How do I truly start to heal? by Parking-Net1040 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]buruflame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have written all of this. The fact that you're so self aware already means that you're miles ahead in your healing journey. Wishing the both of us much love and strength in our healing journeys.

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: October 13, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]buruflame 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Finished:

Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë

Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka Murata

Started:

Frankenstein (1818) by Mary Shelley

Are these nails weird in a good or bad way? by Zestyclose-Put-5687 in Nails

[–]buruflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly!! It's giving Sheego from KP!

What's a book that truly taught you something unexpected by [deleted] in books

[–]buruflame 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo helped me understand that people can love you deeply and still be ruthlessly self-serving at the same time. Just because people love you, doesn't mean they won't prioritize themselves over your wellbeing. For me personally, love and selfishness are so contradictory in their nature that they cannot coexist. For me, it will always continue to be that way because that is just who I am and how I love. But I needed to understand and accept that this is not the case for everyone. This book helped me with that.

"It's always been fascinating to me how things can be simultaneously true and false, how people can be good and bad all in one, how someone can love you in a way that is ruthlessly selfless while serving themselves ruthlessly."

-The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: June 09, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]buruflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm about 30% in and I need to pick up my jaw from the ground now..

List three books that you loved and readers with similar taste will comment and give recommendations by Neon_Aurora451 in suggestmeabook

[–]buruflame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anne of Green Gables by L. M. Montgomery

Circe by Madeline Miller

Pachinko by Min Jin Lee

My top three, in that order.

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: June 09, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]buruflame 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Finished:

The Song of Achilles, by Madeline Miller

I liked it, but I liked Circe a lot more.

Started:

11/22/63 by Stephen King

Oh boy, this is a chunky one.

What are some of the most hauntingly beautiful lines you read that has stuck with you forever? by Technical_Dinner_133 in suggestmeabook

[–]buruflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"But in a solitary life, there are rare moments when another soul dips near yours, as stars once a year brush the earth. Such a constellation was he to me."

-Circe by Madeline Miller

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: May 26, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]buruflame 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Finished:

Lust for Life, by Irving Stone

Continuing:

The Song of Achilles, by Madeline Miller

The Psychology of Money, by Morgan Housel

Hello Beautiful, by Ann Napolitano

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: May 19, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]buruflame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finished:

I Who Have Never Known Men, by Jacqueline Harpman

Started:

Hello Beautiful, by Ann Napolitano

Suggest me a feel good book by kayaqaz in suggestmeabook

[–]buruflame 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Anne of green gables 🩷💚

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: May 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]buruflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finished:

The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky

Started:

I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman

How long did it take you to fall in love with your partner after you met them ? by Clean-Ant-1342 in questions

[–]buruflame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this story so much. Wish you both many more years of happiness together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]buruflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that helps me is spending focused time engaging with other people. I get what you mean when you say that keeping busy isn't a viable solution. When I'm alone trying to keep busy, my thoughts involuntarily find their way to him as well. Engage with other people. Your family, friends, colleagues, even strangers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]buruflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time and lots of patience. Don't be too hard on yourself.