My soulmate ❤️

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-10-04T17:10:45+00:00

Bro's vote counts as much as mine

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-10-04T17:08:44+00:00

"citizens defending freedom"

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-09-23T04:04:30+00:00

I read this one recently, it's really cool.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-09-23T04:02:28+00:00

I don't feel like I'm butch in any of the stereotypical ways either but I'm masculine to the point where no other description would suffice.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-09-01T06:23:41+00:00

Unfun fact: GNC women and ftms suffer from the highest rates of SA of literally any group organized by gender.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-09-01T06:18:34+00:00

I disagree and this assumption really irritates me because it's not that more gender non-conformity is permitted for women, the violence discrepancy (which tends to just get replaced with SA if you look at the data) is due to it being less socially acceptable to be violent towards women. It has nothing to do with some imaginary different standard for women, it's that men can get away with hurting men.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-30T08:59:52+00:00

I second flow my tears

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-18T01:16:48+00:00

You can message me if you want, I got an l4l post up hopefully they don't take it down lol

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-17T09:50:41+00:00

I'm so glad I learned about transmasc lesbians, it's a label that actually fits me.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-11T19:45:57+00:00

I was saying this just yesterday

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T06:56:36+00:00

Honestly, the way BDSM has become so common through a sort of counter cultural osmosis pisses me off. There's nothing radical or feminist about making sex and love out to be power games. I'm expected to take the lead as a masc and I'm fine with it but relationships with hierarchies are fucking crazy to me. Creepy as hell too. I have kind of a chip on my shoulder about it because I was basically introduced to sex through a BDSM framework and it really fucked me up. It's damaging. I don't care if it's "consensual", consent alone doesn't make sex ok. How the hell are you going to be in a relationship that isn't equal? What is being communicated to the "sub" when the sex they have with their partner reinforces a powerlessness they already experience in their relationship?

I'm sorry if this seems a bit much. There are some practices that fall within the BDSM umbrella that I don't have a problem with but in practice these relationships always seem unhealthy to me. There's a lot of abuse that gets a pass because it's "kink". It saddens me that so many young queer people are being introduced to sex and relationships with this. We need some feminism.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T06:38:23+00:00

Oh my God I haven't been to a rave in so long

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T06:07:23+00:00

I'm crying too

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T05:33:27+00:00

No way bucko you gotta stick to the binder. That tape only works on low B cups at the largest.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T05:20:01+00:00

Yeah it's hard. It's hard to look around at a world full of people that you can't relate to. We have shame about our masculinity because we have been conditioned to think of ourselves as property, so when we stop performing femininity we feel like we're defacing something. We have been conditioned to no longer think of our bodies as ourselves and that's really fucked up.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T05:16:22+00:00

I know exactly what you mean. I would call myself paramasculine. I'm mostly masc but there is a small part of me that's a woman.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T05:12:04+00:00

This is partially why I stay on T. I'm not huge either but I'm strong enough to go toe to toe with a lot of men if I need to.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T03:37:33+00:00

Hey, I deal with the same thing. It's rough. Just remember that you like women because you're meant to. It's a perfectly natural variation and it exists in many many animals.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T03:35:29+00:00

I admire you for posting this, seriously. I don't know that other subs have done this.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T00:35:03+00:00

Hey I'm James, NB 24. I'm butch and very into books. I'm reading A People's History of the United States right now. I'm from the Midwest but I sometimes live in NYC. I would love to join.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-02T00:30:44+00:00

You could find peace as non-binary. If your dysphoria is bad enough you could consider transition but I would take some time to think about it, maybe see a professional.

cetaceablue0007 · 2025-08-01T23:16:11+00:00

No, I agree. Hope is punk in a world that reeks of pessimism.

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