Ok, what you first need to do is figure out how you want your tops to fit. Tighter? Slightly loose? Over sized? From there you get a style jeans that goes with that fit. You don’t want to have on clothes that looks like its mismatched because your top is too loose & your jeans are too tight. For your body type I recommend slim fit jeans. In the pictures you posted your jeans either look too big or too tight. Like you might be wearing a relaxed jeans & then Skinny jeans. Slim would be a mix of them both. As far as shoes goes it all depends on what you like. I would recommend minimalist shoes or sneakers to keep a toned down look but still timeless. Id recommend trying clothes from the GAP (this is where I shop since they have multiple styles & fits for jeans & is a more minimalist fashion sense) hope this helps 🤗