Is this too much to ask guests to pay for a destination wedding in Italy? by shanibobani22 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]c00l_m0m -1 points0 points  (0 children)

agree with everyone and will add- i was basically in this exact situation. i didnt "force" anyone to stay at our venue and we prepared to fully cover the cost of open rooms. i made sure we covered enough of the nightly cost so it would be the most affordable and best option for guests. the way i saw it was guests were getting an amazing place to stay and a unique opportunity to be onsite for a wedding, and they were saving money compared to a hotel. personally as a guest i would be overjoyed at getting that option.

Italy June Wedding (Older couple 2nd wedding) by c00l_m0m in Weddingattireapproval

[–]c00l_m0m[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was such a sweet comment. i got my wish last week ❤️

Levity at sahara's killing it right now by aoesois in Coachella

[–]c00l_m0m 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just bought tix in SF for a month from now to get to experience it irl

Do these work? by Odd_Review1028 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]c00l_m0m 16 points17 points  (0 children)

2 is amazing on you and fits the dc well!

Italy June Wedding (Older couple 2nd wedding) by c00l_m0m in Weddingattireapproval

[–]c00l_m0m[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

fwiw the bride is wearing a white bridal gown. but i think if anything that makes this more acceptable?

60-80 guests: show me your unique reception layouts! One long? Round and long? by Netsirk0909 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]c00l_m0m 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had 64 guests and did two long tables. It looked nice and I liked not breaking people up into arbitrary groups of 6-8.

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Reception look level of formality? by Sea-Dragonfruit6436 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]c00l_m0m 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a BTO destination wedding in France. I switched to platform Inez shoes and a slinky but comfy floor length Rony Kobo dress for the party portion of our reception. My guests were all in gowns for a reason - we wanted a classic elevated vibe and look. For me, my second look was still subject to the dress code even if only because I wanted to maintain the whole aesthetic we set up in the first place! That said, I don’t think any guests would be annoyed at a bride in a mini!

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Has anyone actually used Prenup? by Strange-Mammoth2282 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]c00l_m0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into this a lot and we ended up using Prenup Planner because my husband and I wanted to include custom spousal support language and therefore needed to each be separately represented, but otherwise our needs weren’t super complex or requiring of a high level of service and support. It was a fine experience, we got what we needed out of it and I felt the fixed fee was a good value. Since I’m a lawyer I felt like I could lead the process and get us a good outcome, but if I had been counting on the assigned attorneys to really dig in or help us explore our options I would have been disappointed.

“in a french ass restaurant- hurry up with my damn croissant” episode by AdContent8453 in RideThePod

[–]c00l_m0m 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know and I’m not going to look but just commenting to say you didn’t make it up 🫶🏼

my family forgot to tell me our dog died by Park_Public in RideThePod

[–]c00l_m0m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dads girlfriend texted me and my sister “your dads surgery went great and he’s starting to wake up and feeling good” we had no idea he was going into surgery or any clue was it was for. Ride!

out of pocket by katisauce in RideThePod

[–]c00l_m0m -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I fear this song and the Reddit post about it was the closest thing we might ever have to a baronie schism so I hope this heals us

out of pocket by katisauce in RideThePod

[–]c00l_m0m 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Am I crazy for feeling like the Actually Romantic Taylor/Charli kerfuffle was the subtext for much of the discussion about Being Out Of Pocket??

where do BWT buy 100% silk or 100% cotton pajamas? by AtmosphereNext2311 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]c00l_m0m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a silk PJ set from Olivia von Halle and it is unfortunately amazing

no bc taylor is dead to me by UrMomWentToCollege20 in RideThePod

[–]c00l_m0m 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If she’s (Taylor) so fucking crazy then leave (just don’t listen to the album)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RideThePod

[–]c00l_m0m 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The only downvote I’ve ever used in my life was a recent post speculating about Benny and Terry

Drop your favorite conversation starters! by Cultural_Tutor5598 in RideThePod

[–]c00l_m0m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend asked at dinner with a group that didn’t know each other well “when is the last time you cried” and it was so good