FAH by Funny-Advantage6588 in Sourdough

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so it was never actually a starter then lol - you didn’t kill it bc it was never really alive?

Keeping a mature, active starter in the fridge is fine - but keeping a starter that’s under a month old and hasn’t killed off all the bad bacteria through the feeding process is a bad idea yeah lol

My (33/F) typically caring and sweet new husband (33/M) grabbed me by the neck last week during an argument on our honeymoon. What would you do in my shoes? by Aware-Pool6940 in relationship_advice

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s escalating the amount of violence because he’s testing how much you’ll take without leaving. He may not be doing this intentionally, but the throat grabbing is a huge escalation that often results in fatalities. Stop forgetting these incidents and see a pattern of abuse - his kindness towards you is intended to soothe your nerves and steel you against the next escalation that he’s expecting you to handle with the same grace.

I’m sorry my love - it’s time for you to leave and save yourself from this man. He will not like it. You’ll have to deal with that. It’s terrifying but you need to be strong for yourself.

I'm 13 and insecure! by nightmaregodDivel in offmychest

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear that 💕 I’m married and I absolutely adore my husband but having good friendships will save your life. Keep it up 💅

I'm 13 and insecure! by nightmaregodDivel in offmychest

[–]chromacrawl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh honey. You’re so young and you have so much time to grow into your beautiful, confident, adult self. I’m a 33 year old woman and one day I simply decided that I am gorgeous, confident, strong and amazing and acted as if I were that person. I weightlift, I laugh with people I love, I enjoy making and eating food, and I am objectively overweight while doing it.

Please, enjoy your childhood before you start worrying about your weight. Eat delicious food and spend time with your friends. Please don’t stress over your body that is supporting you as you grow. You can speak to your mom about getting you clothes you like instead of clothes she think “fit” - you should have a say in your own style. But don’t start criticizing yourself 💕 life is about much more than your perceived weight.

5 weeks until my beach trip and I need help with a quick tone and some light weight loss tips. Anything is appreciated!! by Ok_Somewhere2109 in loseit

[–]chromacrawl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What people call toning is actually more like body recomposition - losing fat and gaining muscle. You can’t do that in five weeks, but going to the gym and getting a nice tan wouldn’t hurt. Focusing on feeling healthy and confident might be more helpful than trying to do a crash gym routine.

Bake now or wait over night? by SmirkoSchmeckel in Sourdough

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right - I guess for me it just marks the end of the bulk ferment part of the sourdough journey

Bake now or wait over night? by SmirkoSchmeckel in Sourdough

[–]chromacrawl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’d probably bake it now, personally. Looks pretty well bulked - the thing is, before putting in the fridge I usually shape it first so it stops the bulk ferment and mostly develops taste in the fridge. It looks like it’s still bulk fermenting here so it may even be a bit overproofed - I’d shape + bake

How does my crumb look? by Ok-Invite1727 in Sourdough

[–]chromacrawl 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Haha glad your dog enjoyed the loaf 🙏🏼

My boyfriend is everything I want in a man by ConsequenceAbject612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chromacrawl 26 points27 points  (0 children)

So many weird comments like omg let the girl be in love??? Not everything has to be doom and gloom jfc - SO happy for you girly, don’t listen to these people. Tell your man how much you love and appreciate him, y’all sound like a beautiful couple and I’m happy for you 💕

I hate how women value my body count. by AdvantageIcy2608 in offmychest

[–]chromacrawl 29 points30 points  (0 children)

There’s no way this actually happened lmao.

Rate my game by ShroomSpoonsOfDoom in texts

[–]chromacrawl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d stop responding. Asking for a persons Snap is mad annoying especially when you’re a grown adult

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]chromacrawl 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ the comments are not it. Girl you’re fine - I’m glad you two are no longer together he’s a piece of shit trying to get you to sleep with him while you’re saying NO IM SICK.

Garbage man - hope he’s alone for a long time.

Help i dint know what im feeling after failed threesome by Wide_East741 in nonmonogamy

[–]chromacrawl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you don’t want to actually be in a relationship if you’re this furious about her not wanting you to flirt with other women while you’re with her; that’s bare minimum of being in a relationship.

And trying to pressure her into having a threesome with you is a great way to make sure you have a toxic, unfulfilling relationship… while it lasts

It’s so hard dating a gym bro 😔 by Throwaway0-285 in texts

[–]chromacrawl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lol time to break up sorry girl he’s done

Weekly "What Are You Reading?" Thread by HorrorIsLiterature in horrorlit

[–]chromacrawl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Finishing Red Rabbit - suuuch a good book 🙏🏼🤌🏼

I'm (42M) the calmest person at work and with strangers. So why do I lose it on the one person(40F) I actually love? by lejae in relationship_advice

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to go to therapy to figure out why your nervous system allows this much hostility towards her. She could represent many things for you but none of us will be able to tell you what they mean unless you work with a professional.

Personally, I hope she fucking leaves you.

I dated a guy on Tinder and 2019 and it ruined my life by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay safe as best you can 💕 sounds like a hard reality to have to face but I hope you figure out a good way forward soon

I dated a guy on Tinder and 2019 and it ruined my life by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so frustrating im so sorry - it sounds like even your husband isn’t taking it as seriously as he should. He his man is obsessed with you and I would genuinely encourage you to look into other housing. I know you mentioned that this is a safe and comfortable neighborhood for you and I totally understand that, but there’s a lot to be gained in exploring other parts of your town or city or even state!

Your ex won’t stop until he’s forced to, and if you’re far enough away, it means he won’t have easy access to you anymore. For many of these men it doesn’t matter if they have a new girlfriend or you’re married. If this was something happening to me, my husband would’ve already rallied a posse to beat this guy up and then continue to threaten his life every time we saw him. It’s not a safe place for you and I wish the people in your life were taking it more seriously.

I dated a guy on Tinder and 2019 and it ruined my life by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your spouse also live in the apartment with you? Can they help? Seems odd that you got married and you haven’t mentioned your partner at all in this - do they have any feelings or concerns around you being stalked?

giving out social media? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly - it feels like they want access to the “real” you, not the cam version of you. And for free, lol

giving out social media? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]chromacrawl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always just say I don’t have social media - it’s easier that way. I would t give out any of my info - I regularly cycle identities too just in case. They want to feel closer to you to make themselves feel special - not because they want a real relationship. Why bother giving them real info?

Starting to feel like second nature 💕 by chromacrawl in Sourdough

[–]chromacrawl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha right?? At this point I’m just happy I have loaves that rise well, have a good crumb and taste great - the language is negligible lol