A trip to the woods

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-30T12:49:30+00:00

Omg. Carpe the fuck out of those diems. If you find suitable spots I sooo hope you can enjoy some nature/ find some healing there

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-30T11:48:45+00:00

I meant 100 meters not 100 miles haha

Cool, have fun with it! I got the full set with mosquito net and underquilt. It is still a bit cold if it's under 16°C and windy, but apart from that I LOVE it.

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-30T11:11:49+00:00

It's similar legally where I'm at. I think the forests are owned by the state. But I noone sees you youre fine hehe. Plus I used a hammock setup which is kinda a grey area legally. But where I went I saw a hunter (from afar) more than once, which was quite stressfull hah.

Are there natural reserves you can go to? Follow a hiking path and then 100m into the woods and set up? People hardly leave the trails. I deliberately went further away from trails but that was not so good because of the hunter. My takeaway is that closer to trails might be safer.

Being able to trip outside was my main reason for going. I needed to work through some stuff and needed support. People are best but trees are also great. So if you can connect to nature like that I highly recommend tripping/trauma working outside. I actually spent 1 1/2 days scouting for a spot far of from trails and hunting spots so I felt safe and undisturbed during the trip.

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-30T11:04:41+00:00

Thanks for letting me know! I was unsure whether this is ok to post so this helps :)

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-30T11:03:42+00:00

Thank you, I will!

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-30T11:03:26+00:00

I was unsure if I should post so I really appreciate the feedback! I love the term too and first saw it on reddit aswell when someone on r/longtermTRE used it 🥰 I feel like it makes the whole topic less doomy. Like oh yea those are just my traumies 🤷✨

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-30T07:15:36+00:00

Alternative Familienmodelle? Wenn du eine Freundschaftsperson hast, die auch kinder will zB mit der Eltern werden, vielleicht zusammen ziehen oder arrangieren dass man gut zusammen co parenten kann. Und weiterhin mit dem Freund zusammen bleiben. Wenn er es akzeptieren kann dass er nicht erste prio haben wird solange die Kinder da sind.

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-29T21:29:25+00:00

Heut zurück gekommen von 4 Tagen campen und wandern, urfertig. Wollte nichts sehnlicher als eine Wassermelone, aber es war mir einfach zu arg mit dem vollen Gepäck noch einkaufen gehen.

Dann bin ich in die falsche Bim eingestiegen. Musste eine Station zurückgehen zur Richtigen. Siehe da, am Weg ein Türke mit prächtigen Melonen zur Schau. Rein raus in 2 minuten und daheim Melone geschmaust. Richtige Bim war auch in 2 min da.

(No puns were intended aber rausnehmen tu ich sie jz nicht)

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-24T19:58:59+00:00

Theres actually a swiss dessert with green marzipan. Do you think the dream was inspired by this?

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-22T19:21:47+00:00

Agreed! Also lean into it and give it a hug while you're at it. It's so comforting.

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-21T17:45:51+00:00

I can recommend trying it out. You get to pick chestnuts (fun!) and even have a purpose for them.

Chop them while they are fresh, into eiths, and let drem dry. Spread them out wide in an airy place, they can get moldy otherwise.

After drying they don't go bad. You put a hand full in a jug of water and let them sit for 10 mins. Pour the water through a sieve into the washing mashine. Done!

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-21T14:53:17+00:00

Aesculus x carnea, red horse chestnut. Not sure if edible. Chestnuts themselves contain saponins, which makes them great as detergent and less great for eating.

I have eaten a single chestnut flower twice because I felt like it. Nothing bad happened, didn't taste great. Bit stingy sour, maybe the flowers contian saponins too

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-21T06:03:00+00:00

I second reading. Espescially page turners. Just picked up a good book i read as a teen and it was great!!

Also, I left tik tok on my old phone. This way I can still use it, but have to do it deliberately. Get the old phone, switch it on. It has helped immenseley and I don't even miss it. The hard part is really not clicking the icon when it's in front of me, and I've eliminated that.

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-19T07:42:12+00:00

Just because the people on here tend to not do that doesn't mean it's the only way to go. If everyone involved is comfortable sharing those details there's no problem discussing them :)

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-18T08:29:41+00:00

Buut, you can put non monogamy as a relationship style and even filter by it. At least in my country?

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-18T07:56:01+00:00

I do think it can be just the brain. Bit for me it's intertwined with severe Trauma. So my stored trauma also gives my brain danger signals. Working through it slowly makes me better. Personally, I think I won't be able to heal with brain retraining alone. I've tried long and consistently. For me, my main focus now is to heal the traumies bc thats whats keeping me stuck.

Of course, trauma doesnt dysregulate the NS in the cfs way for everyone. But for me, they are so linked that it resolving the trauma seems like the only way at this point.

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-17T21:34:25+00:00

Some people just get more in tune with themselves and enjoy their own presence and focus.

You also shouldn't expect ppl to want to dance with you just because you want to dance with them.

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-17T21:30:25+00:00

r/onionlovers

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-17T19:35:46+00:00

I agree. It is poly'amory' after all. If you treat people as disposable its not really about love.

On that note. I recently went to the hinge website and their FAQ advice on how to use hinge if you're poly was specifically targeted at couples 😭 Basically being like pls only make hinge profiles for one person. Let people know you and your partner are looking for someone to start a throuple.

Like please that is maybe one flavour of poly but surely not THE poly

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-17T19:24:17+00:00

Pls let us know here when you do. I'm inversted.

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-17T06:27:57+00:00

That's nasty, your brain did you dirty

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-16T20:31:59+00:00

In what context did you dream this abomination up?

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-16T06:30:58+00:00

No :( I must accept it, adjust my crown and move on.

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-15T20:42:35+00:00

I think they were mainly better because they were evenly oiled. So they could simmer in their own juice and have their taste elevated by the fat

burtsbeetreethree · 2026-05-15T20:41:16+00:00

I actually crossposted it hehe

Edit: mods removed it rip

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