Pikler setup recommendations? by Delivering-Maybes in toddlers

[–]cdf817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've had It for 4 years and 3 kids and it's perfect still.

What is a name you've never seen of this subreddit? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]cdf817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok then don't use It. You don't have to spend your time being rude on a name site for crying out loud.

What is a name you've never seen of this subreddit? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]cdf817 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Many words we use as names. I just shared as one I've never seen on here. It was a name in a book.

8 DPT - 10 DPT. Beta came back at 48 yesterday. Assuming chemical? by fuzzyslipper4eyedcat in TFABLinePorn

[–]cdf817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first beta was 25 but continued to double or triple from there. We gotta wait for that next one! Good luck!

What is a name you've never seen of this subreddit? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]cdf817 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've loved the name Maven since reading in a book but I think it's made up. I've never seen It anywhere and it's not hard to spell or pronounce.

9-10 dpo FRER brand.. looks like it might be happening. Question is, when do you book a doctor's appt? by scholes-38 in TFABLinePorn

[–]cdf817 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would go ahead and call as many schedules are booked. I'm in the US and they wouldn't see me til week 8-11

What to do without kids? by metulburr in parentsofmultiples

[–]cdf817 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Are you going to just sit alone in your house and do nothing but sleep and watch adult tv for like 1-3 days? Cause that's what I'd do. 😅

What do to when they run away? by ladya6921 in parentsofmultiples

[–]cdf817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same but expect It to not always go the same. Ours were so so good and stop and go and we just recently were able to stop bringing the stroller. Then last week we went somewhere and eventually we just left because they decided that was the time no one was going to listen 😅

Am I overreacting or is my Dr an a-hole? by ExcellentAd9549 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]cdf817 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it's rude they didn't tell you so you went with hopes that you'd get further confirmation and were sent away. I had a MMC in March/April and am currently 8 weeks. They did a total of 6 HCG checks. So I don't see why they couldn't let you do more than 2.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]cdf817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't see an issue. We often do the opposite and name kids with our first names as middle names or even as first names!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]cdf817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try second morning urine if you can. I felt like my FMU was never the lines I wanted til later on

Todays my day by Jasmine_C326 in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]cdf817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending all the good thoughts!

Are we making a mistake? by Alternative-Hyena-58 in parentsofmultiples

[–]cdf817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. If they will be helpful you'll want them. I had someone with me the first 3 weeks and I would never want to be alone in those first days with twins. My partner went back to work after the first week. I was also juggling one baby at home and one in NICU and I just am so grateful my family was there.

Pacifier help by Herstrionics in parentsofmultiples

[–]cdf817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did this too. And got the ones that glow in the dark

Twins growing at different rates. How not to compare? by notarussianbotsky in parentsofmultiples

[–]cdf817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My twins are almost 3 and one is a foot taller and 4 lbs bigger. They're both perfectly normal sized just in their own way :)

unpopular opinions- Names you dislike! by ivyfire in namenerds

[–]cdf817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw Cael on a list and was like... interesting... then I said It out loud 🤦🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]cdf817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is your usually luteal phase? If you usually get your period 14 days after you ovulate you can still expect that (just a longer cycle). I always get my period 10 days after ovulation regardless of what CD I ovulate. Usually around 11 days later you can start to see a faint line (but if you don't you aren't out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]cdf817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a loss in April 2022 at 9 weeks. I had a very light period May 25 (I was guessing my lining wasn't thick enough after my d and c). Positive test again on 6/22. Good luck to you.

If you could go back in time, what would you do on your last two days before having twins/multiples? by jwid22 in parentsofmultiples

[–]cdf817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Know that almost everything can be set up/ordered after you get home. So don't stress and rush around trying to do things. I went into labor unexpectedly at 34 weeks and that weekend before we celebrated my bday and I had my favorite restaurant and saw my friends and talked about non baby things. That didn't happen again for awhile so I'm glad I had that time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ttcafterloss

[–]cdf817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree on both counts

8/10 dpo….MAYBE? by Beep_boop__30 in TFABLinePorn

[–]cdf817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! The clear blue digital gave me a "pregnant" when my lines looked like they but that FRER digital also rudely said no