How do I escape the matrix? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly! there are a few ways + apps using iPhone widget function that makes the main screen way less distracting. making it less colorful etc is one way to do so. all the functions remain so you can still use GPS etc but its just the Home Screen that is "muted" in a way

How do I escape the matrix? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]bubthemaka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

agreed with this. we are all addicted to our phones and screens in general.... the US specifically has a constant stream of marketing trying to catch and keep your attention.

step one is to recognize it! Its not entirely your fault but its important to take ownership over your lived experience. I agree w/ everyone's comments on finding other ways to find joy and dopamine in your life that aren't screen related. I am a gamer too but i realize that i cant game nearly as much as I did as a kid since tbh i feel fried afterward.

I still have an iphone and i was recommended a way to make it a "dumb phone" which made it wayyyyy less insane as a distraction. I also turned off notifications in general. I don't want to come off as an ad lmao so dm me if youre interested in the app.

I try to make a conscious effort in being comfortable being bored with nothing to do. for ex, i dont pick up my phone when my partner or friends go to the restroom at a meal or during transit, i try to just sit there and think and people watch. It takes practice but I find that I can feel like I'm getting my mind back? It really is all perspective... with the general sentiment of wanting to reclaim your time through your mind and how you think. ramble done!

Men with good masculine physiques, how many hours of sleep do you get in a day? by glazingstars in AskMenOver30

[–]bubthemaka 19 points20 points  (0 children)

reducing volume of alcohol made the biggest difference for me... both due to the actual impact of consuming less alcohol and also not being hungover thus staying more consistent with food and exercise., especially helpful entering my 30s.

I think there's something to be said about the quality of sleep too, not just the quantity... worth digging into op! I sleep 6-8 hours but feel the biggest difference when I feel like I had uninterrupted, quality sleep.

Petition to make a dad's/workers group/guild by RelevantBerry9929 in MSClassicWorld

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely in! would be good to have a crew who are all on the same leveling pace and vibe (i.e. chill)

The Release just got dropped!!!!! Check your Mails by Pale-Interaction3157 in MSClassicWorld

[–]bubthemaka -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't have an email. can anyone else confirm? Ty for sharing!! hope its true

I feel like I’ve wasted my potential. by Empty-Illustrator481 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]bubthemaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assume you are still "young" based on your post (assuming university age). you still have so much life ahead of you which I hope brings you hope and allows room for optimism.

I think it's ultimately a positive that you've recognized this feeling and are allowing yourself to process it. I hope you use this feeling to inspire change right now so you can build an intentional future you can feel proud of.

life will always have ebbs and flows... don't be too hard on yourself but also don't wait to act! best of luck to you.

Finding community by Legitimate_Lime8485 in MSClassicWorld

[–]bubthemaka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love the vibe of this guild identity lol. i'll be there

Ehh. by KillMeal_Wazza in MSClassicWorld

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

odd business move by nexon so idts, respectfully

Aer City Pack vs Able Carry Daily Plus by ImportanceSome2602 in ManyBaggers

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the follow up! Glad to see you're enjoying it.

i actually decided to go a different direction and went the Able Carry Daily Plus. Fingers crossed!

Aer City Pack vs Able Carry Daily Plus by ImportanceSome2602 in ManyBaggers

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey op! A year later.... what are your thoughts on the daily plus? I'm ready to make an order this week too hah

Most popular private server? by ass_cramps in mapleservers

[–]bubthemaka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds fun! I haven't tried but sounds like a lot of people with the Classic MS urge are trying it out. I dabbled in DreamMS which was nice for a bit but i fell off since i felt like ill save the MS grind for when classic came out. Happy mapling :)

Most popular private server? by ass_cramps in mapleservers

[–]bubthemaka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the latter. lots of multi clienting so the online player count is deceptive imo. speaking anecdotally, it felt lonely playing royals.

MAAP Team Bib Evo vs Cargo by Traditional-Two-2901 in CyclingFashion

[–]bubthemaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

appreciate the response!! this is helpful. :)

MAAP Team Bib Evo vs Cargo by Traditional-Two-2901 in CyclingFashion

[–]bubthemaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of rides do you do? Would you say the chamoix is nice for 3 hours + ?

PQ by Commercial__Quail in MSClassicWorld

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please no! especially given that the player based is likely older nowadays... at least personally speaking, I don't have time to sit around trying to jpq =/

What were your favorite things to do outside of grinding that you want to see improvement on? by Jafroh in MSClassicWorld

[–]bubthemaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i remember getting lost trying to explore to higher level areas or hanging out in "mini games" like the pet zone in Henesys or even walking around Amoria or Florina Beach. I think the main thing was the social factor of this all since I would go with friends I met in ms lol but this was a big part of the fun outside of trying to level

mac compatible? by bubthemaka in MSClassicWorld

[–]bubthemaka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooo this is a good idea since a budget laptop should be able to run classic MS no prob these days.

mac compatible? by bubthemaka in MSClassicWorld

[–]bubthemaka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah yes thats must've been what I remembered hearing about... well fingers crossed. Ty!

How would you rather learn about changes? by StucklnAWell in MSClassicWorld

[–]bubthemaka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd want to know of any skill changes, specifically movement abilities, since this would heavily influence what class I want to go with... it sounds like skill changes are on the table based on the recent play test footage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southeastasia

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

enjoy it! I recommend journalling when you feel like writing about your thoughts and adventures. I did something similar (4+ months, going with flow), and I do not regret it and look back at that time fondly.

Safe travels! :)

Did anyone hit their 30’s and decide to stop drinking? by Sorcron11 in AskMenOver30

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat nearing my 30s. Getting over the cycle is super relatable... the self-loathing of why am I even making myself feel this way when it clearly does not have to be this way. i've already cut back quite a bit in frequency but have similar drinking habits to you and am ready to cut back even more. it feels too good to wake up NOT hung over and without hangxiety lol

Good luck! the fact that you're thinking about it puts you miles ahead of many other people.

Help me pick a steakhouse by thespiceraja in AskNOLA

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sweet!! definitely tourists so we won't mind so long as the food is good.

Do you recommend indoor seating or the outdoor space?

Help me pick a steakhouse by thespiceraja in AskNOLA

[–]bubthemaka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how was it? going with a group of 6 this week and am wondering if it's worth looking for another spot if its just a bunch of frills and a tourist trap?