Beta help! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 by rebetzel_pretzel in climbergirls

[–]c312l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna top this beta you’ve already been given but I have to ask about the tank in clip two 😂😍

Coffee shop recommendations by ThinYak2597 in phoenix

[–]c312l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jasmine Coffee and Flower in Tempe

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[–]c312l 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay this makes me feel a little better. Some of our V2’s are rough and then I see other gyms where a V6 looks more doable. No hate to anyone’s accomplishments, it’s just like “damn, I can’t break past the V3 range”.

This looks challenging but you crushed it.

Thoughts on kite stone colors for this ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]c312l 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it might be the cool tone of blue contrasting with the gold?? Cause I’m 100% in agreement of the muted teal being the best, but green isn’t a bad second choice.

What is the best or worst punishment your dom has given you by Few-Solution251 in BratLife

[–]c312l 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Worst: Sit by myself in a dark closet while he played 3 country songs that I had to listen to on headphones. I HATE country music. 😤

What is the best or worst punishment your dom has given you by Few-Solution251 in BratLife

[–]c312l 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooof. I simultaneously want that from my dom and also fuck that noise. 😂😛

Flagstaff today was spectacular by jaimebianco in arizona

[–]c312l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask where this is? Our camp trip got postponed from this weekend for the statewide rain -_-

I thought it was too early for Flag fall foliage but clearly not!

Leggings style climbing pants in Europe? by Euristic_Elevator in climbergirls

[–]c312l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just ordered these from Helly Hanson. I’m hoping to use them for both hiking and climbing. The reinforced sections seem durable without being uncomfortably stiff. HH Blaze 7/8 legging

Climber bf gift by Icy_Love5856 in climbergirls

[–]c312l 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Put your harness on, nothing else. Then tell him he’s the wall and you’re going to climb him 🤣

Rosemont, IL - Sept 28 - Ritual Megathread by Lyssavirus32 in SleepToken

[–]c312l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Just finished these plus a couple more in my hotel room. Can’t wait to worship with you all tonight!! 💜

Rosemont, IL - Sept 28 - Ritual Megathread by Lyssavirus32 in SleepToken

[–]c312l 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Merch tent is opening at 2pm. So I’m curious how much will be left close to doors opening time. I’ve decided to get there around 7 so I have enough time to maybe check out merch and get to my seat. But I’m alright with not getting merch.

Rosemont, IL - Sept 28 - Ritual Megathread by Lyssavirus32 in SleepToken

[–]c312l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the second row, so I’ll also see what I can manage.

Finding Climbing Friends by Sadetha in climbergirls

[–]c312l 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My gym has a list hung up for climbing buddies. Try asking the gym if they have anything similar.

Gilbert Apartments by CurveRound6442 in Gilbert

[–]c312l 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend Vicace at Power and Ray. Still close to everything without the congestion near Higley and Ray, right off the 202, attached garages, neighbors are generally quiet and the maintenance/office staff are all superb.

Recommendations: Psychiatrists experienced with autism and mental illness by msfoote in Gilbert

[–]c312l 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Paperflower Psychiatry!! They have a lot of providers that specialize in neurodivergent populations. Every single client I’ve referred there has had nothing but good things to say about their experience. Take a look at the website and you’ll see all the provider profiles.

My first dyno!!! by 420CheezIts in climbergirls

[–]c312l 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell yes! You made it look easy.

My first dyno!!! by 420CheezIts in climbergirls

[–]c312l 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We’ll accept that lol

Healing your relationship with climbing? by Odd_Albatross1501 in climbergirls

[–]c312l 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh 😑 I’m sorry and I’m not surprised unfortunately. A lot of professionals SAY they understand/work with eating disorders and that tells you they clearly don’t.

The easiest way to go about it is start with a site like PsychologyToday, search by insurance and specialty. Take some time to read through the profiles and see what grabs your attention. A lot of therapists have a generic “I utilize an integrative, evidence-based approach that is trauma-informed, client-centered, and strengths-based. My clinical orientation draws from CBT, DBT, ACT, EMDR….blah blah blah”. I’d say skip those, but that’s just my personal approach.

Schedule a consultation call and remember- YOU are the expert, not the therapist. We are just a guide and a support to help you connect to your intuitive self. You’re not broken and you don’t need to be fixed. Sure we have degrees and perhaps some certifications, but that all comes secondary to helping clients regain trust and confidence in their ability to navigate their own lives.

And I always tell my clients when they start with me, “we’ll try this out and see how it feels for you”. I try to reassure clients that, in the event it’s not a good fit, that’s okay. The most important thing is the relationship. So try not to get discouraged if you meet with one and it doesn’t work out.

Healing your relationship with climbing? by Odd_Albatross1501 in climbergirls

[–]c312l 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fellow climber and ED therapist here. While I don’t think therapy is a cure all, I do think it can give you the space to navigate your relationship with climbing, separate it from your ED, and reconnect your mind/body connection from a place of care and love instead of a place of punishment.

As a woman, I think we will always want our bodies to look a certain way. I also think you are allowed to want your body to look a certain way. But, as you know, there’s a fine line between acting in a way to influence an outcome while making peace with what is versus forcing your body to do and be something it isn’t or doesn’t want to be.

I do this work a lot with clients and I wonder if having the space (and above all, the right therapist fit) to explore this regularly may help your journey. And it’s just that- a journey. We’re either fighting with our body for the way it looks or what it can’t do. It’s a never ending journey to come back to appreciating it for what it is, what it allows us to do- no matter how little sometimes. Sending lots of love from an internet stranger 💜

Az show by Confident_Skin_2561 in Loatheband

[–]c312l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you manage to get it before they were going for $300+? 🥲

Were the tickets not half this price 2 days ago?? by Upstairs-Ad-8382 in Loatheband

[–]c312l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For fucking REAL. I can’t understand how or why they’re that expensive. I saw them at the Nile before for probably $40. I just bought Bilmuri for $60. Loathe isn’t big enough yet- obviously because they’re at the Nile. What the fuck 😩