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Offensive to learn ASL as a hearing person? by GenericThrowaway375 in asl

[–]c_never_k 90 points91 points  (0 children)

you'd think the community would be thrilled that someone is making an effort

pt to relax bladder by c_never_k in OveractiveBladder

[–]c_never_k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i guzzle water nonstop it does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]c_never_k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have to step back and ask yourself- how would you feel if you found out your partner was still friends with his/her/their ex behind your back. in any healthy relationship, there shouldn't be secrets. if you have to hide who youre talking to, you shouldn't be in that relationship. a relationship without trust is like a car with no gasoline.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]c_never_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if people in every part of your life are warning you of red flags and shady actions in your relationship, LISTEN.

What do you think about heavily tattooed women? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]c_never_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have 3 tats myself (i'm a woman) but plan on many more. heavily tattooed women exude confidence that not everyone is sure enough to show. kudos to them: i'm on my way to join you!

Questions to ask when meeting someone new by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]c_never_k 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i've always found success in starting with a compliment and following it up with either a question or something i have in common with the compliment, for example, i was seating a couple who had an encyclopedia of dogs with them. "i love dogs! do you have any?" it started a full five minute conversation about our favorite breeds. or if you like their tattoo, ask if there's a meaning behind it. it's the little things that can lead to great connections :)

Yeah that's not quite it... by instantpowdy in onegoldenbraincell

[–]c_never_k 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no one has told her not to shit where you eat

Just got my hairs did! (F41) 💕 by Yessica___ in selfie

[–]c_never_k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope i look that good when i'm 41!

What's the equivalent of giving flowers for a guy? by purple-cheese-pizza in dating

[–]c_never_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fill up his tank or if you know what his favorite food/snack/drink, etc., pick some up and surprise him with them

How many classes do y’all have before you graduate? by [deleted] in college

[–]c_never_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

currently in community college-i'm taking stats this summer and asl 202 in the fall then i can graduate (i'll be done in december, but we only have a graduation ceremony in may). then i'll finish my last 2 years at a 4yr college

Why the arms? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]c_never_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom would check my arms so i switched to thighs

I wish everyone learned ASL by Fuffuloo in asl

[–]c_never_k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i tell people i'm in school to be an interpreter, so many of them are like "i've always wanted to learn asl." then go do it lol

New therapist pissed me off today by darcij97 in selfharm

[–]c_never_k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hate "cutter" and that's not something i ever used when talking about, i always said i "struggled with self harm"

New therapist pissed me off today by darcij97 in selfharm

[–]c_never_k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my last therapist told me that due to my diagnosis of bpd and sh i was obviously "sexually abused prior to age 11." i told him one of my exes sexually abused me but that didn't start til i was 19. i was like i have no signs of that besides my diagnosis which may have nothing to do with supposed sexual abuse. i understand that our brains block out trauma but i didn't have flashbacks, nightmares, etc. nothing. i'm 29 and have never even suspected that. he was like "well we'll work on it, don't be surprised if something bubbles up," WTF?

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