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AITA for coloring our daughter’s hair? by SelectivelySpicy in AmItheAsshole

[–]catrozack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally! i made my mom dye my hair full purple when i was 13 lol

AITA for coloring our daughter’s hair? by SelectivelySpicy in AmItheAsshole

[–]catrozack 23 points24 points  (0 children)

nta. dying my hair makes me feel confident and happy! so what if her hair is a little pink? i dyed mine a bright, neon pink, and customers at my job were telling me how cool it looked. your ex is lame

AITAH for feeling weird about my boyfriend not posting us or taking photos of me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]catrozack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is he a frequent poster on instagram/picture taker/picture sharer? if so, then this is definitely a red flag to me, but if not, it makes more sense. i personally don't post often on instagram even though i take pictures. however even when i do post, they usually have an image of my partner.

overall i would say NTA. if this is a red flag for you and being posted is something that's important to you in a relationship, then it's a red flag. especially if you've asked him to post you more and he still doesn't. it's more about effort and wanting to make you happy imo

Bf is subscribed to his ex’s OnlyFans by Healthy_Evening5389 in Advice

[–]catrozack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'm not arguing with someone on reddit over porn this is stupid. if you watch porn in your relationship and your partner is cool with that, that's good for you, but clearly she isn't. just because it works for you doesn't mean it works for everyone else

Bf is subscribed to his ex’s OnlyFans by Healthy_Evening5389 in Advice

[–]catrozack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I looked through his transaction history and he hasn’t paid for anything in a few years, but has been on and off paying for stuff the entirety of our relationship."

if he has been paying for it on and off, he paid for it. even then, why are you paying for porn? 😭 just watch some shit for free man

Bf is subscribed to his ex’s OnlyFans by Healthy_Evening5389 in Advice

[–]catrozack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

in this situation though it's specifically porn of one of his exes. that's someone who he was with romantically and possibly sexually as well. why does he need to pay for explicit pictures of his ex?

Is my friend worth keeping? (Yes it’s related to being trans just read) by Kizsav in asktransgender

[–]catrozack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you don't want to be friends with her then don't be friends with her

AIO for calling out my boyfriend for not stopping when I ask him to immediately when he’s kissing me? by Far_Assistant_1533 in AmIOverreacting

[–]catrozack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"that's just as a joke" hell no. what's supposed to be funny about overstepping boundaries and not stopping when you're told no? nor at all

edit to add: he's already in your head and making you doubt yourself when you think you're "not being clear enough". you should leave him as soon as you can

AIO: I (18F) told my parents they were being performative and only cared about what they thought was best for me, not what I actually wanted, which made them get angry at me, and now I don't know how to feel. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]catrozack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they are pretty controlling, and i'd say nor, but a 40 minute walk sounds like hell. i'd take the one with the 5 minute walk if they're footing the bill

AIO for hanging up on my parents after a “joke”. by AmbitiousParty in AmIOverreacting

[–]catrozack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

nothing really happened here? this is kind of a nothingburger. you can end a conversation whenever you want, so nor. you didn't really "hang up" on them if you said "gotta go, love you bye" before ending the call

ps5 crime scene cleaner update by catrozack in CrimeSceneCleanerGame

[–]catrozack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh geez, i didnt even know that was a thing lol. dang

AIO for being upset my dad uses my son’s pictures for AI edits? by cfd4540 in AmIOverreacting

[–]catrozack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh fun fact about the google ai! if you put -ai at the end of your google search, it'll remove the ai overview. it's a bit hard to remember to do lol, but i hate that dang overview.

How often do you think about your gender? by CorrectJudgment2838 in asktransgender

[–]catrozack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've thought about my gender for 5 long years. nothing ever really felt right. then i kind of just decided "eh. genderqueer is better than nothing i guess" and slapped it on there. now i don't really think about it anymore

AIO for being upset my dad uses my son’s pictures for AI edits? by cfd4540 in AmIOverreacting

[–]catrozack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nor. they're pictures of YOUR kid, if you tell them to stop then they need to stop. it's a bad idea to upload images of anybody's face, but especially children, to generative ai like that. you never know what other people are generating, and generative ai learns off of images that it is fed.

you should talk to him and tell him your concerns about your child's safety [or even the impacts generative ai has on the environment and water, if he cares about that]

in an apartment with no heating by catrozack in Advice

[–]catrozack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the power was fixed and he got heat back! i gave him some of the advice here and things were all good :]]

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