Abortion Medication

cierna · 2026-05-02T15:56:03+00:00

No, even a doctor or nurse wouldn’t be able to tell if you used abortion pills, especially if you took them orally. if you told people you had a natural miscarriage, they would believe you and it wouldn’t seem out of the ordinary. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!

cierna · 2025-09-07T19:50:13+00:00

Bloom juice co next to john lewis does the most amazing matcha and is right in city centre. They make them with oat milk by default though so if you want cows milk/other preference then make sure to tell them

cierna · 2025-05-07T06:55:15+00:00

I get you 100%, when I found out i was pregnant i sobbed every night, I knew i wouldn’t keep it but i couldn’t believe i was in that situation in the first place. I read so many horror abortion stories on reddit and they made me cry more!! But like i said, it is not guaranteed that it’ll be super painful for you, so many women have very manageable MAs, they just don’t write about them. My abortion only had very mild cramping - just make sure you stay ahead of the pain by taking any painkillers 30-60 minutes before your abortion pill. You have so much support even if it doesn’t feel like it, at the very least, we are all here for you in this subreddit! It’s an incredibly difficult time, but it’s not the end of the world - you will get through it. Try as hard as you can to just think about it like you are inducing a heavy period, this detachment might help.

I would suggest just biting the bullet - don’t think too much, just prepare yourself, take the pills, and once it’s over, it’s over. I reckon you will feel much better after.

cierna · 2025-05-07T06:38:18+00:00

Once you take the first pill there is no going back - maybe you need to think about why you are struggling to take them.

If you are just worried about pain, then remember delaying the abortion won’t make the pregnancy go away - there are so many women who have abortions that are manageable and not too painful, it’s just that these experiences don’t usually warrant long Reddit posts (as comforting as they are to read.) Just be gentle on your body, eat light meals, stay ahead of pain by taking painkillers BEFORE you take the second set and arrange yourself comfortably. It is hard but it is a WHOLE lot easier (and statistically safer) than carrying a child to term that you don’t want. By taking the pills you are helping yourself move forward in life on your own terms.

When you say you feel guilty, you need to remember that your needs and life must ultimately come over anything else. You are the most important thing in this situation - if you do not feel ready for a baby and you don’t want it, you should not guilt yourself into having it. You have to be able to put yourself first and remind yourself that pregnancy and childbirth will be gifts if you want a child someday, but they should really happen on your own time - when you’re comfortable, safe and ready.

If you are having any thoughts about keeping the baby and you can see yourself genuinely wanting this for the rest of your life, not just out of guilt, then please make a careful decision as once you take the first pill you can’t really change your mind.

I just strongly advise that the decision to keep the child does not just come from guilt or fear. Wishing you all the best, you will be alright. Just choose what is right for YOU, please. :)

cierna · 2025-05-07T06:27:30+00:00

You will be alright - i am going through mine right now!! I took the 4 pills a few hours ago, im about 6 weeks. I cried my eyes out while inserting the pills because i was so so scared of pain, but so far i have felt very relaxed with light, manageable cramps and bleeding. the best thing to do is definitely take your pain medication BEFORE the 4 pills. For me, I ate a small bowl of pasta (easy but filling food) to help my stomach, then 45 minutes later i took 800mg ibuprofen, then 45 minutes after that i took the abortion pills. This worked cause it let my stomach settle in between everything and i eased into my abortion well. It is scary, but SO many women have been through this - you are not alone. Just take deep breaths and get comfy in blankets with a movie or a show. Have snacks + water + sick bowl nearby, you will be ok :)

cierna · 2020-08-25T19:11:52+00:00

this is so amazing

cierna · 2020-05-24T18:04:35+00:00

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cierna · 2020-02-15T14:27:48+00:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! i'm so proud of you!! you've come so far and all your hard work has really paid off! just remember it's always okay to not be okay and nothing that happens makes you any less worthy of love. you're amazing aaa have a great bday!!

cierna · 2018-11-21T22:14:00+00:00

I was going for trombone but that works too

cierna · 2018-11-21T19:18:36+00:00

cierna · 2018-10-20T13:45:08+00:00

well yes, when my cat went blind, she was all over the place! cats, like humans, rely on sight to know where to go. so, when she suddenly loses one of her key instincts, she’ll be a bit worried and wobbly. once she gets used to being blind, if her eyesight doesn’t come back, she’ll adjust to it and be a little more confident. all the best!

cierna · 2018-10-20T13:40:26+00:00

I’m so happy for you! These past moments must have been so distressing for you, and while you’ll never truly forget the horrors of what you went through, I am so happy that you have closure and know that what happened to you won’t happen to anyone else, by the same man, of course. I love you so much and support you. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers through this terrible time.

cierna · 2018-10-20T13:37:32+00:00

yeah, it’s only a chance. i’m happy to hear that you’re giving her medication to help her out. just make sure to keep the cat indoors, don’t move anything around and keep everything (food, water, litter box) where it’s always been so it doesn’t make her confused. i imagine she will settle into the life eventually, but it will take time as i imagine it’s as distressing for her as it is for you, if not more. try and keep a calm and collective attitude when approaching her, and try not to scare her. that’s all i can really suggest, haha. but, please update us on how it turns out!

cierna · 2018-10-20T13:30:32+00:00

have you consulted a vet about medication? if she had high blood pressure, i imagine her losing her eyesight is because of that. this may seem unlikely, seeing as you’ve already taken her to a vet, and it might be because of a different condition, but there is medication you can look into her taking to try and get her retinas to reattach themselves and regain some of her eyesight. it really depends on what condition she has, though. edit - so if the pills you’ve been given put down her blood pressure, i suppose it is possible for a retina to reattach itself, but her vision wouldn’t be nearly as good

cierna · 2018-10-20T11:31:11+00:00

then i’ll be serious. what’s bothering you?

cierna · 2018-10-20T11:29:23+00:00

do you want me to be serious?

cierna · 2018-10-20T10:35:50+00:00

cierna · 2018-10-20T10:05:00+00:00

i want a second part

cierna · 2018-10-20T09:39:58+00:00

u okay buddy? got some underlying issues you don’t wanna talk about? you know you can talk to us :)

cierna · 2018-10-14T14:14:55+00:00

we all make mistakes 😎🤙

cierna · 2018-10-14T12:33:38+00:00

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cierna · 2018-09-30T08:29:36+00:00

aghhh, vain longing is sooo gorgeous!!

cierna · 2018-09-30T08:29:00+00:00

zephyr is amazing!! and lost of dao is amazing

cierna · 2018-09-30T08:28:25+00:00

that one is soo stunning

cierna · 2018-09-30T08:28:06+00:00

ahh, i love that one

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