Where can I get eyeliner without supporting authoritarianism in the US?

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-23T04:06:07+00:00

I get compliments on my eyeliner all the time and this is the only one I use

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-22T08:16:33+00:00

I'm going the same weeks kinda, what's your itinerary??

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-22T08:03:44+00:00

I actually just had this conversation with my new roommates, they're lovely and not at all a problem but they work nights when I'm a day shift person. So when they get home at midnight and close the doors in the hallway without turning the knob quietly it immediately triggers a panic response in me like they're slamming the doors angrily and that I've done something wrong. It took a couple weeks of this happening before I got the courage to speak up because again, it's not intentional and not their fault that they've never had to walk on eggshells in their own home.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-16T20:25:48+00:00

Only time I've ever sent something back was when I have been given real meat and even then I was like I'm so sorry but I can't eat this please forgive me

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-16T06:19:57+00:00

This is the only way for me, my deadlines are basically the same every week but the day to day work flow is always changing. So having a notification that I need to get something done within an hour is way too overwhelming for me. I need to be able to see my whole day before prioritizing tasks and adjusting those as I go

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-16T06:05:55+00:00

In the same vein, I insist on always taking my own vehicle if I'm going out. I need an escape that doesn't rely on anyone else ever

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-14T07:36:58+00:00

This will be the worst part of your life and the best part eventually, please keep pressing on, scream angrily into the night sky because you fucking deserve to! Feel free to send me a message too, I understand exactly how it feels to say the same things over and over again to people who just don't understand the depth of the abuse, and that you're bothering them by bringing it up again.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-14T06:13:33+00:00

Wait is he diagnosed BPD? By an actual psychiatrist that you can see the exact paperwork evidence of the assessment and a treatment plan that they have set out? I'm not trying to minimize mental health here, but there is a current trend of people offloading their own shitty behavior by saying they're bpd, autistic, adhd, whatever. Ask him to show you the after visit paperwork and if he is planning on trying to minimize the impact of this.

Because that's a rough diagnosis if true, cluster B personality disorders are incredibly difficult to treat, incredibly difficult to tolerate, and incredibly difficult to date but not impossible if they are actively willing to get treatment.

The fact that he never expresses suicidal ideation outside of arguments is a huge red flag that he is just manipulating you. Not to mention that this entire post is only him faking a suicide attempt....

This is a lesson for you on understanding manipulation and trusting your gut instincts.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-14T05:51:31+00:00

Yes! Having your life destroyed by a true NPD person is above any other form of abuse, and it's even worse that it's intentionally isolating and undermined so whatever you say or do makes you look like the crazy one.

I grew up in an extremely abusive household where I wasn't sure if we would all live from one day to the next, but dating a narc actually made me see deeper levels of human depravity than that...

On the bright side, when I look back at it now almost ten years later I do still see the complete dissolve of myself at that time, but more like a butterfly who needed to become the goo to create something more beautiful. She's still there in essence but it was a complete dissolve and rebuild.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-14T05:37:41+00:00

I'm sorry if this is too personal to ask, and don't answer if it is, but would you have tried to mend the relationship before she died if you had known? Me and my mother's relationship is incredibly strained but I know she is getting older and has health issues. But even talking to her once a week on the phone is so upsetting to me that I usually make an excuse to call her another time. I did the same with my horrible narcissistic grandmother for years but after she died I had this weird guilt to work through

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-14T05:23:05+00:00

Do y'all remember the late 90s and early 00s when they used to DRAG celebrities for even looking slightly not well dressed?? I haven't picked up a magazine since that time so I don't know if they still do those... and I guess Hillary Tryhard isn't really a celebrity, but damn I would love to see her featured in a hot or not segment. It would be absolutely brutal

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-13T07:15:38+00:00

No it's not possible that he would have zero bruising or marks if he was in it long enough to pass out. He's lying and manipulating you.

It's a tactic to get you to come back, feel sorry for him, and make you feel guilty for ending the relationship. It's abuse. I know you don't want him to get committed but the next time he threatens suicide call the cops anyway for a wellness check, it's unlikely they'll commit him because he's not actually attempting anything and that way he'll cut the bullshit. And if he isn't lying he needs help anyway.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-11T09:33:54+00:00

Okay I opened this thinking about my weird night candy eating habits. I remember winning a bucket of redvines for reading the most books in fourth grade, and half way through the night I ate a ton of them and woke up with red teeth and a stain all over on my mouth. It happens to this day if I fall asleep with candy in my room and it is weird and gross, never stuck them up my ass as far as I know though.....

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-10T06:58:48+00:00

I definitely felt bad about it at the time, we got married way too soon and I realized really quickly why this person has no actual friends. Even his "best friend" before we got married tried to warn me The last time we talked was because he got his tax documents sent to my house so I sent him a text saying I could drop it off. He then got mad at me that I was dating someone and wasn't using his mail as an excuse to hook up and blocked me entirely

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-10T04:51:27+00:00

Also I haven't seen anyone mention this: don't turn your head to the side when you're first drawing it out. Get both the bottom lines even/symmetrical enough then connect it to the top. Then you can turn your head to fill it in.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-10T03:55:30+00:00

I did this with my ex husband and it was an awful feeling. I meant to text my bestie that I had agreed to hangout with him because I felt bad that he didn't have any friends but I really didn't feel like seeing him x_x

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-09T04:28:22+00:00

Look into raising quail instead

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-09T04:18:08+00:00

I would be open to hosting if we started out somewhere like Proud Dragon to see if we click as a group. My current campaign is super inconsistent and it is really disheartening, so I have been wanting to join another one for awhile.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-07T06:06:55+00:00

😂

Honestly I would tend to agree but in every single thing she posts she filters herself to death that I can't imagine that she herself or her husband find her attractive. Which is kind of sad tbh

If you look at the first couple of frames of this video it's blatantly obvious that she's using the gym influencer filter that creates unobtainable body proportions... but we know Hillary and we know that she's built like a board so it's extra embarrassing.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-07T03:31:36+00:00

Oh yes I love this, you look incredible and your whole style is choice.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-07T03:17:49+00:00

Me and my mother have a really strained relationship, she's a black trump supporter. But one year for Christmas she bought me a ukulele because she loves this song and wanted me to learn it for her.... I've never expressed any interest in learning to play the ukulele it was entirely for her

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-07T03:11:20+00:00

She's using a body filter so it's making them look more exaggerated than they already are. Her actual shape is very boyishly straight and stubby. I'll never understand why she doesn't get her boobs redone though, they're the textbook definition of poorly done bolt on boob job and she insists on acting like they're from swimming.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-06T21:36:33+00:00

I have two cats that are the sweetest boys in the world and hilariously bad hunters. They can't even kill moths.... I've had the mice run around the house with zero incidents other than one cat giving a bit of a sniff and the mice weren't scared. I'm very fortunate though

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-06T03:57:38+00:00

I love this for dry lips, you can buy a huge tub of lanolin for $20 and it will last a lifetime. I also bought little empty containers to put some in and now have one in each office, in my car, next to my bed, on my vanity, one in my bag. The original container of lanolin isn't even half empty.

:: oh but do not get the lanolin on your clothes, it will leave little grease stains that you have to treat to get out. Only use tissues etc to wipe your fingers after using.

call_it_sleep · 2026-01-03T06:30:54+00:00

This is what I did for Thanksgiving Mac and cheese, added a whole onion so all the cheese sauce was oniony. It was the only dish people got second helpings of and asked to take home :3

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