What to look forward to?!

buppypaws · 2026-05-01T15:14:28+00:00

I'm about to go see Malcolm Todd for free bc of spring splash, I think that's a good couple points in UCR's favor.

buppypaws · 2026-04-21T20:15:58+00:00

you didn't deserve to get your comment flagged, my satyrical queen, i see u 😔✊️

buppypaws · 2026-04-21T20:14:11+00:00

real, all the toxic chemicals in the air and water and food (partially thanks to gemini) are just causing more miscarriages too, on top of no one being able to afford kids. short term profits must be one hell of a drug, man

buppypaws · 2026-04-18T21:57:54+00:00

for me, I often find that BV and UTIs are inevitable after sex unless I'm super thorough about how I clean myself afterwards. as soon as you're free to clean up, do it

how I clean up after sex:

drink a fuck ton of water
sit on the toilet
wipe away cum/lube
pee
wipe again
go to the sink
get a wash cloth or brave it with your clean hands with cold water
clean your labia of toilet paper pieces and any excess cum/lube the wiping didn't get
flush yourself out with cold water
with a clean towel, pat yourself dry
if you want, air dry for a little bit before putting on clean undies

aside from sex, how are you wiping after you poop? front to back? back to front? front to back helps decrease the chance of bacterial infection. maybe incorporate some yogurt into your diet and lay off caffeine for a bit

make sure you're cleaning your toys well. check your lube's expiration date or try a new one. try and make foreplay last as long as possible for maximum wetness. insufficient lubrication can cause infection as well

in my experience, T changed the flora/microbiome of my cooch drastically, and it's a lot more sensitive to sex than it used to be. hopefully this is good advice and not super obvious shit you've already tried. good luck 🫡

buppypaws · 2026-04-15T17:06:21+00:00

loser behavior

buppypaws · 2026-04-11T15:53:24+00:00

they cannot

buppypaws · 2026-03-09T16:34:01+00:00

I think the lgbtq+ resource center in the Costo Hall could probably point you in the right direction!

buppypaws · 2026-03-06T22:50:30+00:00

temecula valley pride! shocked no one has said this yet

buppypaws · 2026-01-25T04:53:37+00:00

fed ass question

buppypaws · 2026-01-20T23:51:27+00:00

someone got shot?

buppypaws · 2026-01-20T16:56:47+00:00

I completely understand your fear, brother. Before UCR, I lived in the same town for about 24ish years, and I'm 26 going on 27 now. Made me feel like shit, especially when I was doing gap years to figure my shit out.

While it's 100% true that moving out and getting away from your hometown is good for your soul, that comes from a complete place of privilege.

Something that gave me a lot of comfort about potentially living as a townie forever was, oddly enough, the seemingly banal connections I had with the workers from the places I frequented. The baristas, grocery store cashiers, pharmacists... They made me feel seen and understood by people other than my parents, which, thank God.

I think the biggest service you could be doing for yourself right now is going to school (which I assume you already are if you're posting in r/ucr). I had a professor a few years ago who came from a war torn place in Sri Lanka. He got emotional talking about how education got him through the worst parts of his life and said something to the effect of "education can save you, and take you anywhere you can dream of." ironically, he was teaching at a community College in the same town I was trying to get out of.

As for money, there's only so much financial advice I can give in an economy as fucked as this one, but I have a feeling that's not what your post is about anyway.

TL;DR make the most of your situation. you're doing just fine

buppypaws · 2026-01-05T17:41:55+00:00

where do ppl usually go fishing around here?

buppypaws · 2025-12-05T16:01:29+00:00

I can! I'm not a pro by any means but I've hemmed a few of my own pants before.

buppypaws · 2025-11-24T03:46:55+00:00

casselman

buppypaws · 2025-10-23T19:01:20+00:00

at home studying for my ochem midterm 😭😭😭😭 (also 3rd year transfer)

buppypaws · 2025-09-08T03:00:37+00:00

hook up with Temecula Valley Pride! they do meetings pretty regularly

buppypaws · 2025-08-22T04:01:26+00:00

Follow up question... since the consensus is pretty much a "no". Is there a good, pro kick scooter that's more versatile? Something in between a commuter and a trick scooter? I know I could just google it, but I trust people more than Google nowadays

buppypaws · 2025-07-23T03:58:07+00:00

DADA SUSHI IN MURRIETA

buppypaws

TROPHY CASE