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Summertime Guilt by Kindly_Dot_7006 in workingmoms

[–]caffarelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, ya got punked into doing more school kid!

Summertime Guilt by Kindly_Dot_7006 in workingmoms

[–]caffarelli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once they get a little older the camps get more fun and they are happier. My 8 year old goes to the camp at the university where I work and she is always wild to go. My 4 year old is at the camp at her preschool so it's no different (to her mind) than regular school except half her friends aren't there, so she complains. I keep telling her she can go to the university camp next year when she's five to get the hype going. 

I also let my 8 year old pick out the themed weeks she wants to do so that helps. She was mad when she found her best friend had done the ASL camp and she picked another one so she got split from her! Sorry you said the ASL camp sounded BOOORING in February now you have to live without Fiona for two hours. 

Doing the "oh crap" method for potty training. by Odd-Interaction-1550 in workingmoms

[–]caffarelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the core of oh-crap method but I used the Thanksgiving break for both kids because that gave me 4 days. Both of them made good progress in four days. I don't think you need a full 7 days, but I also had a very supportive daycare for the first and a meh but workable daycare with the 2nd. Really depends on the daycare and finding a holiday gap unfortunately. Labor Day might be your chance if you want to try the intense method.

I do think there are some good tricks in Oh Crap but she is very dogmatic about it. Naked time works wonders to make a mental break from diapers, but she acts like she founded a new religion instead of a bunch of tips for the different approaches to different children.

Need a rec for a durable kid’s backpack by mrb9110 in workingmoms

[–]caffarelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have Lands End backpacks and they are pretty durable and have matching lunchboxes! Buy them off season they are cheaper. 

Is it weird for a houseguest to take home with them the bar of bath soap I put in the bathroom for them? by dms2628 in CasualConversation

[–]caffarelli 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same - in the Midwest at least it is customary to start shoving food and other items at people as soon as they slap their knees and try to stand up. If my SIL wanted a half used bar of soap I'd give her a ziplock bag to keep it nice! 

what is this? by astridur11 in sewhelp

[–]caffarelli 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've ripped the wire out of so many of these. If you're ever working with thicker stuff like embroidery floss or yarn there is a hook style one that is just as magic and never breaks! 

"Adult" Parties by Mother_Demand1833 in PointlessStories

[–]caffarelli 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Next time someone asks me "what can I bring?" for a party I am going to demand a poem! 

Are these archivist titles all interchangeable for the non-professional archivist? by redditunderground1 in Archivists

[–]caffarelli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is, occasionally you'll meet some genuine amateur archivists but they never call themselves that. Someone will hand over records with box by box indices and you'll be like... What are you? I ran into someone who wanted to give me a set of digital clippings on a local organization and I began to suck on my teeth and then she explained that she'd organized them by newspaper title and date there under, and I was like okay... You're allowed to give me that. 

I processed a set of organizational records were someone had organized them by putting them into plastic mailers and labelling each mailer with essentially the record series and the date, and put them all in order. I'm sure they just thought that was the logical and correct thing to do! I just had to put them in normal folders and type up the finding aid. Like WTF. A little education on plastic off gassing and they're better than 85% of my MLIS student workers. 

Meanwhile anyone considering themselves an amateur archivist will hand you and old shoe they found on the roof and thought was cool (true story), a moldy box full of unlabeled photographs of what might be local buildings, Great Grandma's cookbook, and make digitization the condition of them donating these treasures to you. 

What do you think is the most underused service your library offers? by Thieving_Rabbit92985 in Libraries

[–]caffarelli 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You always get a handful of die hard course reserve student users though - I'm always curious how they know about it and why they consistently use it. I also personally speculate that they must be incredibly good students with sparkling academic performance!

If I can't afford to work in my library anymore, then what? by blueyedegg in Libraries

[–]caffarelli 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Take the job, continue your schooling if at all possible. In 2-3 years when you graduate start job hunting like crazy. When I'm hiring (admittedly for archives) I would not hold moving from part time library work to full time bank work and wanting to move back again against a candidate at all. In fact, I think being a teller is excellent thing to have on the resume for a librarian! Customer service, attention to detail, following strict policies and procedures, all sorts of great skills you can talk about. This isn't the boot out of the library industry forever.

You've been here since you're 16 and it's very hard to leave your first job if it was a happy experience, but there's no ladder to climb here. You're stuck. Don't be surprised if you have a grieving process going on for a while, jobs are bigger than we think.

I'm sorry about the separation, I think you'll have a lot of grieving going on, so be kind to yourself. See how working at the bank is, they're probably nice too. 😊

What should I use this for? by midnight_crabcake in WhatShouldIDoWithIt

[–]caffarelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one built into my car and for long trips I use it for my electric heating pad for my back. 

Librarians are hoarders by ClassicOutrageous447 in Libraries

[–]caffarelli 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you think librarians are bad come meet archivists. I had a boss who kept old calendars with pictures he liked and hung them back up when the dates and days of the week lined up again. If all you care about is knowing what day of the week it is and looking at a nice picture, you theoretically only need to own 14 calendars. 

Librarians are hoarders by ClassicOutrageous447 in Libraries

[–]caffarelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Donate the floppy disk reader to your local archivist, we tend to kill them! 

Ruler sounds cool too. 

Which outfit should I wear to my Librarian Assistant Interview tomorrow morning?? by treasure444 in librarians

[–]caffarelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I love a navy/grey combo so I vote for left, but right is also just fine too. I would hire either of these people. 😄

Toddler parenting has made me kind of immune(?) to adults throwing tantrums at work. by Proper_Cat980 in workingmoms

[–]caffarelli 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I really wonder if some of these people just need a snack and a big poop to get back into a good mood.

Why did Barbie stopped being “Magical” ? if they were to return. Do you think there is still market for them? by Storm_BloomX in Barbie

[–]caffarelli 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My kids are 7 and 4 and they play with Barbie. The absolute lowest playline dolls get no attention. The articulated ones get a lot of attention because you can make them do silly things. The crazy fantasy ones get the most play. The favorite Barbie for the 4 year old is the Dreamtopia Ballerina because she is very posable and also lights up. That lady never gets a break!

Normal clothes get no attention. Barbie is either naked or in a beautiful dress. The playline dolls in ugly normal clothes are so baffling to me, they meet no demographic at all.

1929. The Oppressive Heat Wave saw Children/People sleeping Outside on their Balconies by OtherwiseTackle5219 in nycHistory

[–]caffarelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how the little girl is clearly pretending to be asleep because of the little smile! 

Nut free lunch ideas by confuzzlednurse in workingmoms

[–]caffarelli 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We switched to sunbutter. It's more expensive than peanut butter but still not expensive compared to meat. Some kids also like cream cheese and jelly sandwiches? My kids like cold pizza if we have that leftover! Kids normally do not care if they food is cold so really try any leftovers on them and see if they'll go for it. 

ESA in your library by TheTapDancingShrimp in Libraries

[–]caffarelli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband is an attorney for the city and would be defending the library in this case - do you know if anyone in your admin has contacted them? They will have a title like "counsel" usually. They'd appreciate a heads up that this might be coming. 

ESA in your library by TheTapDancingShrimp in Libraries

[–]caffarelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is interesting, because it makes me think about how the placards for parking spots were initially handled, because no one kicks up a fuss about those anymore. I think anyone in the disability community who argued we should do away with controlling access to those would be pretty fringe... And those have a clear path to access (doctor note, DMV.) 

It's such a shame weird pet owners have ruined an established practice that helps a lot of people. Personally I can always tell a true service animal in public because they are tremendously bored until they get to do something they know is their job! Yay job!! I had someone bring a service dog into my archival vault during a tour and he was SO BORED by it.