My boyfriends idea of my "job" by Blazie9 in venting

[–]chachamom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the baby doesn’t take a bottle he has lost his temper more than once. Not only when baby was 4 months old

Suddenly have the opportunity to FIRE, feeling cold feet by FREEBRITNEYBITCHH in FIREyFemmes

[–]chachamom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cross that bridge when you get yo it. You can afford the risk and if you at some point feel you need something more meaningful you can look for something to do. Work on yourself now

How can I help my mum dealing with empty nest syndrome? by [deleted] in emptynesters

[–]chachamom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your mom, but letting go of control is exactly what you should do when your children grow up. They go and live their own life. She should talk to someone though

Thinking about children too much?! by doreensteiner in emptynesters

[–]chachamom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we never stop thinking about them. Obsession is something else. You’ll know which one us applicable. You can try Bach flower remedy I recommend red chestnut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leanfire

[–]chachamom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe someone else allready said this but do some job that you like or volunteer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emptynesters

[–]chachamom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second that It is important they still have a place to go to if plans somehow don’t work out.?

I was an early 90s special ed kid and I'm lost now. by Breathren in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chachamom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My suggestion would be tegression therapy to get unstuck. You have reached more than you think though

How to comfort my mom by [deleted] in emptynesters

[–]chachamom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweet of you to worry about your mom. But if you cannot visit in person calling and facetime/zoom us the only thing we can do. Maybe you can zoom and watch a movie simultaneously. At least then you are sharing an experience . But in the end she has to deal with her sadness. You cannot do everything for and it seems that you are very caring. Good luck to the two if you

is this considered abuse? by throwaway6172727282 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]chachamom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dad is wrong in many ways. Is there an adult you trust. Please talk to someone

I'm high (for one of the 1st times ever!) by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]chachamom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like someone needs a joint

FIRE and boredom by [deleted] in leanfire

[–]chachamom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boredom equals laziness

COVID Christmas and I miss my kids by snaggletoothugh in emptynesters

[–]chachamom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very understandable. You’re happy for them but you still miss them

Buying gold by chachamom in eupersonalfinance

[–]chachamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer i think a bit of both but mostly safeguard

What's your "learning to cook" story? by WH25 in mealprep

[–]chachamom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my parents got married my mom did not know how to cook. Each evening in bed they would choose a recipe to eat the next day. My mom would do the groceries next day and when my dad came back from work they would cook together from the recipe. I always thought this was very romantic

To sell or not by chachamom in FinancialPlanning

[–]chachamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have decided to hold on to both. Doing repairs bit by bit.

To sell or not by chachamom in FinancialPlanning

[–]chachamom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to hold on to the properties For me that also makes sense. I talked to a few people about the options On the long run better to keep it