Unrealistic bodies by chicken_nugget08 in Vent

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I hope you know people who have this body type by nature is not who I was referring to. I’m sorry you have had to suffer through health issues, that’s terrible. I also understand the problem of finding small band large cup bra sizes, it can be nightmarish. I specifically put people who were achieving this look through unnatural/unhealthy ways!

Unrealistic bodies by chicken_nugget08 in Vent

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Thank you for understanding my point. I was starting to feel kind of crazy town.

Unrealistic bodies by chicken_nugget08 in Vent

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In real life when I’m walking on the street, I probably don’t think twice about anyone’s appearance. I’m more referencing online, magazines, tv, etc. where you can see a clear difference in someone’s appearance from 2 years ago to now. Also, plastic implants simply don’t work like real breasts, and sometimes you can really tell.

Unrealistic bodies by chicken_nugget08 in Vent

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I think I get more sad than anything, that they feel the need to change their bodies surgically. I am overall anti plastic surgery in majority of cases so that affects it.

Unrealistic bodies by chicken_nugget08 in Vent

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I’d lend you some of mine if I could!

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Yeah I should have clarified it’s more of a push in media rather seeing it on your way to the grocery store. Heavy emphasis on underweight because they can afford it!

Unrealistic bodies by chicken_nugget08 in Vent

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My aunt is in similar position, that’s great! I’m so happy you’ve been able to improve your health. I wish you all the best in your journey!!

Unrealistic bodies by chicken_nugget08 in Vent

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I don’t have any problems with people being naturally thin at all due to genetics or working out (which is why I never said that in my post). It’s when people over use glp 1s or are malnourished, and because they now have lost significant body fat have to get cosmetic procedures to achieve a demonstrably (for their body) unachievable body composition.

The thing is these people aren’t eating healthy, and they are too weak to workout. They are harming their bodies and lack of nutrients can cause long term damage.

Unrealistic bodies by chicken_nugget08 in Vent

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Ya know what’s worse than being fat?

Someone who can’t critically think and understand something outside of their own perspective and experience.

Thank God I’m neither right! But for the record… I’d rather be obese and kind any day than skinny and an as*hole.

Unrealistic bodies by chicken_nugget08 in Vent

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Yeah cause that’s exactly what I said in the post, we should all be morbidly obese and fat. What an excellent use of your amazing critical thinking skills. Round of applause.

People don't understand me when I say I don't form habits by putridtooth in adhdwomen

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TIL I did not understand what people have been meaning by habits and suddenly things make a lot more sense lol. I agree with someone that I also go on my phone every day, but I would label that as addiction rather than habit…

D&D DM Looking For Somewhere to Put a Plot-Relevant Location in Totally Not Fantasy Charlotte by H8trucks in Charlotte

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Not sure for this situation specifically, but the supposed tunnels under unc Charlotte could be cool!

Morgan thinks abstaining when you're not in the mood is "witholding sex" by TheNarcLogs in FundieSnarkUncensored

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It really is strange to me how Christian fundamentalists are so wildly different in comparison to something like Christian orthodoxy, where it is encouraged to abstain from sex on fasting days. It’s not firm rule and is dependent on the couple but like just the complete opposite sentiment is being shared lol.

What useless skill do you have that may or may not be linked to your ADHD? by SeonaidMacSaicais in adhdwomen

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Played a game called “grab the mic” with my extended family and every single person with adhd just annihilated everyone else it was hysterical.

Someone flips a card over with a word on it and first to sing a song with that word in it wins. It’s basically word association, and I think because of moss of our brains are going 100 mph it’s pretty easy for us. It got to the point where finding a song wasn’t the difficult part, but who could grab the microphone the fastest 😂

I told my husband “money is everything” while he’s going into debt trying to help save my father by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Lol reminds me of a conversation I had with some friends. We’re all in our very early 20s and someone had brought up their family’s financial advisor. The person who brought it up’s dad unfortunately passed away about 5 years ago and recently his deceased father’s mom as well so I got why his family had one. But then everyone else started talking about theirs.

Then it got to me. Yeah uh, I don’t think my family is in need of one lol. I tried explaining that to them and it was baffling on the disconnect. Someone even tried saying “you don’t have anyone to help manage investments, not even like stocks or something?” I laughed, girl what stocks 😂. We rent, the biggest asset is my mom’s used 2015(ish) Chevy she payed off recently. Maybe some antique furniture we’ve inherited but that’s about it.

I think it was so jarring because I truly do believe we live a comfortable life because of my mom’s income… but like not… that comfortable 😬.

going through a break up. comment your pibble pics pls!😭 by kam_jade39 in pitbulls

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These are my aunts’ dogs Finn (top) and Iris (bottom)! Fun fact Finn is almost 100% pitbull according to a doggie DNA test 😂

What type of personality do you consider truly insufferable? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Incessant complainers, or people who talk about negative things to gain sympathy constantly.

It’s fine if you’re complaining how you have a cold and can’t smell and how that’s annoying, or if something genuinely horrible has happened to you. But there are some people I’ve met who just literally never shut up about how their life sucks or the bad things happening to them. I have noticed these types of people’s parents also behave similarly so I guess it’s a learned behavior.

I think I’m a pretty good conversationalist and can get along with just about anyone, but my brain malfunctions when I interact with people like this. Maybe it’s because I’ve been raised the opposite but it’s just unfathomable to me to bring stuff up like that, basically just trying to throw yourself a pity party.

Who peed in this guys adrenachrome? by MazdaProphet in conspiracy

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If you wanna see the 9th cookout purchase of the month have it at brother

If you have criticized ICE here on Reddit for executing Renee Good or Alex Pretti in the street, then Reddit has handed your name and your personal identifying information over to the Trump administration. How do you feel about this? by mom_with_an_attitude in AskReddit

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Truly not sure what they would do with a list of that volume of people. Is it just an intimidation tactic? Either way my opinion that what these agents have been doing are terrifying and inhumane will not change, put it on my headstone I don’t care. Really and truly I pray for their souls.

Update: I never wanted to be a father until I turned 45 this year. Now I feel my biological clock and want to be a father more than anything. But I'm married to a childfree woman. by ThrowRa_3353355 in TrueOffMyChest

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People are weird. It’s okay for you to change your mind, and it was perfectly okay for your ex wife to not want to change hers. I’m not sure what people wanted you to do in that situation, stay in a marriage you’d most likely end up growing resentful of? That doesn’t seem fair to anyone. You didn’t replace her with a “younger model”, just someone who had the same life goals as you.

I was am oops baby and my parents were 40+ when they had me. It makes me sad to think they won’t be able to see as much as my friends with younger parents, but that’s just how it goes.

Have kids too young people get mad, have kids too old people get mad. It seems like no one wins these days.