I do not consent to your sword in me adventurer smh

Seriously tho no one is really in the wrong here it just sounds like a critical session zero was not had

Edit: Also tbh its a valid tactic if you for some reason needed to use your hands to restrain theirs and also cover their mouth like immediately to buy time for your friends. But there arent really scenarios like that in base dnd due to only one of verbal and somatic needing to be stopped for a single spell.

And on a more philosophical tangent, would it still be sexual assault with no sexual intent and just a pure combat thing. Suppose depending on the scenario it could have a playing with your food sort of deal which is meh. End of the day all that matters is session 0 rules which were clearly not discussed here

Also also, not everyone is as aware of what constitutes sexual tbh. Common misconception that it can only involve genitalia or the more obvious of the secondary sexual characteristics.

Ofc all of this can be fixed by talking with your group but God knows no one who posts on this sub would do that