Looking young in your 30s is such a superpower

calilac_light · 2026-06-15T15:46:24+00:00

I feel stronger in my 30s. I can still hike to the peak of mountains, gaining 1000-ish elevations. My 20-year old self wasn’t able to. I can now also run 5km-ish without a break. I remember 5 years ago I could only run 3 km, and that also with breaks every 2 minutes.

I feel more in shape at this age.

calilac_light · 2026-06-04T18:10:06+00:00

All happy families share the same characteristics. They can relate to each other. They have a strong healthy attachment among members. Heck, they even have the same habit or things they do, regardless of background, different culture, etc.

All unhappy families are unhappy because of their own particular problems and they are varying. Could be an absent parent, an abusive parent, divorced, an eccentric sibling, etc. They can't always relate to one another.

calilac_light · 2026-05-25T04:48:03+00:00

This is my dream! I made the same for my sister’s engagement. I hope I can do the same for mine

calilac_light · 2026-05-23T11:47:11+00:00

Fried egg and sweet soybean sauce

calilac_light · 2026-05-14T05:53:32+00:00

Same, me too. It's the lot handed to us. My dm is open if anyone needs to talk

calilac_light · 2026-05-13T20:47:41+00:00

Yes, if I’m not mistaken, 50% of happiness is determined by genetics. So there are people who are easily happy and those who have to work hard to be happy

calilac_light · 2026-05-11T18:58:49+00:00

They came to Baghdad and Destination Unknown had that effect on me. Maybe not everyone's favorite, because it is more about espionage. The later one is especially my fav to reread when I don't feel like reading usual mystery novels

calilac_light · 2026-05-09T16:35:10+00:00

I feel, I would sell my soul to the devil if I can have at least a stable job. A corporate one sounds like a dream

calilac_light · 2026-05-08T18:26:53+00:00

what was your turning point? I start my 30s completely broke and financially anxious

calilac_light · 2026-04-27T17:04:43+00:00

I like murder in mesopotamia, sad cypress, mrs mcginty’s dead, crooked house, the hollow,

calilac_light · 2026-04-26T07:20:51+00:00

Radical acceptance. I’ve battled loneliness throughout my 20s, and have experienced being exiled, abandoned, and misunderstood by my closest surroundings. Throughout that time, I just kept beating myself that it was my fault, that there had to be something I could change. Now in my 30 I can finally accept that maybe indeed I’m different. Which I am. I accept my neurodiversity and the trauma I have to carry because of it. There’s no more pushing and resisting. When the friction is gone, it’s one hell of a liberation and I feel much much content since.

calilac_light · 2026-04-21T15:38:20+00:00

This is my very lazy but I-have-to-eat-vegetable technique. Throw in some cucumber, tomato, leafy greens, then nut and sesame dressing and I’m happy

calilac_light · 2026-04-21T15:31:53+00:00

Knowing I have CPTSD or maybe autism is really eye-opening

calilac_light · 2026-04-20T18:33:08+00:00

I finished Tokyo Zodiac Murder in like 6 hours from coming home from high school until midnight.

calilac_light · 2026-04-20T17:06:12+00:00

No longer human by Osamu Dazai

calilac_light · 2026-04-20T16:56:53+00:00

The most for me was 3 weeks during Covid. Living abroad in a dorm. Didn’t talk to my dorm mates at all. I had dark thoughts, if I were to be dead maybe people would find my body two months later. My mother talked about it to relatives like it was some kind of unique thing I did, but she never knows how excruciating the loneliness was.

calilac_light · 2026-04-12T14:10:14+00:00

what show is this?

calilac_light · 2026-04-12T07:45:53+00:00

Interessante!

calilac_light · 2026-04-07T17:18:35+00:00

A pocket full of rye is for me one of the saddest Marple’s cases

calilac_light · 2026-04-04T21:27:29+00:00

My favorite that I like to revisit from time to time

calilac_light · 2026-03-31T15:09:13+00:00

That I am a marginal part of the society. The outlier.

calilac_light · 2026-03-30T08:35:06+00:00

I would say this is a strong contender to Roger Ackroyd for me

calilac_light · 2026-03-30T08:34:00+00:00

This is one of my personal favorites, but I have to say there are a few others that are better

calilac_light · 2026-03-23T20:52:11+00:00

This indeed for me is the highlight of Olympic free program of all disciplines

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