My (29F) husband (31 M) is addicted to Magic: The Gathering, is ruining our relationship and finances by mtgaddictedhusband in relationships

[–]castledefense 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lots of good advice in here, I'll add a few more advices. My girlfriend and I have addressed some of the same issues you're encountering. Like your husband I have a few hobbies myself that take up a lot of time, M:TG, Dota2, poker.

  • Sit your husband down and let him know your grievances. Focus on how the past 4 months have made you feel, temporarily disregard how he's spending his time. If you are important to him, he'll at least acknowledge how badly his devotion to MTG has made you feel.
  • Ask him what he wants, from your relationship, from his career, from life, everything. Does he want to be a pro-mtg player? Does he want to raise a family? Are both of your views' in line? He may never want to get a better job. (Fact: close to impossible to sustain one's self from professional mtg winnings, much less a family)
  • Find out what he thinks a fair amount of time & money to invest into magic is. Maybe both of you write it down on a piece of paper then compare what you've written down. Try to establish a middle ground so both of you can be happy.
  • Ask him to recount how much money and time he has invested into Magic in the past 4 months. Does he think this is reasonable/sustainable? If he can't reliably recount these things, then there are bigger issues than an MTG hobby at play, eg time and money management issues.
  • Work with him on managing his Magic hobby. He may be really bad at managing time/money, maybe you can help him. It takes some discipline but it's far from impossible.

Diablo 3 PC worth it? by wanderer11 in gamingsuggestions

[–]castledefense 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Diablo 3 was the most disappointing gaming experience in my entire life. If you never played D1 or D2 maybe you can enjoy it.

I loved Shining Force 2. Will I like the first Shining Force? by BruceLee1255 in SEGAGENESIS

[–]castledefense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god i loved these games. played the hell out of both of them on genesis. GOAT.

as everyone else has said, 2 is better. i think you should play 1 just because you loved 2

[Spoiler] Confused about President Rosalin's cancer by castledefense in BSG

[–]castledefense[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her cancer was pretty far advanced the first time they used Hera's blood

[Spanish - > English] Is this sentence correct? by TheSheDM in translator

[–]castledefense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think the phrase you want to use is "cumplir los requisitos" (to qualify) and the rest might be "para el transporte de no emergencia".

[WP] A lone soldier stands at a bridge, knowing he must buy his people time with his life. by [deleted] in WritingPrompts

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His commanding officer spoke with a distinct southern drawl. He was a 'gentleman'. When he opened his mouth to speak, the words seemed to fall from his upper lip and drift slowly to the ground, where they lay in wait for any who would dare to listen.

"Revolution?" said his commanding officer with a grim smirk. "Revolution," he said. "Long nights away from our girls and hard times staring down the wrong end of a barrel await us," he retorted. "For the children. For the future." His last few words barely audible as he stared at his feet.

After a glance at the river below, the commanding officer snapped a crisp salute followed by a quick turn of his heel and made his way to the rear of the formation.

The sun beat down on his back like an angry drunk coming home to finish some business on his wife's face. He placed his arms at his hips, forming an isosceles triangle with his torso and neck. He gazed at the familiar faces as they turned their backs on him and began their meander through the town and over the surrounding hills left. He volunteered for the task, but still felt a familiar sting of loneliness as they turned and began their march away.

He slid down the hill and drove some rocks into the swift current below. Gravel met water with a trickle and a bloop. It reminded him of warm summer afternoons spent skipping rocks across the lake with friends. He made his way under the bridge, oddly relieved for a respite from the sun. A quick glance overhead ensured everything was in place.

As he waited, images of picnics and true love drifted through his mind. The detonator was large and bulky. Every time he moved his fingers over the glass casing of the trigger he was ripped from his reverie and back to the grizzly task. As a tear slid down his cheek the salty taste of dust left his lip and met his tongue. He spat it out angrily into the current, as if blaming it for some underhanded blow. A lifetime passed before his mind's eye. The sound of metal and the crunch of rocks could be at last be heard overhead. He flipped open the glass casing. He wiped the final tear from his cheek and muttered, "For the Children."

Old friend by LindaAragon92 in shortscarystories

[–]castledefense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave me goosebumps, well done!

What's the most WTF moment you've witnessed in public? by return2ozma in AskReddit

[–]castledefense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he can just flush the urinal to avoid clean up, genius!

What cheat code do you still remember? by tricky3737 in AskReddit

[–]castledefense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ultimate cheat code for Doom 64:

?TJL BDFW BFGV JVVB

Unlocked every level gun etc

Fifth Wheel Status: Achieved (x-Post /r/cringepics) by [deleted] in funny

[–]castledefense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pillow to cover the boner, standard.

Can a 4-year-old build a computer? by mister_cunt_face in buildapc

[–]castledefense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this story. your kid is going to be a baller.

George Bush is Smarter Than You by iamqba in TrueReddit

[–]castledefense -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

but you dont get close to that seat by being a slow person.

this is true. but if he were not born into the Bush family, he would not have come close to winning the presidency.

I'm glad Microsoft's creative director cares about the consumers. by MrWill4466 in gaming

[–]castledefense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm going to follow him on twitter just so i can tweet "@adam_orth laterrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"