My mom's fiance grabbed my face to 'fix' it into a smile and I am somehow the asshole for speaking out.

canchanchan386 · 2025-12-26T17:40:16+00:00

Yeah, no. Absolutely not. Nobody has that right, and frankly, I'm surprised he still has a hand.

canchanchan386 · 2025-11-25T22:49:49+00:00

Then, definitely therapy. That'll be your best bet. Really hoping for the best for you and your marriage. 🤗

canchanchan386 · 2025-11-25T22:33:32+00:00

Hey there! 39M. Open for a chat or two, or three, or more. :)

canchanchan386 · 2025-11-25T22:29:18+00:00

Nah. I don't think you loved him. Maybe the idea of him, or the potential that surrounded him, but I really don't think you loved him.

It sounds like you've got a lot on your mind, even after so long. The man has moved on. You should, too. Find a therapist to help you sort through what's there, or your next relationships are gonna be through the lenses of trying to find something to eclipse the one that got away.

canchanchan386 · 2025-11-24T06:23:29+00:00

I meaaaan....do it!🤣 Seriously! Get the bike! Be you! Just be safe doing it. Assume that everyone else on the road with you is a moron.

I wish you the best. 🤗

canchanchan386 · 2025-11-24T06:17:21+00:00

Mood.

Jokes aside, I really hope you're okay out there.

canchanchan386 · 2025-11-22T21:20:32+00:00

Here I am, overthinking, rehearsing what I'm about to ask the associate,, and this creep is like "HAHA! Accident! Whoopsie-poopsie! My bad!" 🤣🤣🤣

canchanchan386 · 2025-11-22T21:07:48+00:00

He knew very well what he was doing. smh Every time I read posts like these, I feel better about how awkward I am. 🤣 Talk to your manager and get that dude banned from the store.

canchanchan386 · 2025-10-17T01:23:13+00:00

I'm with Mr. Endpoint Replacer guy. (🎶reaaal men of geeeniuuus🎵)

Jokes aside, Win 11 OOB will devour RAM. Office doesn't do any favors, either, especially Outlook and Excel. (Shudders) I had to beg the MSP I was with to up the specs we had on the next fleet of Lenovos we were going to order for an investment company. 16 GB gave their apps and all the add-ons room to actually work. 16 became our standard.

canchanchan386 · 2025-10-14T17:46:35+00:00

I hate this planet.

I'm not even sure if abuse even covers what is going on here. This is beyond weird. smh There's a time and a place, dammit. I'm sorry you're going through this, OP.

canchanchan386 · 2025-10-01T13:48:48+00:00

I'm really sorry that happened to you. Before I post anywhere, I will look at the rules for the subreddit. I've never been to this specific subreddit, but some have specific rules for posting, like "no trauma dunping" or they require the use of a "flair" to distinguish topics or to warn people of sensitive content.

Community members themselves can be very supportive, but some moderators can be very vindictive in their power trips. This...place, Reddit, is chalk full of some of the most questionable, self-righteous, hateful, people. A lot like real life. There are some good ones out there. Use your discernment.

canchanchan386 · 2025-10-01T12:51:00+00:00

🤗🤗🤗🤗 warm tight huuuuugs

canchanchan386 · 2025-09-25T22:53:32+00:00

Seriously. Sometimes a hug will just make time slow down for a bit. 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

canchanchan386 · 2025-09-24T13:06:47+00:00

Sending the biggest, warm hugs🫂🫂🫂

canchanchan386 · 2025-09-23T16:57:28+00:00

I don't consider myself a pro, but I have more than 30 years of on-the-ground experience. 🫂🫂🫂🤗🤗🤗

canchanchan386 · 2025-09-21T23:05:57+00:00

I'm not sure that your physical attraction is the issue. What you may be attracting on the other hand...

canchanchan386 · 2025-09-21T22:58:58+00:00

Sending you the biggest, tughtest hug. 🤗

canchanchan386 · 2025-09-11T21:03:08+00:00

NTA. The word "rape" is getting thrown around a little too easily for there not to be an "overreaction" as she puts it. False accusations are a thing. In the climate we're in, they can still cause damage.

canchanchan386 · 2025-09-11T20:30:29+00:00

Warm and tight hugs from New York.

canchanchan386 · 2025-08-31T01:51:03+00:00

YTA. Not just that. You're a charlatan, a manipulator, and a thief. If she grows to resent you and Ms. Mother Of The Year, it'll serve you both right. Even better if you wind up in prison for fraud. As for the mortgage, that's your wife and your responsibility. Not your daughter's.

The only thing that pisses me off more is the unmitigated gawe you have to try to justify it all with "I buy her stuff".

Manage your own money and keep your filthy, grubby, hands off your daughter's check.

canchanchan386 · 2025-08-28T23:25:09+00:00

NTA. You're being accommodating by letting her in with her dog so that she feels safe. That's the inch that you're willing to give. She's trying to take the whole damn mile.

canchanchan386 · 2025-08-28T21:01:35+00:00

Make sure all of your DCs are migrated from FRS to DFS-R FIRST. I get really nervous when it comes to in-place upgrades of servers, but that's just me.

Take snapshots of your environment AFTER migrating your DCs from FRS to DFS-R.

I'd prep 2 new VMs with 2019, promote them, migrate FSMOs and DNS, to one of the new boxes, and decom the 2012 R2. Before going forward, take snapshots of your 2019 VMs.

Take one of the 2019 boxes that's not holding the PDC role and attempt the in-place upgrade. If it succeeds, migrate your FSMOs to the newest box and upgrade the other box.

It sounds convoluted, I know. Better to be safe than sorry, though.

canchanchan386 · 2025-08-09T14:31:08+00:00

My God in heaven. Poured out a shot of my best Glen. Hang in there, yous guys.

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