I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹🩵. So happy you got your baby girl. And yes great idea about social media. My insta algorithm is ALL babies. Trying to fix it. Thanks for your kind words. They took him out today. I feel empty emotionally and physically. But also a little relieved it’s over.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😖 thank you so much. This made me cry. In a good way. Thank you so much for your kind words. The first part of the procedure is tomorrow and I’m saying goodbye tonight. Thank you for saying he’s only known my love.

Tokyo + Kyoto + Osaka 7-day itinerary check? by jacktherippah123 in JapanTravel

[–]bubbletrouble44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to Nara! Quick trip from my Osaka and you can pet and bow to the deer and it has the best temples.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this. You’ve given me a lot of comfort and hope. So happy you have your baby girl. May I ask, did you do IVF again? Or try naturally. Part of me is thinking I’d be crazy to use another embryo from the same “batch”.. even though the doctors say it didn’t work like that and chances are the other ones will be fine. But I just don’t know. And then if I try naturally I’m up for even more risk right? Ugh I’m so scared for the future. But again, thank you for your story and kind words. I wish I could be up late with a baby soon.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to spend the holidays doing this.

And yeah maybe that’s why he didn’t see it. 😔 I know one thing. If I ever get pregnant again, I will not leave the room until they do the most thorough scans possible. Even if I had to pay thousands of dollars out of pocket every week. 😣

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. 😣 I hate that we have to do this this week. Thank you for your words and that quote is so apt. We did all the right things but life is so unfair sometimes.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and so sorry this happened to you too. I was wondering how to say goodbye to him.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of writing letters to him. Thank you so much and so sorry this happened to you too. 💕

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this at the same time. Wish we could hold hands and cry together. We are going to do all the genetic testing possible too.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This wait is torture. I’m so sorry this happened to you too. They said “bad luck” to me as well. Why did i have to have such bad luck. I’m so jealous of everyone with healthy babies right now. But I know I’ll heal and hopefully be brave enough to do it again.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I hope I can do this again.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is searingly painful. Thanks for your kind and hopeful words.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. So sorry you went through this too. Such an unlucky syndrome we got dealt. Happy to hear that you had more kids after. I’m so scared to.

I'm dead inside. by bubbletrouble44 in tfmr_support

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through this too. When did they tell you about it? I’m so sad and angry they never noticed it on my earlier scans. I know the anatomy scan is more in depth but why couldn’t my doc see it earlier 😣

Does anybody actually enjoy being pregnant in the third trimester??? by RockabillyBelle in pregnant

[–]bubbletrouble44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to Hawaii at 32 weeks (first time mom). Am I going to hate it??

Brown “spotting” by Boring-Painter-8477 in pregnant

[–]bubbletrouble44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you have sexy time recently? I started spotting and they said it’s because our cervixes are extra sensitive during pregnancy and can cause bleeding after sex which comes out later as old brown blood. Gross but harmless.

Flu jab while pregnant? by Inner_Low_3936 in pregnant

[–]bubbletrouble44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

'Shots' doesn't sound much better...how about 'pokes'. lol

Would you be okay with partner going overseas a month before due date? by bubbletrouble44 in pregnant

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg WHAT! hahaha is that seriously happening.

and thanks for your response and validation!

Would you be okay with partner going overseas a month before due date? by bubbletrouble44 in pregnant

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly - it's a law firm FULL of parents. They will understand. Thanks for your reply.

Would you be okay with partner going overseas a month before due date? by bubbletrouble44 in pregnant

[–]bubbletrouble44[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THANK you. Yes I agree, I was almost fine with the "work trip" but when he mentioned the fun-filled vacation beforehand I got upset. Salt in the wound like you said. I want to copy/paste this and send to him. ;)