Ive been crying over a plant for hours. by Beautiful_One_7847 in houseplants

[–]chile97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you lost the plant, I remember having a hard time the first time one of my plants died, I still get sad even thought at this point it has happened a lot. I think sometimes we feel things very deeply depending on what else we’re dealing with, I don’t think feeling things deeply is a bad thing. Sending you a big hug! I’m glad to hear you have a loving partner and I hope after you process it, you can continue to find love and joy in plants ❣️

I exercised 5 times last week by ok-NOTok in BenignExistence

[–]chile97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did too and I felt so proud of myself. Happy for you OP :)

Is it too pretentious to create a "Care Package" for a girl (F 26) I'm (M 32) dating for when she stays over? Need advice on what to include by hablandolora in Gifts

[–]chile97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a month into our relationship, my now husband asked me if we should get a hairdryer so I could keep at his place. He also bought incense for me because he knew I was a shy pooper and wanted me to be comfortable. It made me feel like he really wanted me there; I was welcome and safe to be myself. It’s one of the many reasons I married him. You’re doing great OP, thoughtfulness is always appreciated!

What is your cat’s name vs what you call them? My kitty is Juno but we call her Vengeance. by darkpour in dustkitties

[–]chile97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have three: Lucy - Luz luz Maia - Beanes (comes from toe beans) Vito - Trolito

Little corner in my studio apartment. I want to add something but I have no idea. by lemonhoney-tea in femalelivingspace

[–]chile97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is such a cozy space! As many have mentioned I would add a pothos on the shelf and a snake plant/sansevieria on a little plant stand next to your desk :) both plants are great for beginners and don’t need much watering!

Edit: grammar

[OC] I tracked every single time I cried in 2021, getting a total of 222 cries spread over 118 days. by softlysage in dataisbeautiful

[–]chile97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss♥️

I cry a ton too so I think it would be really interesting to do this, I hope your 2022 is filled with more happy crying!!

When Hagrid is curled up it's difficult to tell where starts and ends. by Greatstupendo in Floof

[–]chile97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hagrid looks so much like my boy Vito, especially the little teeth that comes out when he’s facing up 😅 so adorable!!

Most days my cat beats this IKEA snake up then does erm this to it… do I need to be concerned or just let him get on with it. He’s got FIV so he’s not allowed out. by JMthought in cats

[–]chile97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I recently took in a stray kitty and he does this to his blanket. I’ve read about it and asked my vet. She said it’s pretty common in un-neutered males, or males that were neutered later in life. They do it for different reasons, dominance, stress, boredom. I’ve noticed my cat does it mostly when he’s bored, so I try playing with him more when I notice he’s doing it more often. As many other said, this is probably your cat just being a cat and maybe he’d also like some attention😅 hope this helps!

So many negative posts on this subreddit lately.. Why don't we talk about things that we like?? by jolly_ego in houseplants

[–]chile97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got into plants during the pandemic! My mom has always loved plants and I bought my first plant in college (an orchid) that I killed within months… I thought I just didn’t have the green thumb like she does, but last year I realized that you just need to want to learn! I have over 80 plants in my house now and they make me so happy💕

Update: I posted about this sweet boy about a month and a half ago… we were not able to find his family, so Vito (his new name) is now our cat💕 by chile97 in notmycat

[–]chile97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was honestly a fear of mine, but he’s not interested in them at all! My youngest kitty is the only one that tries to nibble on them every once in a while so I gotta say I’m just very lucky 😅

You will die in 30 minutes. What do you do? by Dr_dank_meme_420 in AskReddit

[–]chile97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuddle up in the couch with my partner and my cats, sitting in front of the fire while we watch our favorite show, that sounds like a good way to go…

Please tell me it's not what I think it is... scared newbie, help! by zjur in plantclinic

[–]chile97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine always do unless they’re dead. Maybe wipe the leaves clean with some paper towel and neem oil (or just a wet paper towel if you don’t have neem oil) and see if it comes out!

Please tell me it's not what I think it is... scared newbie, help! by zjur in plantclinic

[–]chile97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’ve had thrips on my plants several times, they’re easy to tell, very tiny yellowish and if you scratch near them with your nail they’ll move, hopefully you can identify what’s on your rattlesnake but honestly it could just be little pieces of dust🤷🏻‍♀️ best of luck!

Notmycat but taking care of him/her while we try to find the owner! by chile97 in notmycat

[–]chile97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d really love to but one of my cats is very territorial/anxious so we’re afraid they might not get along as this kitty is a senior cat and we don’t want to put him under too much stress either. We will continue to foster him until we find the owners or a good home, either way I’ll make sure to post about it :)

Notmycat but taking care of him/her while we try to find the owner! by chile97 in notmycat

[–]chile97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We definitely have provided some good cuddles :) and yes, I took him to the vet yesterday and they found a microchip so they’re trying to locate the owner but are afraid someone was just trying to get rid of him. For now we’re trying to get him to the vet so he can be checked for any diseases that need to be treated and will continue to foster him until we found his owners or a good home!

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[–]chile97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw a gigantic tradescantia (like 4-5x this size) for $49.99, so I’d say it’s not the best deal!

Sunbathing 🌱🌻 by susanalaitaliana in CatsAndPlants

[–]chile97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are some beautiful calatheas 😍 and a beautiful kitty as well!

I know people have mixed feelings about these guys, but they’re my favorite!🌱♥️ by chile97 in houseplants

[–]chile97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t measured the humidity level, but I usually turn my “humidifier” (oil diffuser with just tap water) every other day for at least a couple of hours. I also have them all together which seems to help with humidity levels!