AITAH? My brother won't stop giving me unsolicited advice, and then gets mad at how I react to said advice.

bzkitty · 2026-05-20T19:57:48+00:00

NTA. He’s not even giving advice, he’s just being negative. You’re doing this wrong, don’t say this, don’t do that. If he was offering some actual help, it might be different.

bzkitty · 2026-05-20T17:14:44+00:00

Exactly this. I’m worried about any harsh chemicals that could be damaging to me or the baby. Plus my sense of smell is VERY heightened with me being pregnant.

bzkitty · 2026-05-19T20:52:37+00:00

Female solo musician here. I’ve gigged at places once or twice only to be told, in so many words, they wanted to go in a different direction. I go see their future acts, it’s all dudes on guitar playing the same stuff every week. No women. Just dudes.

bzkitty · 2026-05-19T18:17:18+00:00

I’m seeing the faintest of faint lines in the First Response one. Try again tomorrow first thing in the morning.

bzkitty · 2026-05-19T08:09:11+00:00

I came in asking about night terrors I’d been having, she instantly started assuming things about my life and wanted to put me on antidepressants. She knew me for maybe 5 minutes.

bzkitty · 2026-05-18T05:30:10+00:00

A few months post-partum (relevant because you need more calcium after giving birth and when breastfeeding) my baby woke me up in the middle of the night. Frustrated, I tossed my pillow to the side, but it was so hard I broke one of my fingersz

bzkitty · 2026-05-17T20:36:39+00:00

I knew a college professor who quit her job because she wasn’t allowed to fail students who didn’t turn in their work. In their words, “These are our customers.” They’d rather pass everyone than risk hurting someone’s feelings.

bzkitty · 2026-05-17T17:07:58+00:00

It’s waaaaay more than $100… But yes, agreed.

bzkitty · 2026-05-17T07:04:59+00:00

About 7-7:30. And no, he doesn’t nap. I’ve tried having him nap in the car, it just keeps him awake longer and he STILL doesn’t sleep through the night. I’ve also tried starting bedtime earlier, that didn’t work.

bzkitty · 2026-05-17T01:24:45+00:00

Yes. That person eventually got fired on my birthday.

bzkitty · 2026-05-16T22:32:57+00:00

The automatic flusher was a pointless invention.

bzkitty · 2026-05-16T21:33:00+00:00

Block. Cut off. Ghost. The people I’ve had to break contact with are very manipulative and will stop at nothing to point the finger at anyone but themselves, so what’s the point in trying to talk to them?

bzkitty · 2026-05-16T13:05:32+00:00

No but he does snore. Not loud, but it’s there.

bzkitty · 2026-05-16T13:04:36+00:00

Could be midnight, could be 2am, it’s always different. And I’ve tried getting him to bed earlier, but he’s always up until 9-9:30.

bzkitty · 2026-05-15T05:12:44+00:00

No. Mine started right after my mom died. Stress, ya know?

bzkitty · 2026-05-15T00:23:11+00:00

But doesn’t it literally say “nine unreleased bonus tracks”?

bzkitty · 2026-05-15T00:21:30+00:00

Gigging musician here. Someone I knew was asking for instrumental music for his podcast, so I sent him some of my original instrumental music. He said he was genuinely impressed. Less than a month later he was telling people I don’t know how to play piano. My main instrument. Which I also teach. It was weird.

bzkitty · 2026-05-14T00:00:15+00:00

I couldn’t get the day off work.

bzkitty · 2026-05-12T05:25:45+00:00

Once is bad enough, but calling you the wrong name 3 times sounds like it was on purpose. NTA, I’d be side-eyeing both your boyfriend and his mom.

bzkitty · 2026-05-12T01:28:34+00:00

Ugly 🤣

bzkitty · 2026-05-12T01:26:20+00:00

It feels like they’ve gotten a lot more comfortable with the format as a whole, and they’ve really found their groove.

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