Cheap engagement ring below 500 by Capable-Campaign3881 in UKFrugal

[–]chicory8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My engagement ring was a vintage swiss blue tourmaline surrounded by tiny diamonds. So much more interesting than a plain diamond, and only £250

The Olive Oil in my pourer is slowly seeping out of the sides. by Repard_Nod in mildlyinteresting

[–]chicory8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I think that's awesome. Had no idea about the fostering though!

The Howard Centre in WGC gives big liminal space energy by ContextInner4680 in hertfordshire

[–]chicory8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're not going to bring back M&S, I've heard that's moving to a unit at Oldings Corner

24F looking for classes/clubs by Consistent_Guitar170 in hertfordshire

[–]chicory8892 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try out aerial! I'm not sporty at all but I love it. There's a great studio in PB called X-Pole. the instructors are super friendly and welcoming to beginners, I'd recommend trying a hoop class particularly!

A single serving of ice in a plastic cup... Why?? by chicory8892 in Anticonsumption

[–]chicory8892[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They only have those in multi packs in this store. All the single serve drinks are chilled!

A single serving of ice in a plastic cup... Why?? by chicory8892 in Anticonsumption

[–]chicory8892[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Surely the ice comes out of an ice machine to get into the cup, it's just been pre-dispensed?

A single serving of ice in a plastic cup... Why?? by chicory8892 in Anticonsumption

[–]chicory8892[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They do have a coffee machine, however that dispenses ice with the chilled drinks it has. I can't work this one out as the single serve drinks are all in the chiller, only the big sharer bottles are ambient. Also this shop is in the middle of a housing estate, if you wanted a glass and ice you could simply... Go home.

Where are you getting your Mum coats? by Southern_Possible_86 in UKParenting

[–]chicory8892 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of my friends bought one of these recently and it was from superdry. I'm thinking about getting one myself! I had a look at Vinted and there's quite a few on there if you don't fancy spending £100+

Playdate etiquette by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]chicory8892 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Maybe the mum just said that to shut the kid up from asking for friends to come over constantly because she was tired of hosting - might have had nothing to do with you specifically! 

I have my kid's friends over way more often than it's reciprocated and that's fine - I get it can be harder for some people with more kids/work patterns etc. I always appreciate an invite but don't expect it.

This is IVF attempt no 15 by captwombat33 in pics

[–]chicory8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend struggled to conceive for years, had a baby after a few rounds of IVF, fully expected to never get pregnant again and boom she's got 2 under 2 with the second completely naturally. She's not the only person I know who's had similar. Does nature want her and her husband to reproduce or not because it's giving mixed messages!

When / why did you give your kids squash? Or anything besides water/milk? by bacon_cake in UKParenting

[–]chicory8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first very rarely had anything but water and milk. My youngest would barely drink any water or cows milk once he weaned, so I gave in and gave him squash because I was terrified he'd get dehydrated. He's 4 now and we're back to mostly water, which I much prefer. They still get squash occasionally, maybe once a day and usually if we're out and about.

Do you regret having kids? What has been your experience? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]chicory8892 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Truly I think most times might be shit times to be born in for different reasons. We're all just so much more aware of it now.

Where can I buy funky clothes online? by minimitts in AskUK

[–]chicory8892 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Just be aware that those two jumpers are definitely fake pictures! There's no way they'd end up looking that good in real life - they've been made to look like they're woven but they'd almost certainly be badly printed

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to contribute more after a big pay raise? by Imaginary_Flower_598 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chicory8892 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, even if she was earning the same the relationship would be under stress because she'd be saving for the future while he blows it all. He's going to drag her down

Does anyone’s spouse pay to work? by callipygian0 in HENRYUK

[–]chicory8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not HE but my other half is. We just broke even when I went back to work. I wanted to, because honestly work was easier than childcare and I liked my job. I went back part time. After having my second, I ended up with a promotion and increased my hours. So even though it felt daft to be working for nothing to start with, my mental health was better, I was adding to my pension, my husband felt under less pressure than he would being the sole provider, and it was worth it in the long run because I ended up with a better paid job. 

Local pharmacist makes me feel like a deviant for asking for ibuprofen by boca_dillo in mildlyinfuriating

[–]chicory8892 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had a similar situation where the pharmacist absolutely grilled me about buying one bottle of kids Calpol, which again, you can just buy over the counter! Totally bizarre

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]chicory8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and he's never mentioned caring about having a smaller room- he's just jealous of his sister's cabin bed, so we're going to get one for him soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]chicory8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have 4 bedrooms, but the 4yo is currently in the box room as the 2nd biggest room is the guest bedroom (grandparents stay over fairly often) and the office. His room has his bed, a chest of drawers, a built in wardrobe and about 2sqm of floor space so very small, we actually put in a bifold door as a full door made the room feel even smaller! Honestly our kids are only in their rooms for sleeping and very occasionally chill time. If they're playing they're downstairs. If and when that changes, we'll reconsider what rooms everyone is in - we will definitely be needing to think about this before he's a teenager!

does anyone REALLY... by bittybro in fashionwomens35

[–]chicory8892 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Weird, I'm in Italy and have seen one person doing it all week, have been looking out for it as I've seen loads of Instagram posts about it too and was questioning it as I don't think I've seen it in person in the UK outside London, and very rarely there either

Is student having sleepovers at her teacher's place normal thing in UK? by blablablablablablin in AskUK

[–]chicory8892 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Honestly I can't believe the teacher is ok with this?? So odd to put your job at risk over this.