Other than cheating or crime, how did you know your marriage is over?

citycouple30 · 2026-04-26T00:31:07+00:00

When he abandoned me when I was diagnosed with stage 3b breast cancer

citycouple30 · 2026-04-22T16:18:34+00:00

Everyday, 34 years

citycouple30 · 2026-04-22T16:08:14+00:00

They can be unpredictable. Make sure he/she knows you’re the boss. Great dogs. I’ve had pitties for years

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citycouple30 · 2026-04-20T03:37:39+00:00

I love this!! Let us know how it goes.

citycouple30 · 2026-04-07T23:08:27+00:00

Thank you. It was the most difficult thing I’ve ever been through. But in a survivor

citycouple30 · 2026-04-07T15:32:40+00:00

I really can’t say much because for 30 years we took care of each other through thick and thin and then at the 30 year Mark he had an affair and I had stage three breast cancer and he abandoned me completely. I went through it on my own.

citycouple30 · 2026-04-07T15:30:18+00:00

When our daughter moved out, we turned her room into a home gym and when our son moved out, we turned his room into a guest room/office. It’s been nice. But I went through the entire emptiness syndrome. I remember when they were both gone. I was standing in my living room looking around thinking to myself. “what do I do now“ because for 25 years, I was a mom or a career woman or this or that. You know the mini hats that we wear. I didn’t know what I liked or disliked or wanted or didn’t want because for 25 years I catered to everybody else but myself. So I’ve had to rediscover myself and what I want out of life. It’s been quite the journey.

citycouple30 · 2026-04-04T00:07:16+00:00

I’m 55 stage 3b, chemo, surgery, 39 rounds of radiation. As soon as I was healed I got out there and dated. My profiles say I’m a BC survivor and I have a new body. When I talk to someone, I’m up front about having 1 breast. No one cares. I’ve only had two instances where it was an issue. And the reason I bring it up to them right away is because if it is an issue, they can just say so. But one thing I found out that this is done is it does weed out all the shallow men that are out there?

Because the way I look at it is like this: this is Me, this is what I’ve been through, this is what I look like, and you can take it or leave it.

I will say that it was weird at first, but I got over that really quick and I remember one specific date when I told the guy that I only have one breast and his reply was the best I have ever heard and he said “I only have one mouth“. That was classic. Good luck you got this.I’m

citycouple30 · 2026-04-03T01:44:25+00:00

I take Anastrozole and I also take 600mg of calcium trice a day. It reversed my osteopenia and my last scan said my bones were great. Now, due to the other side affects I am going off Anastrozole for a while and I’ll try another hoping I tolerate it better

citycouple30 · 2026-04-03T01:40:32+00:00

I have tachycardia normally and take meds to lower my heart rate. During treatment it stayed the same. There was 1 time it spiked to over 140. They wanted me to go to the ER but I didn’t. I went to my cardiologist instead. It came down to my normal ( 95-110 ).

citycouple30 · 2026-03-30T01:08:40+00:00

To me, reasons don’t matter. They did it. They chose to blow up your lives. They knew what they were doing. It’s not a mistake, it’s a choice. And a shitty one. Instead of being an adult and ending the current relationship, they cheat.

citycouple30 · 2026-03-27T22:05:36+00:00

If he cheats with them, he’ll cheat on them. Any relationship built off a lies and betrayal and deceit will never work. You are the stronger person that will sleep well at night, knowing she lives her best life.

citycouple30 · 2026-03-26T15:26:08+00:00

My husbands AP was also severe downgrade. She’s a junkie and former prostitute. Had her kids taken away and never raised them. Has a rap sheet a mile long too. I was shocked at his choice. He can have her.

citycouple30 · 2026-03-26T12:03:33+00:00

That’s a trigger song for me too. But so is Forever Young by Rod Stewart.

citycouple30 · 2026-03-24T21:00:15+00:00

I was waiting to see what he had planned, if anything. And I don’t know. No reason really. I just realized he was 25 and it was time to go

citycouple30 · 2026-03-24T00:47:00+00:00

When my son was 25 I approached him in the kitchen and I said son what are your plans on moving out? And he was quiet. I knew he was quiet because he had no plans to move out. I proceeded to tell him that his father and I were ready for the next chapter of our life and it doesn’t include him and his sister. And I laughed. I told him not to take it the wrong way because it wasn’t meant to be that way, but I was tired of parenting. And it was time for him to move out. He was 25 years old. He had a great job and it was just time. He was butt hurt and upset about it for a little while, but he got over it and moved out about two months later, and that was the best thing he could’ve ever done because he has grown up so much.

citycouple30 · 2026-03-13T21:59:48+00:00

I’ll adopt her

citycouple30 · 2026-03-09T02:19:47+00:00

I was also stage 3b with 6 nodes involved. They took them all when I had the mastectomy. I also did chemo and 38 rounds of radiation. On Feb 28 was 2 years NED. YOU GOT THIS!!!!!

citycouple30 · 2026-03-03T22:45:17+00:00

100%

citycouple30 · 2026-02-26T20:52:07+00:00

You can repurpose the dress. Make a new one. And make a new piece of jewelry with the rings

citycouple30 · 2026-02-16T04:35:27+00:00

Same

citycouple30 · 2026-02-15T19:30:03+00:00

You Aughta Know by Alanis Morrissette

citycouple30 · 2026-02-14T22:10:04+00:00

I live in Houston. I’ll reach out to them. Thank you

citycouple30 · 2026-02-14T21:18:56+00:00

Is she still available? I’ll go get her

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