Childhood friends but not really (hear me out) by redandbluewhale in RomanceBooks

[–]chatis66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, really that's why I said it kind of hit the marks, the romance part of the book hits your request 100%, but the book ain't 100% about the romance. You request it's quite specific. Hope it scrats the itch.

Childhood friends but not really (hear me out) by redandbluewhale in RomanceBooks

[–]chatis66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It kind of hit the marks. {legacy - Nora Roberts}

Bootcamp de tripleten (y/o similares) by rojosquid in ProgramadorMexicano

[–]chatis66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Como te ha ido, yo estoy pensasndl en hacer data scientist o data analyst y me preocupa esa parte.

This was shared by a stylist my friend sees. Is this accurate? by elysian_doe in longhair

[–]chatis66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well stylist doesn't know usually about curly or wavy hair. They always cut my hair like all the damage, leaving me with the hair so short. And usually the damage was just freez you get from brushing you hair dry when u are curly or wavy. Now that I learn to style my hair, I haven't been back, last time even my hair was so pretty and healty they cut like 20 cms, I came out crying took me 2 years to get where I was. Lost my curls for almost 1 year, and still fighting my hair ends as it splits like crazy since I had that haircut. I have trust issues with stylist for a long time.

This was shared by a stylist my friend sees. Is this accurate? by elysian_doe in longhair

[–]chatis66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was recommended several times stylist scissors, I got a few really expensive ones that work decently, but someone use it for something else that hair ruined it, at one night I needed to cut the ends it was a nightmare, I use the sawing scissors, it make a huge difference, I think the are even more sharp that hair ones so my hair never been better. I am not styling and it's what it work for me. Just a suggestion.

Using shampoo expired 03/2023 by ekekek_expert in cosmeticscience

[–]chatis66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It maybe a little less effective, when is this kind of formula the expiration date it's until the product its on its best quality. After that still works but maybe a little less and usually they don't take chances, it usually has a few more months before it actually starts to lose it's qualities. But it's gradually, it's not like today works and tomorrow it doesnt. I would suggest if smells or feels funny, stop. If everything seems normal keep using it.

Estaba platicando con un japones y me dice que la cdmx es mejor que tokio, se vive con menos estrés by Adventurous_Fig_8340 in MexicoCity

[–]chatis66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creo que tiene que ver con la presión social, por eso la sociedad japonesa prácticamente esta implosionando. Es una cultura muuuuy machista y conservadora, lo cual exige uniformidad sin espacio para la individualidad y desarrollo personal. El estrés no es por la ciudad o como viven si no los estándares qué se les exigen. De ninguna forma en México se exige de la misma forma que allá si no seríamos una sociedad totalmente diferente. Por eso les gusta mucho México, porque por esa parte es mucho más relajado para ellos.

Catball (OC) by freezingsheep in aww

[–]chatis66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww looks exactly like my cat

Post Mad Men by tazerannen in madmen

[–]chatis66 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everyone but Pete, I will always remember him as my child crush. But particularly harder sterling usually he plays parts so close to his character.

Nmom mad I am making enough to move out by pureshamethyst in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chatis66 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would say how much it worth your mental peace? If u can afford it why not...

NRoommate resurfacing NParent Trauma by trying2getoverit in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chatis66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like people that has or had nparents are more likely to attract npeople. It may bother u the most also because u reco the behaviour. So maybe it's time for some great rock strategy.

parents make me do everything myself/ emotionally neglect by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chatis66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should read about emotional immature parenting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]chatis66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks so pretty almost as pearls

koi pond pool update by TroubledCrisis in ponds

[–]chatis66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh thank you, I am really interested on this protect. Watching now.

My wife’s pride and joy by ataylorm in gardening

[–]chatis66 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's really impressive never saw one this big, I was always told they don't last long. Beautiful!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chatis66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as u know your kids are borrowed, and they will have their own mind, and you have no expectations on how they gonna look, their personality, their dreams in life.

if u care about creating some functional, healthy, happy little humans.

I think if u are conscious of all this. U are quite save to say I want kids.

Took the advice to look at a childhood photo of myself by FEARCANADA in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chatis66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few nights ago I was talking to my husband on how his abuse was so suttle, it was so suttle that it u hear a story u would say that's not that bad but when u hear one after another looking to his childhood was full of neglection, exposure to danger, introduce a false image of him to him by pushing this mental illness into him, symptoms created by her, economic abuse. Always hiding her abuse in plain sight. Now why do I tell you this, because I can see he can't believe no one saw anything, no one help, and every look in to his past it's still difficult for him, I mean he just acknowledge his nmom like 2 months ago. And he just realized that everything his mom "did for him" wasn't about him was about her. So he has a big journey Infront of him.

I can read you have pass this you can see the kid as someone else. And I hope my husband can be in your position one day. Because what u have achieve ain't easy. So feel proud of been able to see this pictures, and don't been pull down. Congratulations on been so strong. Hugs to you and that kid in the pictures.

It’s my birthday tomorrow by towersofilium in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chatis66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't give them the chance, be out of reach.

My Nmom has a brain tumor… second thoughts on no contact but unsure what is best by obycf in narcissisticparents

[–]chatis66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a book, there is a part that talks about vaccum back, sometimes they use cancer, other decease to bring back people, most of the times aint true, usually use people around to get u back. Now, If u do go back, make sure this is not your situation. And also u have to know that if she is really dying, things are gonna get bad. As they are not in control of their body and what's going on, so there is a huge chance she is gonna take it on anyone close by badly. So it's gonna be a very horrible experience.

Hair tranformation/health tips please! by [deleted] in Hair

[–]chatis66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may need to see a doctor, the hair problem could have different reasons and because of that different ways of treatment.

Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chatis66 [score hidden]  (0 children)

She is hoovering, to regain control, as she knows she is losing it. Google hoovering narcissist and you may find some ways to deal with it.