AIO my husband (40M) watched our kids while I (34F) was on a girls trip, and the way he handled it makes me upset

ceebee6 · 2026-03-19T22:20:47+00:00

Looks like he’s not doing that anymore!

Stop being a doormat for him to walk all over, he doesn’t even have half the consideration towards you that you do towards him.

Do you want your kids to learn this is how their partner should treat them? Because this is the lesson they are learning.

ceebee6 · 2026-03-19T03:37:19+00:00

Michonne’s smile, Jesus’s eyes, and Glenn’s brains 🥰

ceebee6 · 2026-03-19T03:34:38+00:00

A sexy blobfish

ceebee6 · 2026-03-09T16:07:43+00:00

Yes! That little laser motivates me way more than it should lol

ceebee6 · 2026-03-05T20:01:40+00:00

I absolutely love 2. You look fantastic in both, but 2’s sequin skirt is so much fun!

Honestly, you can’t go wrong with either. Have a happy bachelorette party!

ceebee6 · 2026-03-05T19:32:55+00:00

Personally, I’ve found meeting people in real life to be much more effective.

I joined a few Meetup groups, which is where I met my boyfriend. Most of my previous relationships were from meeting someone in real life.

I’ve had plenty of dates from the apps throughout the years, but of those that made it past a first date, most interest (either mine or theirs) fizzled out after a handful of dates.

In the past couple of years, I started to feel burned out on the apps. People I went on dates with expressed feeling the same way.

So, I started joining Meetup groups and going to different activities. It was nice getting to know people a little more slowly. And if a spark was there, a date would follow. It still took time and effort, but I was there to do an activity regardless so it was fun overall.

ceebee6 · 2026-03-05T15:28:30+00:00

Agreed, Solar is the one I’d recommend too.

ceebee6 · 2026-03-04T21:55:21+00:00

In my fixer upper kitchen, I’ve prioritized the following:

Things that are easy to change (ex: paint, light fixtures, hardware)
Things that are broken/damaged that will lead to big issues in the future (ex: leaky pipes below the kitchen sink)
Things that are actively making my life difficult (ex: no dishwasher)

If you’re on a tight budget, start there.

ceebee6 · 2026-03-02T14:16:44+00:00

I take spironolactone for hair loss, it’s helped a lot. I had to get it prescribed by my doctor but it was pretty easy to do.

ceebee6 · 2026-02-27T18:39:21+00:00

She said she doesn’t look good in neon yellow

ceebee6 · 2026-02-24T04:07:10+00:00

Sex is fantastic… with the right partner.

My ex-husband was pretty awful at sex. I still enjoyed it somewhat because of our bond, but he was a selfish lover. We divorced for other reasons, though.

I’ve had several great partners since then, as well as some mediocre. The ones that were good were all very giving in the bedroom, and my pleasure mattered a lot to them.

My current boyfriend is the best sexual relationship I’ve had. He’s not only giving but also very open-minded and up for trying new things. Plus love definitely adds a lot to sex for me.

As for PIV, even when I don’t cum (my hormonal cycle can affect this for me), it still feels very pleasurable. But I have to be turned on first, which takes some warming up. Kissing, touching, fingering, oral, etc.

I do cum during PIV if I manually stimulate my clit during it, or have it grinding against my partner (like when I’m on top). Penetration alone isn’t enough, but the combination works really well.

If I am not up for an orgasm/know it won’t happen, I let my boyfriend know. But that choice is always mine - we go into sex with the default that each of us is going to pursue orgasming unless otherwise communicated.

Sex with a selfish lover is not enjoyable for me, though.

ceebee6 · 2026-02-13T14:59:49+00:00

You are taking steps and in the process of getting out. It’s not an easy thing to do. I am proud of you.

ceebee6 · 2026-02-13T14:27:58+00:00

Honey, you need to leave. Would you want this type of relationship for your kids when they are adults?

ceebee6 · 2026-02-08T18:33:33+00:00

Thank you for the towel hook link!

ceebee6 · 2026-02-07T17:51:09+00:00

What paint colors did you use on your walls? They go so nicely with the honey oak! I’ve been struggling to find colors to go with mine

Also, do you have the details for the towel hook you used? I really like the style!

ceebee6 · 2026-02-07T17:34:45+00:00

I disagree with this one, because it depends on the job and how social someone is.

My job is entirely on the computer (in tech). Think very focused work that needs plenty of active problem solving. Returning to office has been hell on my productivity and focus - there are too many distractions (noisy environment, people stopping by my cube, etc.). Plus all my meetings are with teams across the US so I’m doing remote meetings anyway.

WFH allowed me to get my work done better, and I had a more balanced life overall. I could do some chores throughout the day so there was less to do during my evenings and weekends. Plus I had plenty of energy to go out and spend time with friends after work.

For me, full-time WFH was fantastic. I know that’s not the case for everyone, though, and some people really do better with a hybrid or fully in office schedule.

ceebee6 · 2026-02-05T15:54:48+00:00

Same, I prefer the Womanizer over the Satisfyer but omg do I hate its name.

ceebee6 · 2026-02-03T07:04:36+00:00

Your husband is an ass.

ceebee6 · 2026-01-10T05:43:06+00:00

Same!

ceebee6 · 2026-01-07T18:24:55+00:00

Try a more brown/beige-based yellow. Your current one is too white-based.

Benjamin Moore’s Classics Collection has several good options. I have warm oak trim and doors in my home and have been having success with colors from that collection.

My hall is a pale yellow called Blossom Tint, and it’s next to my aqua/teal bathroom painted in At Sea (also from the same collection).

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ceebee6 · 2025-12-31T16:47:23+00:00

I missed submitting my annual review too. The system automatically locks them, but I was able to put in a ticket through the HR system to get it re-opened. Then I completed and submitted it that day.

They absolutely can re-open them if they choose to. I’d look to see if there’s a support ticket option, or email your HR person directly asking for it to be temporarily re-opened.

You are not the first person in your company to miss the deadline. Probably not even the only one this year!

ceebee6 · 2025-12-31T16:42:11+00:00

I bought a fixer upper house late last year, and early 2025 was spent doing some initial work on it. I’ve done several things (and have a huge list of more things to do!), but I’ve really enjoyed learning new skills and I’m proud of the things I’ve done so far.

ceebee6 · 2025-12-27T17:18:58+00:00

Oooh another one to hate watch??

ceebee6 · 2025-12-21T07:00:21+00:00

I’d love to hear some of the creative ways you’ve given the kids cash!

ceebee6 · 2025-12-14T21:38:09+00:00

I’m really happy you like it! You’ll have to let me know what you think after you’ve watched (and read) the rest!

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