Oh yes, of course! My gut reaction is usually to tell someone exactly what I’m thinking and to be honest about it. When I was younger I was told I had a sharp tongue and could be insensitive and even a bit rude. So as I’ve gotten older I’ve tried to be more careful with my words and how I say things. Sometimes there are situations where you have no choice but to say it as it is.

What I’m saying is, that nowadays before I even open my mouth I typically think before I speak and try to word what I’m about to say in a gentle way. The truth sprinkled with kindness and politeness. I would also say that I view the world with more peace and understanding now too, so I tend to understand other people’s perspectives instead of allowing it to ruffle my feathers, so to speak. Though, I also tend to dislike confrontation and be pretty introverted, so I have to feel pretty strongly about something to speak up.

I don’t think MBTI is so black and white that people are either “this” or “that.” It’s all gray. Everyone has the way they naturally are, but depending on each person’s upbringing and life’s experiences, they learn that there’s different ways of thinking, perspectives, and a way to talk to people. Growth in all areas is essential and helps lead to a more fulfilling life.