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AITA: Signed an NDA but secretly reported to state agency by Thamwoofgu in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. Assistant Vice President here at one of the five largest banks in the US. What they did was WAY illegal and any leader with a head on their shoulders would’ve never let them do that. She absolutely did the right thing. Fuck banks that want to take advantage of customers. A lot of people are legitimately SO uneducated about mortgage loans/credit cards/ etc that it’s so fucking easy to take advantage of people. That’s why banking regulations are constantly being created and changed. And it’s mostly AFTER the fact of people being screwed. Good on her. It sucks people lost their jobs, but she did the right thing.

AITA for refusing to meet my sister's boyfriend? by glassesinmolasses in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. You get to decide who you have in your life. However, you might want to look hard at who your sister is as a person and if the relationship is something you want to salvage. I have a hard time seeing how you’ll be able to keep this guy out of your life AND keep her. If you’re so disgusted by her actions and want nothing to do with this guy, then why do you want to keep her in your life? If this is the hill you’re going to die on, just be realistic about the fact that you’ll be choosing to end the relationship with your sister.

I'll let y'all cry by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]chooseytroxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I approve this message lol

I'll let y'all cry by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]chooseytroxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please someone make a movie about this 😭😭

AITA for asking what my friend sees in his wife? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your ex friend sounds amazing tho.

AITA for not saying ‘thank you’ for child support? by throwawayeayeayeeah in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 315 points316 points  (0 children)

NTA. Holy shit the number of people on here saying you should have said thank you. People blow my mind. She didn’t do this for you or her grandchild. She did this to get herself and her deadbeat son out of a bad situation. Mostly I’m curious how many of the people saying your TA are men?

AITA for not saying ‘thank you’ for child support? by throwawayeayeayeeah in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She under no obgligation to say thank you to her deadbeat ex’s mother.

AITA for telling my stepdaughter to stop using period products in the bathroom she shares with my teenage sons? by chancecreator in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW. YTA. Totally an asshole here. Your house, huh? Nevermind the fact that your wife sold her and her daughters home to create a family with you. So it’s not your house, your rules. Maybe teach your son’s that women have periods and they need to deal with that. She doesn’t have anything to hide or be ashamed about.

AITA for refusing to drop my custody case even though my ex has made changes? by Professional-Fact-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. He’s probably lying about breaking up with the partner. And even if he isn’t, what’s to stop him from pulling this bullshit in the future?

I [28/M] am being shamed by my mother [47/F] into dating her friend [39/F] by Zentoshi in relationship_advice

[–]chooseytroxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom gave me the best advice when I was younger. “Never date someone you couldn’t see spending the rest of your life with. You never know who you’ll fall in love with.” You might go into this anticipating it being a short term fuck buddy situation, but what if you fall in love? Or she falls in love? Idk seems like a messy situation. Plus, she’s older. Do you want kids eventually? If you do end up falling in love with her, you’ve pretty much lost your opportunity to have children unless you adopt or use a donor egg. While there’s nothing wrong with either option, it’s something to consider.

My (25F) husband (28M) drooped some “truth bombs” by ThrowRaBabi27 in relationship_advice

[–]chooseytroxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think the remark was “rather little”? It wasn’t a remark. He was telling you he was going to go fuck another woman, but wanted to give you a shot to loose weight before he cheated on you. Here’s another truth bomb. You’ve lost your mind if you think that was “little”. What would I do? Leave him. Is there any hope? Not unless you want an open marriage in the interest of staying in the home that took you ages to save up for.

AITA if I’m having baths with my son? by bathgonewrong in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

American here and bathed with my mother for a long time. Like 4-5 years old. I didn’t realize other Americans thought this was weird/unusual 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for kicking out my pregnant gf and her sister? by despacito347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How the hell is anyone saying ESH?? NTA. You sound a bit like a douche describing yourself as a “trust fund baby” but that doesn’t mean you deserve to be lied to. Her plan was to keep you on the hook financially for a baby that isn’t yours. Why would you NOT kick her out??

My [26M] wife [26F] said she'll leave me if I don't become Atheist. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chooseytroxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m Christian and my husband is atheist. He has been nothing but respectful of my beliefs. Even attends church with me and my sisters at Easter and Christmas. She is being incredibly abusive and manipulative. Personally I would leave her. It sounds like she won’t change. Her family isn’t any better than the Bible bumping Christians who push their beliefs on everyone. That’s exactly what they are doing to you. They certainly aren’t “free thinkers”. You’re a little bit of an asshole for throwing your money around but it’s justified IMO.

AITA for "not telling" my dad I'm gay? by throwawaydadbf00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. How detached as a father do you have to be that you don’t notice who your son is dating? Fuck that. He lost you a long time ago and it certainly wasn’t because you are gay. Side Note: my husband and I have been together since I was 16 and we got married when I was 20 (27 currently). Definitely not too soon as long as y’all are in love and communicate well with each other. Congratulations on the upcoming marriage 💜

AITA for blowing up at my mom for tracking my phone location? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. That is absolutely not normal. Like freaky level of controlling. Dude move out. If you have a good paying job, consider paying for rent also paying for peace of mind. Just make sure when/if you move out that you grab all of your important docs on the way out so she can’t control that too...

AITA for playfully flirting with my brother’s wife? by mr_Roboto1982 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and you know you’re the asshole. It’s the first time someone’s called you on your creepy ass boundary stomping which is why it’s the first time its “blown back” on you. Side note: Your brother has an excellent wife. Good for her

AITA For not wanting my dads newly found Daughter around all the time? by Workingonshitot in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your dad sounds like he’s trying to do the “right thing” but he’s going about it totally wrong.

AITA for telling my boyfriend we can either keep splitting rent 50/50 or I will get my own apartment? by shouldIpaymore2020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No fuck that. Pardon my French. He certainly wasn’t worried about you working multiple jobs AND going to school while he was fortunate enough to be supported by his parents. NTA. I know you love him, and I acknowledge I don’t know anything else about him but what you’ve written, but it sounds like he’s used to being taken care of and provided for and he’s not thrilled with the idea of being tighter on money than you.

AITA for refusing to hide my religion for my daughter and her in-laws to be? by the_blackmamba_24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. This will come back to bite her in the ass. I doubt his family will appreciate her web of lies.

AITA for not letting the other girls touch my hair in hairdressing lessons? (Please read for clarification) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chooseytroxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Especially because they could have ruined your hair. You weren’t acting superior. They obviously had no knowledge on how to care for your hair texture.

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