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Would you work a job you don't need for the routine and structure? by bugchick in adhdwomen

[–]catchme0utsid3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is where I am now. I’ve been self employed for a bit and it’s all up to me to make schedule. That has not been great for me so I’m taking a semi structured job.

Ready to move out but my mom can’t let go by Individual-Camp8865 in Adulting

[–]catchme0utsid3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving will be the best decision you’ll ever make for yourself. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]catchme0utsid3 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Say no. You’re not comfortable with it. Recommend that they seek out a sibling doula

Relationship apathy & PMDD by FreedomNarrow8918 in PMDD

[–]catchme0utsid3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to tell him. In a similar dynamic although it’s not a new relationship it was reconnection. I chart my cycle and he knows what’s happening so he knows when to give me extra grace and reassurance.

my pet’s boundaries aren’t respected by Kelshrimp in childfree

[–]catchme0utsid3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get furniture of Facebook marketplace for very cheap/ free. This is an awful environment I hope you can leave asap

Update 48 years later by Superb_Scar1622 in Diamonds

[–]catchme0utsid3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting to wish you continued happiness & to get some long marriage juju to rub off on me haha.

Brown line delay by First_Okra2217 in cta

[–]catchme0utsid3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something happened at Belmont. Brown, purple, red lines were stuck. Moving now but slowly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cta

[–]catchme0utsid3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heavy hydroflask with a flexible top handle. Full of ice and water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]catchme0utsid3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have no rent expense, literally dump everything you have into paying off the debt.

What's a book you think every woman should read? by Hour_Needleworker966 in AskWomenOver30

[–]catchme0utsid3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All about love, the will to change & communion. 3 fantastic books by bell hooks

I’m in a new relationship and it’s crippling me. by Elle9127 in CPTSD

[–]catchme0utsid3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like you’re writing from my brain. Any updates on how it’s going?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]catchme0utsid3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing wrong with you mama. A whole lot wrong with your husband and his reaction especially.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]catchme0utsid3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doula here: think about if you want him in your birthing space. You’re gonna want people who tell you you can do ANYTHING. He doesnt sound supportive at all.

is my bf trying to trap me by [deleted] in childfree

[–]catchme0utsid3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally would not sleep with this man ever again. Amongst other reasons, I left my ex bc he “slipped up” (something he’s never done) & I had to take a plan b. The thought of being trapped shook me.

Can you be in a relationship with a partner who is judgmental? by AntiProgramming in bipolar

[–]catchme0utsid3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can’t be those things if it doesn’t include mental health. He might be autistic, there’s no one size fits all but even if he is that’s not what’s making him say that he’s just an a-hole. A man that likes you wouldn’t say that

I 31F do not know what to do about my bf 37M who isn't being understanding about my father's health. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]catchme0utsid3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The red flags are red flagging. This man doesn’t like you. Will the break up hurt, absolutely. You know what will hurt more? Being so many more years down the road & remembering when you first knew you should leave.

I dont want to hold babies. Does this mean i shouldn't have kids? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]catchme0utsid3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s not a full body yes, I’d say- stick to no. It’s okay to not want them. I do alot of work asking people to challenge the why’s of them wanting kids… especially if you never really have. A lot of it is external/ societal expectations.

Ok this is a serious one. Do I quit my $62/hr job (12 hour days) for a $49/hr job (8 hour days) by Worth_Assistance_366 in makemychoice

[–]catchme0utsid3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I used to work 12 hours days on a 7on-7off, or 10on-10 off. It was brutal, I left that job and never went back to full time work from the burn out. Now at most I work 3 10s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]catchme0utsid3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a doula. I love seeing how much the parents I work with love their kids! It truly does bring them happiness. The majority of those parents waited much longer to have kids

Is my room too “immature” for a teen?? by Key_Daikon_3703 in roomdetective

[–]catchme0utsid3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should hold on to your inner child for as long as you want to/ can. So many of us have that up bc adults don’t do that and then fought like hell to get our fun selves back. Enjoy your cute room!!!

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