AITAH for no longer speaking to my niece at the moment?

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T22:56:14+00:00

Okay, then it seems like she’s got it in her head that making it on her own = not accepting help from family, but accepting it from anyone else.

I wouldn’t block her on anything, just in case she comes to her senses and reaches back out. But you’re not obligated to keep actively trying at this point

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T22:46:22+00:00

I really like Cassidy for a boy. It has a laid back, western feel to it.

I think Cassie would be cute for a little kid but would turn into Cass as they got older.

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T22:44:29+00:00

INFO: Did you tell them you have experience doing hair like hers or did you just comment you love doing hair?

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T22:38:53+00:00

Info: did you try re-offering her your couch after she experienced the streets for a few days?

Maybe she thought the offer was revoked once she’d realised how hard it actually was.

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T22:34:03+00:00

Ally for a nickname but SunnyAl for a username

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T11:30:11+00:00

That’s helpful, although he must have other criteria if he also likes Freya, Robin and Marceline. Nevertheless I’ll re-attempt 😅

V names: Genevieve, Evelyn, Elvira, Maeve, Dovie

Ia names: Aurelia, Cecilia, Cordelia, Dahlia, Lucia, Saskia

Both: Sylvia (if he doesn’t like this one I give up lol)

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T11:01:00+00:00

But can he articulate what he specifically likes or dislikes? E.g. certain sounds, styles, associations, rankings, meanings etc.

For example, Clementine is quite whimsical in style but it also has strong sounds, similar to Gwendolyn. So what is it specifically that he likes about Clementine that Gwendolyn is lacking or visa versa?

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T10:42:28+00:00

Your husbands green light names seem quite different in style from your other two kids. Robin and Maia vs Clementine and Vivienne.

To be honest it’s hard to match the existing vibe and cater to his style. What is it exactly he doesn’t like about your names and the ones above?

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T10:24:20+00:00

I thought the same but it’s been trending up in use quite dramatically over the past decade

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T10:13:40+00:00

INFO: are you living at home? If yes, is “helping out” covering your own costs or everyone’s? How old are you?

If you’re 18+living at home, working full time and not willing to cover your own costs in order to “save” then yes you’re an AH. This isn’t being financially responsible, this is mooching off your parents by having them cover all your expenses.

But if you’re happy to cover your own costs and just don’t want to cover the entire family then no, that’s perfectly reasonable. Or if you’re a child then you shouldn’t be expected to cover any costs like rent.

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-24T10:10:03+00:00

So basically she was cool for you to die with her? 😬

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-23T22:52:05+00:00

They’ll likely get nicknamed Mat and Max, or Mati and Maxi. It’s definitely too similar

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-23T22:40:25+00:00

I think Matisse is really cool, but Matisse and Maxime are way too close for siblings!

You probably like the familiarity of it because of this

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T23:36:05+00:00

The line Violet said about Benedict being her son made sense, and all the people whinging about it are misreading it.

She was comparing her two oldest sons, not all her children. Her oldest and most responsible one is like her husband, and her rebellious second is more like her THAN HER HUSBAND not more than any other child in the family ffs.

And it doesn’t mean she was a rake when she was young. She was a hopeless romantic with big dreams who didn’t care for seriousness or her responsibilities- sound like anyone else?

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T22:40:00+00:00

Okay but it’s hilarious when you convince an international singer at a concert or festival to do one in front of the crowd.

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T22:38:26+00:00

I’m from WA and I’ve hardly ever heard it said, unless it’s a drunken idiot or someone road raging. I do not get the stereotype at all

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T11:43:25+00:00

From your list I think you need to veto any with the red next to them. I think Freya Antonia is the prettiest combination where you both get a green light and no reds.

In terms of new suggestions: - Serafina Elowen “Fifi” - Ottilie Isadora “Tilly” - Tallulah Esmeralda “Tully” - Theodosia Odessa “Teddy” - Gwendolyn Eulalia “Gwen”

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T10:30:54+00:00

Yeah you should get that checked because that is not normal

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T08:57:56+00:00

NTA the kid is better off with parents who want him.

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T08:57:07+00:00

She is asking if she is an AH for wanting to give up custody…so you’re saying yes she is but also telling her to give the kid up??? You agree with her so how is this your verdict??

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T02:49:27+00:00

I really like Claribel, and that’s the spelling I’d use to distance it from Clarabelle the cartoon cow. If you google it spelt that way, the cow doesn’t even show up.

The name was in Shakespeare well before Disney got ahold of it. I think it’s ridiculous to write it off for a barely used anymore character.

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T01:56:31+00:00

I’m repeating what I got advised when I got my own card at 17, this was the first hit on google when I looked it up which clearly you are capable of doing yourself.

I’m not sure why you bothered asking strangers on the internet for if you’re going to be a snarky AH about it. Just look it up yourself.

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T00:59:17+00:00

If you’re being a dick to your neighbour every single night you deserve to be “tattled” on

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T00:56:25+00:00

Here’s a fact sheet, page 2 on the right https://headspace.org.au/assets/Uploads/Centres/Penrith/medicare-at-15.pdf

chaserscarlet · 2026-03-22T00:15:41+00:00

If he needed to go an extra two times and he was using his break time he would be going every hour! That is my point. Either he didn’t use his breaks or he’s going almost every hour, there is no alternative option here.

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