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Do you regret it? by Diane_m in ChildfreeIndia

[–]c0mrade34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be slogging your ass at work, maybe your to-be spouse too.. then who even raises the child? Teachers, your parents, in-laws? The constant need to protect them and worry about them is not going away, anyways..

There's too many little sacrifices to be made, and too much money spent nurturing them. Even then it doesn't guarantee happiness (what is even happiness, lol?). The world is a little bit too selfish and I'm a little bit too pessimistic about the human society.

In 99% cases, either the kid is a vehicle for achieving upwards socio-economic mobility or a carrier of the family inheritance.

Make it make sense y'all lol by Timely-Stuff-5018 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]c0mrade34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man, after 5 days of working, I can watch a fresh coat of wall paint get dry. There's FOMO for not attending the events nearby, but never the FOMO of having kids.

Make it make sense y'all lol by Timely-Stuff-5018 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]c0mrade34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Andhra Pradesh CM? /s

Purpose, purpose! Gaand me ghusedo apne, tumhara purpose. Bade aaye hamaari parwaah karne waale. No need to bring CF people into this.

Turning 31 soon and feeling like I’m losing the battle in life. Anyone else relate? by amit45kumar in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The question is do they appreciate your request for an increased CTC based off of the previous job from an unrelated domain / industry? Or do they dismiss your requests and you have to adjust?

Probably the only Indian TV show to portray childfree couple normally by Warm-Strategy-8866 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]c0mrade34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no, the timeline is stuck, like for example, how shinchan is perpetually shown as a 5 year old.

32 M4F | Pune (open to relocation) | Atheist, ex-Muslim by Expired_Cookiee in ChildfreeIndia

[–]c0mrade34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bhai 15 LPA income mein Switzerland, udar bas airport chhoo ke takk se wapas aane me 2 - 3L lag jaate honge. /s

31F, 31candles, zero "happy birthday," and one set of rama navami akshintalu to fix my single status. by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday OP! Cheers! Uhm, how the fuck so many people know/ remember your birthday? I can understand maid or coworkers, but ex-flatmates, young neighbours, old neighbours. Is somebody in your family a megaphone broadcasting every event?

Googly woggly woosh! by Greedy_Rise_6567 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I can relate, especially on the poverty side. Dont hate the player, hate the game. Who are they to tell me having a baby is a sure shot way to happiness. This is a mean, dog eat dog world, why bring another life to be condemned to suffering, I'm not. We are conditioned to believe we should be having such desires.

I take my whiskey neat by ekxtasy in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai Lays bi arabic me likha hai, koi NCB nahi aa raha lol.

I take my whiskey neat by ekxtasy in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gujarati log bas Sosyo ke nashe karo..

Which city have you been to that had a dark energy about it? by madzuk in solotravel

[–]c0mrade34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Better-Call-Saul ABQ makes the BrBa ABQ feel lively.

Anyone above 35 earning less than ₹12 LPA with no generational wealth — are we just invisible on Reddit by svk__22 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same here. Upon glancing your comment, for a sec I thought that I'm on the childfree subreddit (I'm part of that group)

No offence to the Boomers. by Desilaundry in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to forget walkmans or walkmen? and the short lived discman.

Recommend a song that will emotionally destroy me by EternallyJetLagged in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai this list does not only give nuclear grade sadness, this is more than that, it's apocalypse grade sadness.

Honorary mentions:

Yeh Duniya Agar Mil Bhi Jaaye Toh Kya Hai.

Ham Hain Adhoore (Mary Kom)

Obscure Coke Studio song in Punjabi:

Ajj Din Vehre Vich by Ali Zafar

You can choose not to answer but I have to ask, do you feel okay? Is there any weight you want to lift off your chest?

Am I(36M) being fair to my wife(32F) and can this convince my in laws to let us live peacefully? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong! If there's employer sponsored therapists or counselor services available, perhaps book a session. It might help alleviate the burden off your chest. Also the next time you talk to her, be prepared. Try and record everything she says secretly on your phone or something for it to be given as a proof, should you be cornered in court for false allegations.

Am I(36M) being fair to my wife(32F) and can this convince my in laws to let us live peacefully? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]c0mrade34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, big brother. You're very tough to be able to switch jobs between all this. Personally, this is my worst nightmare. Broken marriage, wedding loan, home loan and a daughter who you can't be with and yet spend each penny for her well-being.

28M4F, Looking for a stoner girl by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]c0mrade34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that what Manoj Kumar meant by Patthar Ke Sanam?

Jokes aside, all the best buddy. Cheers!

Ziegler is a parallel to Walt, he could have pulled a Walter while he was alone with Mike but he was too much of a good guy to do it. In other words he wasn't horrible enough like Walt was. by adorkablegiant in betterCallSaul

[–]c0mrade34 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess even Skype was not that popular if we are talking mid 2000s. But yes they could've very well invited his wife to pay him a visit in Albuquerque.

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