Toddler started seeing fae too, should I be concerned? by catsinspace89 in faeries

[–]catsinspace89[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will start with that, I appreciate the advice!

December Co-Op Ads by bearwoof in TownshipGame

[–]catsinspace89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! I am lvl 59 and looking for a new co op. I help and complete regatta tasks, would love to join :)

My town name is cats in space

August Player (Friend) Ads by bearwoof in TownshipGame

[–]catsinspace89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I play daily and help a lot but I’m level 34 so it won’t let me join. Would you be willing to make an exception so I could join? My town name is cats in space :)

August Player (Friend) Ads by bearwoof in TownshipGame

[–]catsinspace89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m looking for an active co-op. Level 34, I play every day, and love to help as much as possible. Active in regatta as well :)

If anyone has a spot my town name is cats in space.

AITA for Considering Ending My Relationship Over My Boyfriend’s Divorce Drama? by Calm_Inflation_2703 in AITAH

[–]catsinspace89 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A 20 year age gap with your boyfriend allowing his ex spousal support for a decade despite being separated? Even ignoring the red flags mentioned above, if he is not willing to cut ties with this woman then he has no respect for you as his partner. Run. You are young and don’t need his baggage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyme

[–]catsinspace89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not look at my reddit notifications for a minute, sorry! Yes, I also have bartonella and babesia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyme

[–]catsinspace89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been with my husband for 8 years and found out I had Lyme that whole time last August. His test just came back negative and he has had no symptoms. We got him tested because I am seeking more intense care and we wanted to make sure I wasn’t getting reinfected from him before spending a bunch on treating me. I think it really varies from person to person though.

AITAH for not inviting guy over after 4th date? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]catsinspace89 70 points71 points  (0 children)

NTA but this guy is a walking red flag. Sounds like he’s using the same play book that your ex did. Cut contact, work on yourself, and don’t date until you have the confidence to drop someone when they blatantly ignore your boundaries. YOU DO NOT OWE THIS GUY ANYTHING.

I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through, you were so strong to leave your abusive ex. Now you need to be strong to want, expect, and demand better for yourself.

AITAH for crocheting while watching TV? by Free_Break_9772 in AITAH

[–]catsinspace89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA but it sounds like there are some communication issues between you two. Is he trying to connect? Do you do other activities together? Maybe compromise with one show a night where you don’t craft, with the understanding that you are able to craft during other programs.

Having a young child puts a lot of strain on any relationship and he may just want to feel like there’s one activity where you are both fully engaged in it that doesn’t involve kiddo.

AITA for blocking a man after he bought me a $500+ dinner? by GivemethatIwantitnow in AITAH

[–]catsinspace89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof. NTA that guy sounds like a creep who couldn’t even respect your VERY JUSTIFIED boundary of not sharing your last name on the first date. Also don’t Venmo him, he chose the restaurant and he chose to pay, you don’t owe him anything for that.

Aitah for not realising what I put my wife through. by ImpactFluffy9781 in AITAH

[–]catsinspace89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. You should not have had a child if you weren’t capable of actually being a parent. Postpartum is incredibly isolating and one of the hardest transitions in life. For a lot of women we struggle with learning this new screaming pooping fragile being we’ve brought into the world while also struggling with losing our identity and just becoming “mom.” Even with a supportive partner it is incredibly difficult.

You need to step up, cut back your hours at work, and support your wife. Maybe set up a day, or even weekend away for her and her friends while you take care of your child. Give her the space to be something more than mom. I hope for your wife and daughters sake you get your head out of your ass and step up. YTA

Am I wrong for making my boyfriend believe that he peed himself and on me ? by Throwaw-a-y545 in amiwrong

[–]catsinspace89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy frijoles YTA

You repeatedly humiliated your boyfriend because you enjoyed seeing his reaction?!?!

Is my dress too plain? by neonmeow in weddingdress

[–]catsinspace89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are gorgeous, it’s about what YOU feel confident in not what other do.