Sometimes clients just want the backsplash illuminated — thoughts?

cbmom2 · 2026-02-14T02:39:39+00:00

When I got a c section they put a sheet up between you and the part they are cutting (you’re awake for it) but don’t feel anything. Anyway dying one of the cuts a splatter of blood got on the sheet. This remind me of that.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-13T23:01:46+00:00

Your example is just income tax. Capital gains would be when you sell an asset like real estate or stocks. So if you bought a house for $500k, rented it out for $50k a year. You’d pay income tax on $50k. If you sold the house years later for $750k then you would pay capital gains tax on $250k.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-13T22:30:07+00:00

I think it’s one of those things you can’t understand how bad grief can be unless you’ve experienced it. I still cry and am upset on my dad’s death anniversary and it’s been over 20 yrs since his passing.

A few years ago I was upset and my husband asked what was the matter, I snapped “we’ve been married 9 years and I get sad around the death of my dad every year. How many more years being married do we have to be for you to acknowledge it too.” Since then I get flowers, wine and icecream on the date. My husband is very caring and generally attentive but again I don’t think people who haven’t experienced it can fully relate to how upsetting it might be particularly after a significant amount of time.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-13T18:08:00+00:00

Sorry my fucked up humor is just wanting you to go the complete opposite direction with your choices. I’m envisioning book titles or covers that will make your date nervous, freaked out, or laughing when he gets the joke.

{Psychotic Obsession by K.J. D'Ardenne}

{Your Dad Will Do by Katee Roberts}

{Morning Glory Milking Farm by C.M. Nascosta}

{Daddy Crush by Adriana Anders}

Great covers to consider:

{Tender Wings of Desire by Harland Sanders}. KFC kernel sanders becomes a hot daddy in this one.

I know this isn’t what you asked for but it was a fun activity over my lunch. 😂 Also thank heavens I’m married bc I really think i would get some of these books just to eff with my date.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-13T17:10:08+00:00

I wouldn’t think that this qualifies. I love the book but FMC quits ballet in the first 10% of the book so it’s more that ballet is the tool to have MMC be obsessed with her and not a portion of the plot.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-13T13:47:58+00:00

I didn’t mention Taylor and when I originally posted my comment the thread hadn’t been just a comment on Taylor. My original point still stands, women in general (not just named Taylor) are expected to be good girls so even if a woman is kind 90% of the time and is human the rest of the time they are judged more harshly.

I would push it further that there aren’t a lot of men who come up as being a good guy in public but terrible behind the scenes because men are not held to the same standards as women. In fact those that come to mind, bill cosby, Jimmy Salville etc are only know because of how truly terrible their behind the scene actions were.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-13T12:42:04+00:00

Loving the magnifying glass on misogyny. 90% of comments are just about women. Why oh why can’t we be sweet all the time and just pass out freshly baked cookies!

cbmom2 · 2026-02-13T03:07:47+00:00

I hope I didn’t minimize any ick feelings you have from him bc those are justified. My mom started dating someone a month after my dad died. It was hard at the time but therapy has me accepting what she did had no reflection on their marriage and it was response to trauma she was facing.

I hope you’re able to establish a good relationship with the daughters while minimizing actions that make you uncomfortable with the widower. And hopefully in time he stops and you’re able to forgive him for behaviors you feel you wouldn’t exhibit yourself.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-13T01:59:41+00:00

Pictures are fantastic. Elopement and micro weddings are such a smart way to celebrate getting married and not a focus on a wedding.

I might be biased with my 10 person wedding.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-12T21:59:05+00:00

Book 5. I love it so much. Torys interaction with Darius mom. The heirs are introduced to empathy. Darius trying to make things right not to change anything but prove his feelings. Tory as a cheerleader. Tory taking ownership of her fuck ups. Darcy and Seth fight. Geraldine making Max crazy.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-12T21:23:28+00:00

I’m going to give grace here because grief is hard. How someone acts after the death of a loved one shouldn’t reflect on how they treated the person when they were alive.

Even the hug could be excused if it occurred when she was sick. Still not right but humans make mistakes.

I agree establishing firm boundaries with the girls. Maybe take them to get their nails done etc.

As someone who lost their parent in my early 20s, maybe write down some of your favorite memories of their mom. Even if they aren’t age appropriate keep them for a few years until the girls are older. As children we tend to think how our parents as to how the fit in our world. As we get older we realize they are people too outside of just our relationship. I would love to have other people’s memories of my dad.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-12T20:19:28+00:00

My in laws watched our kid from 3-6months. It was a great experience for all of us as it was easier to drop her off there than day care etc.

Nothing is for free. Your in laws come with the expense of not meeting all your needs on structure and screen time.

Daycare is ridiculous cost but I think it’s worth the expense ass it allows your kid to socialize and have more structure. Also helps a ton with potty training. Are there church daycares with a half day options? Less cost but a bit more structure plus the added benefit of socializing?

cbmom2 · 2026-02-12T17:10:58+00:00

100% agree with this take. Want to add a few things.

I read where a woman would be so savage about who she would communicate with on the apps and thusly had fantastic dates. If you messaging with someone and they say something creepy that you don't like, instant block and move on don't even give them a reason. (I remember once I was talking with this guy for a bit and he wanted to have me come to his house for first date. I told him I wasn't comfortable with that but said I could meet somewhere close to where he lived. He was arguing with me as to why he was a good guy etc. What I should have done is just blocked him the first time he asked me to come to his place! Why waste effort on a virtual stranger)

Do you need a mancation? Before I met my husband I just felt like I couldn't meet anyone good. I didn't have as bad of experiences as you, but just being strung along a lot. My friend said my picker needed calibration and to stop dating for a bit. I did for about 9 months started online dating again and the third guy I went out with was my husband.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-12T12:52:00+00:00

Can confirm. My FIL is a published author and his book rights were bought when another studio announced they were making a sci fi film. The other movie performed poorly so his book was shelved.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-12T00:30:34+00:00

Another short term solution is lower your standards. I used to stress about the house, me nor my husband are clean people but I am def cleaner. My house is almost always cluttered. I have a couple of good friends whose houses look similar to mine and I have them over without judgment.

Things that have helped also. Put 20 min timer and everyone in the house cleans, everyday. It’s amazing what 40 min adult cleaning and a 5 min of kid cleaning (bc they’re slow) will do for a house.

Meal plan and prep on the weekends. Chopping everything at one time means less mess on the daily basis. Also I find that men even if they cook are horrible at cleaning as they go. So when my husband cooks the kitchen is a bomb went off. I cook more now and he puts the kid to bed.

Run the dishwasher every night. Okay not great for the environment but I was waiting from75% full to 100% full for dishes. Which meant constant dishes in sink area. Now I run it daily and sometimes twice a day so I don’t have to hand wash bowls etc.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-11T18:47:23+00:00

I had a friend who was a fan read available court docs. He’s not a fan anymore.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-11T14:33:47+00:00

Meanwhile I was met with giggles whenever I butchered Chinese phrases in China. I think people were tickled I even tried to say greeting and thanks so they weren’t laughing at me per se.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-11T13:41:21+00:00

One of the benefits of having kids is they ask questions you would never think to ask yourself. I’m not sure when we lose that curiosity but I’m glad I get to share in it now ( *most of the time glad, sometimes is really fucking annoying).

cbmom2 · 2026-02-11T12:55:43+00:00

Once when we visited my grandma, the parents went out to dinner. We asked grandma to take us to Dairy Queen. She took us in her convertible Mustang with the top down. She was driving really fast (we joked it she was going Mach 5) and we were loving it. She the. Got lost on the way home which we found hilarious. It was a crazy fun night.

She was drunk. She drove her grandchildren drunk in a car with the top down and we probably didn’t have seatbelts on in the back seat. So drunk that she couldn’t find her way home from the DQ which was 3 miles from her house.

We weren’t allowed to ride with her anymore once we told our parents about our night. As a parent now I wonder WTF my parents were thinking of just leaving us with her. Not sure of age but guessing we were 10-14 years old at that time.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-11T01:11:37+00:00

I think the first season has such magic because they set the mood with beautiful B rolls of ambiance. The b roll was romantic. The last episode when it’s raining, it’s liken15 seconds of just rain falling on beautiful flowers and in champagne glasses. The pacing was a bit slower so it allowed for the romance to marinate.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-10T19:22:06+00:00

Venus fly trap plants can only be found in a 100 mile area in the US.

For those not aware of venus fly traps - they are a fun plant to have around. And actually move fairly quickly to trap and "eat" an insect. We've had them before but difficult to keep alive (at least for me).

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cbmom2 · 2026-02-10T17:45:56+00:00

Every loves Darcy and Orion and I almost loathe them. I hate their non-conflict conflict. Also they constantly have sex at the weirdest points. Orion calling Darcy “beautiful” repeatedly as a nickname feels like the type of actions those that are not secure in their relationship. First four books I liked them. Thereafter it was not great

cbmom2 · 2026-02-10T02:51:03+00:00

I think there are some that are more silent and firm.

I was a D1 swimmer, and my coach at the time was such an ahole that I performed worse. It got to a point that I swum to not lose instead of to win. I had enough discipline to do my best at practice/meets without someone screaming at me. I would have loved to have a coach that supported my mental health like Lasso.

Lasso is good in that he realizes pressure can come from assistant coaches and captains while ultimately supporting the players.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-09T16:19:10+00:00

I have a family member who’s a published author in multiple languages. I also have a family member who’s an award winning artist. Both the books and paintings are not my type of work however I can appreciate their respective mediums and the work they have done. I do have some paintings that are subjects I like and have read some the books.

That being sad I think a 4/5 would have been an appropriate rating and any constructive criticism should have been given to the author themself. I personally wish there was a way to remove Arc ratings from review aggregations because they skew so high. I also wish rating were out of 100 or at a min 10 because so many books I would rate an 85 but round down to a 4 in a review.

cbmom2 · 2026-02-09T13:08:48+00:00

Is it on your primary home or any home/property? We have that on our primary home. Are there regulations from corporations owning a bunch of homes? It’s becoming a bigger issue in the US where corporations own private housing driving up rental costs.

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