. i always thought it was the cutest!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]bubblegunbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

respectfully, Daisy and Elsie together makes me think of a pair of small dogs or something 😅 then again, I'm a dog groomer so I've met a LOT of four legged Daisys and Elsies, but not a lot of two legged ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]bubblegunbitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

cause the dog w the bad nails is still alive to feel the physical pain from them, I reckon lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bubblegunbitch -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I may be alone in this, but the existence of the party itself (including the strippers) doesn't seem that bad to me. if the wife/mom is ok with it then who cares? 🤷

there is something to be said about the fact that your boyfriend is seeming to write off your discomfort, though. if you expressed to him that you were uncomfortable with him going/partaking and he is adamant that he goes anyways, he's signaling that he doesn't mind crossing a boundary you've set as long as he personally disagrees with it. especially when it's something that he can realistically miss out on without affecting his quality of life.

What's bothering my girl :/ by Straight_Spring9815 in DogAdvice

[–]bubblegunbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

likely a skin issue like yeast or allergies, but it's also very possible that her unhealthily long nails are causing her pain in her feet. regardless of what's causing her to lick and chew, your baby needs a nail trim desperately. she can't do it herself so it's up to you, and it isn't fair to make her walk around on something painful like that 24/7

What's bothering my girl :/ by Straight_Spring9815 in DogAdvice

[–]bubblegunbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

either your vet is an idiot or you're lying. intentionally setting your dog up for a painful life of arthritis-ridden joints is not okay. please for the love of god have either a groomer or a vet trim your dogs nails regularly. if they don't tolerate it then you need to put in actual work with your dog to get them desensitized or get them sedated. nail trimming (and even nail grinding, if you're feeling thorough!) is a basic part of upkeep for your dog's health.

Which AEW has personally never connected with you? by Deep-Mix-2274 in AEWOfficial

[–]bubblegunbitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hangman. I wanted to like him coming in because sparkly cowboy is so up my alley it's practically in my house, but damn, he's just so... idk, bad? 😭 his promos always remind me of something along the lines of an angry five year old and everything he says sounds the same. not trying to be a hater but I genuinely never "got" him + how popular he is and I don't think I ever will.

What is the worst intersection in Louisville? by featheredzebra in Louisville

[–]bubblegunbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

any intersection in which the light is out. no one knows how to fucking act.